Why do guys always seem to cheat? I just don't understand it. You give them everything they could possibly want and then you find them flirting with other women and junk. What am I doing wrong? It's like nobody can be faithful anymore
sml111992 answered Friday August 21 2009, 3:18 pm: well sometimes maybe the guy wants you to be more loving or he doesnt get enough action from you or you guys are distant but, some guys are guys and cant stand being around just one gril and thts how it is. i think that whatever relationship your in he is going to cheat on you at one point in time. its sad but happends. trust me. i always give someone a second chance and put it past myself but thats me. and if your not ready to do sexual anything then dont. he can jack off or something. [ sml111992's advice column | Ask sml111992 A Question ]
es answered Friday August 21 2009, 12:11 am: I feel your pain!
Well, psychologically speaking, men can't handle being in relationships. It's like they aren't programed for staying with one female.
But the ones that follow this have no morals.
The ones who cheat aren't worth your time, your energy or even a thought. Laugh at them because they are pathetic. They can have EVERYTHING with you but they stupidely choose the wrong path. They are ridiculous. But when the lucky one comes along, he'll know what you have to offer and he'll be welcoming you with open arms. Don't give up. There are many faithful guys out there, and the ones that arent will be playing the chasing game all their lives.
In the meantime, don't let it get you down. You'll find the one that belongs with you, and when you do, he'll appreciate you and the thought of another woman won't cross his mind. [ es's advice column | Ask es A Question ]
Darling_Wanderer answered Thursday August 20 2009, 11:40 pm: You just have to find the right person. Yes, a lot of men cheat, but a lot of men don't. One day you'll find one of the good ones that has no problem being in a commited relationship. I promise you, they exist. Just hold in there.
Know that it's not you though. It's them. Some people just don't know how to communicate; if there's one little problem in a relationship they feel they have to turn to someone else. (Not saying that's why all guys cheat. The stupid reasons vary.)
But if you find out you've been cheated on, don't stay in the relationship and try to justify what they did. Get out, and find someone who would never even consider cheating on you.
xosodapopx3 answered Thursday August 20 2009, 11:30 pm: Its truely not you, its them. Any guy that is unfaithful to you isn't right for you, is a jerk, and is most definately not meant to be. Ask guys you date first if they are commited and into having a long term relationship, most guys that say yes without hesitating will be around alottttt longer. :-)
Good luck!!!! [ xosodapopx3's advice column | Ask xosodapopx3 A Question ]
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