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sex So I am a lesbian and I am younger than my gf im 21 shes 28. I am very horny a lot and we dont have sex as much as id like. But the other night we was drinkin her friend had friends over and she was tellin these guys how tight i was how she was gonna get some tonight she had me all worked up all day then shes like my head hurts. I said tht was rude of her to get me all worked up and to say what she did to those guys. I am starting to feel like I am too fat or not pretty enough for her. What can I do? And no I dont wanna break up with her
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Well as you know Im a lesbian. What you want to do is not think negative thoughts about yourself, because that is low self esteem. What I would do is sit down with her, and describe how you felt when she said that. maybe she will understand the situation. Now if you want to get enough sex keep her away from any big distractions. Read my story see if that will help. ]
you have to ways of using to help you
you can use them alone or you can use them together
you decide
you can talk to her lightly without pressure
or you can try aousing her more
not just physically
but in many areas
you can eat her out by surprise or you can let her eat you out.
theres many ways of going about this. just take it easy and make sure this is really what you and she wants ]
Sit her down and talk to her and tell her how you feel and how her getting you all worked up like that and then doing nothing is not nice and very rude and that you love her and dont want this to affect your relationship and that this is a way for you both to express your love im sure if you just sit her down and have a rational and caring conversation with her she will understand you and be willing to do what you want. good luck :) ]
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