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will there be a chance for us to be back together?
I just broke up with my bf for the past 2 weeks and I am thinking whether do I still have a chance in getting him back? what should I do to get him back?
The problem between my ex and I were, he was not able to share things with me as a bf and gf where before we got into relationship, he was able to share things with me. First few months of the relationship, he was still able to share with me but somehow he kept everything to himself after that. He even told me that his "safety box" can't be opened by anyone else but him alone, not even for his past gfs who he was in relationship with for the past 7 years. Then he told me that he will give me the chance to try things out with him cause I have faith in the relationship that it will get solved.
But somehow, at the same time he told me that I am going to suffer if I am to cling on to him because by end of this month, he will work with his father and he will be busy trying to fix his family back financially. He told me that he does not want me to feel neglected at that moment.
He did alot for me like giving me a surprised birthday just one month before our breakup and bought me an expensive gift for my birthday present. We still did what couples do like making out just few days before our breakup.
And the very last thing he told me was "i'm too good for him". What does that actually mean for a guy? Did he let me go just because he love me not to see me suffer anymore being together with him?
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i'm sorry dear.. there's just a slightest bit of a chance for you to get back together.. He felt that there's still a lot of things goin on and he needed to fix things one step at a time and if it will have to include his personal life, he'll do it.. he just doesnt feel that you're the right one to share his life with.. i didnt want you to understand this in a different way, but ask yourself: "Do i love him so much even though he prefers me without him?" If he wants to try things out with you two then go for it! But if he's not giving any signals then just give it up. it would be for the better. You'll just have to choose what will make both of you happy in the end... if it's worth fighting for, and you know that HE'S NOT GIVING UP ON YOU then go for it.. Otherwise, think again...
keep me posted.. :)
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you know sometimes for a guy to see himself happy its esier to see himself alone...wierd i know
many many meanings to " your too good for me" may have ( theres a story similiar in my advice history) but it could be he had darker inttentions towards you and for what ever reason he felt he change heart but knows that he is in risk in bring out that darkness in hi towards you so id stay away.
the right person should not bring out the worst in you instead it should do the opposite bring out the best and make you feel the best and you for him. for him to say that you will suffer is a nother way of saying my true self is nothing the way i am projecting myself to be. giving you a gift and a party might his consciousness working and even though it sounds nice my opinion....RUN and dont let his mysterious way draw you into him, alot of guys know that girls are like cats the more mysterious you are the curious youll get. men are the opposite the more mysterious the more they want to get the hell out of there, that might expalin why guys tend to go more towards girls that are easy or povocative, cause theres no mystery.
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