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How can I not have to beg for his attention?
I love my fiance, I really do, but some nights I have to beg him for sex. I am not exactly healthy, I'm in pretty bad shape and he's genuinely concerned about my health and hurting me but it makes me feel bad to have to cry and beg to get physical attention. I have issues with my hands but moreso with my back. Is there anything I can do to get him to stop being so protective? It's not something I can ask friends or family so I'm hoping strangers won't be biased. (early 20s, female)
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it's great that he is concerned. but you have to tell him that if you had to live in a padded room then life wouldnt be worth living. you need to experience life and one of it's greatest joys is a sex life. it helps you be closer, it feels good ,it makes you feel pretty and good about yourself. tell him that this is one time you don't want or need to be protected.
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I know you probably will think this wont work but you'll be surprised just sit him down and talk to him about it and tell him how you feel and that you need him to do what you want and that him not is making you feel bad because you feel like you have to beg for his attention im sure if you give him reasons and explain it to him he wont turn you down and will consider doing what you want. Good luck :)
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