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So, me and my ex boyfriend dated for about 10 months. He was a really sweet guy except that he lied to me sometimes and talked to other girls. I was mad at him for the longest time and now we are kind of friends. Its been about 2 months since weve been broke up. All my friends hate him because he made me cry. But he wants me back really bad and calls me crying and i know he loves me still. He tells me he is going to try to be a better person but i have already gave him many chances. I feel bad and im not sure what to do? I like him and still have feelings for him but my friends would kill me and i dont want to be treated wrong again. Even if i really wanted to date him, i wouldnt right now anyways. im just confused. What should i do?
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here's something you'll learn once you've been in a really long, committed relationship; communication is the link to a perfect relationship. whenever you have a problem with one another, you should come right out and say it, that way, the other is fully aware that something is bothering you, and if they care, they'll try to make it better so you guys can stay together. picture this: a boy and a girl are dating, they are very much in love and have so much in common, so basically perfect, right? anyways, the guy gets a text message from his ex, wanting to meet him. he doesnt tell his girlfriend because she knows this ex and would probably be very upset to know that he met up with her, so he goes to meet his ex without telling the girlfriend. the boy goes and talks to his ex, who wants him back. he says, no, he's in a very good relationship now and he doesn't want to ruin it. bad news? his girlfriend's bff saw him with his ex, and she told his girlfriend. she confronts him about it, and when he tries to explain, she thinks he's making up excuses and breaks up with him. this could have been totally solved if he had told her in the first place.
liars can make communication problems pop up. if he lies and talks to other girls, this is strike one. you guys break up. you decided to give him another chance, and it happens all over again. you try AGAIN, and it happens again. each time he swears he'll change but he won't. the problem is, he's probably not ready for a relationship that'll last. your friends wouldn't hate you for doing what makes you happy, but is it whats best for your heart? you just said you didn't want to get treated wrongly again, so dont. you guys can still continue to be friends, and who knows? maybe in the future he WILL change, and things will work out :) for now, just do what you think is best for you.
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I dont think you should give him another chance because you have given him chances already and giving a guy who hurt you more than once another chance is just stupidity so i think you should listen to your friends and not get back with him and just move on because your confused too so i dont think your ready to forgive him plus im sure you can find someone better and dont feel bad youve been broken up for awhile then that relationship ends there and theres nothing more to it trust me ive been through this and its not worth it.
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