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Male body language help!
Posted Friday January 15 2010, 10:52 am
I read a list of the body language signs men send out if they are attracted to a girl. Here are some I noticed with this one guy:
1. He fixes his hair a lot when I see him. I was walking towards him this one time, no one was behind me, and one minute he is walking normally and the next he is fixing his hair.
2. He fixed his socks. Once again, I was walking toward his direction and one minute, walking normally, and the next he bends down and fixes his socks or does something with his shoes.
3. He looks at me a lot. His eyes linger a second, I dunno, maybe I just look funny. He sits in front of me in one class and he looked back at me 2 or 3 times. It was actually kinda strange, like he was scare...
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Unsure about BF
Posted Friday January 15 2010, 5:04 am
im 21 female and my bf is 23.im on holiday at the moment.i flew out 3months ago and met my bf here while being on holiday with my family.we really clicked at the beginning and since ill be back next year we decided to have a long distance relationship.we both got eachother promise rings and i really do love him but the thing is im having problems trying to read him.im afraid hes gone off me.
at the beginning of the relationship he was all really sweet and loving and kind and cared about me.he use to always call and want to see me and send me txt messages telling me he misses me and loves me etc.
Now 3months have gone by and about a week ago (same time he brought his car)hes been acting distant.i go overseas in 6days and i thou...
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will there be a chance for us to be back together?
Posted Friday January 15 2010, 4:03 am
I just broke up with my bf for the past 2 weeks and I am thinking whether do I still have a chance in getting him back? what should I do to get him back?
The problem between my ex and I were, he was not able to share things with me as a bf and gf where before we got into relationship, he was able to share things with me. First few months of the relationship, he was still able to share with me but somehow he kept everything to himself after that. He even told me that his "safety box" can't be opened by anyone else but him alone, not even for his past gfs who he was in relationship with for the past 7 years. Then he told me that he will give me the chance to try things out with him cause I have faith in the relationsh...
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whats my problem?
Posted Friday January 15 2010, 2:26 am
okay i dont know how to put this without sounding stuck up.. im a good looking chill girl who can usually get any guy she wants. im great with guys but i never ever like any of them. its rare that i find a guy i have feelings for. well i met this guy that just blows my mind. we clicked the moment we met and we are so much alike. our relationship is perfect. the problem? anytime i finally meet a guy i actually like i get nervous. i cant keep a conversation going and im shy. i went from being this confident cute girl that my boyfriend was soo goo goo over to a girl that doesnt say much. i think the reason im like this is cus my ex really brainwashed me and now i have a hard time opening up to ppl. i am not able to open up to my boyfriend AT A...
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sex
Posted Thursday January 14 2010, 10:23 pm
So I am a lesbian and I am younger than my gf im 21 shes 28. I am very horny a lot and we dont have sex as much as id like. But the other night we was drinkin her friend had friends over and she was tellin these guys how tight i was how she was gonna get some tonight she had me all worked up all day then shes like my head hurts. I said tht was rude of her to get me all worked up and to say what she did to those guys. I am starting to feel like I am too fat or not pretty enough for her. What can I do? And no I dont wanna break up with her
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How can I not have to beg for his attention?
Posted Thursday January 14 2010, 9:37 pm
I love my fiance, I really do, but some nights I have to beg him for sex. I am not exactly healthy, I'm in pretty bad shape and he's genuinely concerned about my health and hurting me but it makes me feel bad to have to cry and beg to get physical attention. I have issues with my hands but moreso with my back. Is there anything I can do to get him to stop being so protective? It's not something I can ask friends or family so I'm hoping strangers won't be biased. (early 20s, female)
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exxx.
Posted Thursday January 14 2010, 9:19 pm
So, me and my ex boyfriend dated for about 10 months. He was a really sweet guy except that he lied to me sometimes and talked to other girls. I was mad at him for the longest time and now we are kind of friends. Its been about 2 months since weve been broke up. All my friends hate him because he made me cry. But he wants me back really bad and calls me crying and i know he loves me still. He tells me he is going to try to be a better person but i have already gave him many chances. I feel bad and im not sure what to do? I like him and still have feelings for him but my friends would kill me and i dont want to be treated wrong again. Even if i really wanted to date him, i wouldnt right now anyways. im just confused. What should i do?
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im so confused
Posted Thursday January 14 2010, 5:12 pm
ok so i have a boyfriend. we have been dating for 1 yr. and 3 months.....well heres the thing...i might be falling in love with someone else....its confusing but really he treats me better...i feel like i wanna break up with my boyfriend....but i dont know. Im really interested in my in him but i lov my boyfriend....please help!
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Long but main topic: sex
Posted Wednesday January 13 2010, 7:52 pm
Alright then... This is gonna be long but, main topic: sex. Here's whats up. When me and my girlies were like ten haha we made this dinky little pact/promise that we would wait for marriage to have sex. And since then thats what Ive always wanted. I am a pretty strict catholic so not only is that like a big rule in the church, Ive just wanted it done that way. I wanted my first time to be with that special guy that Ive waited my life for, and will spend the rest of it with him. I'm a sucker for that romantic stuff hahah. Plus to me (tooootally not passing judgement here) Ive always found it kind of trashy to have sex in highschool. Not that I look down on anyone or think any differently of those who have, thats just what Ive always thought ...
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what do i do?
Posted Wednesday January 13 2010, 6:06 pm
18/f
i'm one of those people that when i really want something, i fight for it.
so i'm still in love with my ex. he's going through a tonnn of shit right now and i guess he's just trying to find himself, if you could say. we talk and he confides in me...like he tells me things he said he hasn't told anyone, even his parents. he knows i'll always be there for him. you can say we're pretty good friends. howevvverrr, i always have to text/call him first. he never does it. and i've been trying to see him this week and he blew me off twice (the first time he was sick but then i texted him the day after and he said he was still sick) or maybe do you think he doesn't want to see me? we've broken up in the past before and hung...
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getting a bf.
Posted Wednesday January 13 2010, 12:18 pm
im 18 and i need a date for this weekend. im not very good with getting guys. some girls are a magnet for guys because they're very hott. i dont think im one of those girls...
maybe im not attractive but i am pretty. i guess i dont catch many guys' eyes. i think im abnormally pretty; i have many flaws and not very great bone structure, but i think i am cute and charming.
i like cute and charming guys. i guess i attract the guys im not really interested in. like the ones who only want sex or the ones with terrible personalities.. or ones who are shorter than me /:
anyways, how do i get a guy?
i havent flirted with guys since...
in the past, one or two guys really hurt me, and they've made me insecure of m...
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my sister and him?? i feel so betrayed..am i being unfair?
Posted Wednesday January 13 2010, 9:25 am
17 f
im sorry if its a little long its a long story but i would apreciate it if u guys read the whole thing. ok so about a month ago i met a really cute 20 yea old guy. he asked me to hang out alot of times but i wasnt able to. this saturday night i was able to and we met up at his house. i asked my sister (whose 20 yrs old also) to take me. so she took me and i was at his house just talking we did makeout like once and by the time i got home i was already totally hooked on this guy. he seemed like a good guy. so sunday rolled around and he asked me to hang out and i brought my sister and cousins. we went bowling then to a cafe. i was really nervous and never spoke muh but i noticed him and my sister spoke alot and my ousin even told...
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how do i get this guy to open up?
Posted Wednesday January 13 2010, 8:52 am
im 17/f
hes 19/m
so i've had about 13 or so boyfriends, and hes had about 5 girlfriends. (im not a virgin, he is) we met on a site called myyearbook and we met at restaurant ,had dinner and its been a week and we've hung out/gone out together 4 or so times. we've kissed,held hands,he compliments me,ect. im interested in having a mature relationship with him. not just a high school fling, if that makes sense.
he texted me "how do you like me so far?" and i told him how he was smart,cute,funny, and how i felt being with him, ect. then i asked him the same and he said "i think your really cool. i like that you accept me for who i am and that you want to hang with me?"
sounds like something a frie...
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crushed
Posted Wednesday January 13 2010, 2:14 am
so im a 13 year old girl and i feel left out and i was wonder what are ways to get a good boyfriend but i mean really whats wrong with me beacuse iv been trying hard but really i just dont know what to do
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weird..
Posted Tuesday January 12 2010, 9:37 pm
Me and this boy have been talking for not to long ,less than a month.We talk at school a lot and hangout on the weekends.Yesterday we only talked at school and he said he would call/text me later and he didn't. But he kissed me at school,so im assuming he does like me.Today,he called me and we chilled right after school for a few hours and he kissed me ,held my hand ..that kinda stuff while we were hanging out.When i had to go home,he told me he would text me or call me later and help me with the homework we had.he never did! I don't really text him first very often but i don't want to seem annoying.Maybe he is just taking it really slow and doesn't want to be obsessed? What do you think!
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This guy I'm kind of dating
Posted Tuesday January 12 2010, 7:42 pm
Well, I've known this guy for 4 years he'll be 21 in March I'm 17 going on 18 in May. OKAY, here goes: he dated my sister for almost 2 years and they recently broke up in December 2009. He hates her, he wants nothing to do w/ her. She cheated on him 3 times and he knows. But she is the one who dumped him. & after they broke up he was telling me he was butt hurt and stuff like that because he loved her but then I remembered when he found out she cheated, he wanted to dump her, and she was crying and begging him for another chance and all that. But anyway, he knew I liked him I started liking him a couple of months before they broke up like around October 2009 and he knew about it. So when they broke up, we didn't see each other for a wee...
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Air force
Posted Tuesday January 12 2010, 1:38 pm
Has anyone ever had a boyfriend or husband in the air force? What's it like?
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Hard choice
Posted Tuesday January 12 2010, 1:38 pm
19/f
I've been with my boyfriend for about two years. We recently broke up for a few days but decided to get back together and try our hardest to solve our problems and change things. While we were broken up, he told me that if we didn't end up back together, he was going to join the air force. However, he wouldn't if we were still together, since he didn't want to be away from me for that long. I really think being in the air force would be good for him, and there's nothing else he really wants to do with his life. I love him a lot, and I want to do what's best for him and not be selfish.
So what's the right thing to do? End things now (I think we're just not ready to be in a relationship now anyway, we need time) so he can...
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becoming an "army wife"
Posted Monday January 11 2010, 11:47 pm
Hello im 19 and my boyfriend who is 21 wants to join the army/military. Not full blown army but like working with computers and such. He asked me what i thought yesterday and it was kind of a shock. He said him and one of his friends were talking about joining and he convinced him to go. He basically is just waiting my "approval" but i want him to do what makes him happy. He said after he goes for basic training he will only have to leave one weekend out of the month for like 2 years. Im not really sure how anything works. He just brought this upon me yesterday. The only downfall is that he will be gone for 10 months touring afghanistan or something. We've been together for about 2 years now and 10 months is a long time and i dont...
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pain, sex, fingering, confusion...
Posted Monday January 11 2010, 11:05 pm
I am 14/f and my bf is 16/m. We were both in a relationship, we both broke up around the same time, and we started dating axpromiately three months after the break ups. So there was a gap. But the exes are whats causing some problems. His ex... Lets call her S and well call my boyfriend B. Alright so before I even knew B or liked him or anything, I've hated S. I reeeally don't want to go in to the details of why all that hatred is there but yeah... And my ex, isn't exactly important except that he really screwed me up. He was sixteen while we were dating and I was fourteen. After about a month he tried to have sex with me. I told him no, I wasn't ready, I'm too young. And he broke up with me. He told me that he was only dating me because he...
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