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cheated of girlfriend
hi, 17/m
my friend had a party yesterday at a hotel room. At this party, my two friends (who are cousins) were invited. They are amazingly good looking blondes. At this party, alcohol got to everyone- the blonde cosuing started making out, and i was getting rather excited, and amused. My girlfriend saw this and felt uncomfortable and left the hotel room for fresh air.
I talked to her, and she told me that she wasnt comfortable watching them make out, and then we were fine. Also, i kissed both of the blondes. Some of the people saw it, but my girlfriend was not in the room. What do i do? My girlfriend doesnt know. Should i tell her? Or keep it a secret? Obviousely it was a stupid decision on my part, but i was very drunk!
thanks a bunch folks!
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i think you should tell her. it might make her mad at you and very upset but its not fair. keeping secrets in a relationship is the worse thing you can do. if your gf found out from someone else she is going to feel like you were just using her. and even if she didnt find out what sort of a bf are you if you cant tell her the truth. i know you're probably scared of telling her, but you have to do it. if you do tell her though, dont say it was because you were drunk, that will only make her more upset. say something like 'i know im the biggest dick head ever, and i wish i never did it because now i know that you are the most perfect girl ever, and all i could want is you' abuse yourself. i know it sound silly but girls feel better when you say that sort of stuff. make her feel like she is needed and that you're sorry. using 'i was drunk' as an excuse is very stupid, she wont want to hear that and you'll probably cause her to get more angry at you.
i hope this helped out a bit :)
good luck
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tell her its the best way from you to feel better. and if it was you the one who got cheated on you would want to know. and remember drunken actions sober thoughts.
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Tell her about it. It's better for her to hear it from you than someone else.
Either way though, if I were her, I wouldn't keep you around. Alcohol isn't an excuse to cheat.
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yeah you need to tell her before someone else does, which sooner or later they will. it sucks for the person cheated on either way but any girl/guy would rather hear it from their boy/girlfriend then finding out by someone else.
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If you don't tell her, somebody else definately will. It's just too juicy a detail for them to keep quiet on.
And then you are competely screwed.
Fess up first, and you might have a chance to mend it and make it up to her.
If she finds out from someone else, she might never forgive you. In her place, I wouldn't.
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