17/F senior.
Okay so I'm a little worried bout the age diference between me and this guy I like who I'm going with to prom too. Here's the thing: he's a freshman and I'm a senior. We have the same birthday week so when he finally turns 15 I'll be 18. In other words right now he is 14 while I'm 17. Although he is extremely mature for his age like already has a job ad everything. He definately does not act like a freshman. I'm bout to graduate and he's only gonne be a sophmore. So if we dated this summer I would be a freshman in college dating a sophmore in high school. Another thing is if we date I know it will be endless crap from my guy friends for dating such a young guy even if it's only 2 years because the whole college to high school thing makes it sound bad. Basically I'm wondering your oppinions on this. Is he too young? Or should I ignore what everyone will say and go for it anyways? Thanks!!
i was going through your first statement and the other stuff didnt really matter. In this age in time, age, sex, status, and sometimes religion does not matter at all.. People have become open to facts instead of traditions. Go on a date with him and maybe.. he'll turn out to be the guy ur looking for.. If everybody like you, thought of age differences then this world would not been believers of real love.. my parents have a 7-year gap and they've been married for 50 years.. So give the fellow a chance.. :)
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I just broke up with my bf for the past 2 weeks and I am thinking whether do I still have a chance in getting him back? what should I do to get him back?
The problem between my ex and I were, he was not able to share things with me as a bf and gf where before we got into relationship, he was able to share things with me. First few months of the relationship, he was still able to share with me but somehow he kept everything to himself after that. He even told me that his "safety box" can't be opened by anyone else but him alone, not even for his past gfs who he was in relationship with for the past 7 years. Then he told me that he will give me the chance to try things out with him cause I have faith in the relationship that it will get solved.
But somehow, at the same time he told me that I am going to suffer if I am to cling on to him because by end of this month, he will work with his father and he will be busy trying to fix his family back financially. He told me that he does not want me to feel neglected at that moment.
He did alot for me like giving me a surprised birthday just one month before our breakup and bought me an expensive gift for my birthday present. We still did what couples do like making out just few days before our breakup.
And the very last thing he told me was "i'm too good for him". What does that actually mean for a guy? Did he let me go just because he love me not to see me suffer anymore being together with him?
i'm sorry dear.. there's just a slightest bit of a chance for you to get back together.. He felt that there's still a lot of things goin on and he needed to fix things one step at a time and if it will have to include his personal life, he'll do it.. he just doesnt feel that you're the right one to share his life with.. i didnt want you to understand this in a different way, but ask yourself: "Do i love him so much even though he prefers me without him?" If he wants to try things out with you two then go for it! But if he's not giving any signals then just give it up. it would be for the better. You'll just have to choose what will make both of you happy in the end... if it's worth fighting for, and you know that HE'S NOT GIVING UP ON YOU then go for it.. Otherwise, think again...
keep me posted.. :)
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So I've liked this guy for about a year, since I met him. I'm pretty sure I like him. Ok I like him a lot. I really do and it bothered me so much that he didn't know. Everyone was telling me to tell him and that we would be so cute together.
So now he knows... I asked him today if I could tell him something and then I told him that I really like him and that it's been bothering me and that I just wanted him to know. All he had to say back was ight.
Of course that made me feel crappy... but is there still a chance me and him could be together? Or should I forget about it?.. even though I really like him.. =/
I don't get to talk to him much either and it sucks, I just see him a lot and I have one class with him at school.
Girl, i think that you should give up on this guy... no guy cant let you feel so crappy and uneasy at the same time.. besides, if he actually believed that you're good together, then he didnt have to wait for a year to make a move like you did.. do you really like him, even his imperfections?? think again. well, idk if he's busy or preoccupied but girl... there are a lot of guys who deserve you.. just broaden your perspective and never stick to one guy type... maybe, you'll never know.. in the future, it would be a big mistake for him when he finally realized that you're RIGHT afterall.. but it's too late.. right? so skip the moaning and just keep loving!!! You deserve to be happy!!! :) pls rate and keep me posted. :)
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lol :) i dont really have a love issue.. but alright i'll share and ask anything. i've been dating someone for almost 2 years. 1 yr 8 months to be exact. there's just one thing about it, its a long distance relationship. now, here's my question. how are you doing? :)
Dear Cherr,
I think what you have is a confusion syndrome..
You don't know if what you miss is ME or that someone..and im getting the idea that i know you from my past. LOL
btw, im doin great... :)
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I have a really bad self-image, i think im fat, im tall, i am rubbish at sports, hate my body and i started middle school with a really bad reputation, i really want a boyfriend, but ive been told that i wont get one if i dont like myself, what sould i do? PS: 14/f i sing, act (really cant dance), size 12-lost 3 stone in 2 months after bullying and im 180cm
I've gone through the exact the same thing when I was 14. I'm 18 btw. :) I didn't like my body, I got this pouty lips, big forehead, I didn't dress much and boys ignored me. Well, I dont need to give a lot of dieting tricks, wardrobe tips etc!
All i need to say to you is LOVE your imperfections. Develop or do better with your strenghs. Before you sleep, take note of atleast 3 things that makes you beautiful as a person. You have to forget your flaws and just appreciate what you've got. When you start to think again how "bad" you look, screw the thought and think of your good qualities. Forget any bad rep, start anew!
Keep smiling gorgeous. I'm just here..
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I was just at a dance tonight and I asked my friend, Ben if he was going, he said probably not but after about two hours of convincing, i finally got him to come. So, i was warning people that he was coming and one girl that heard likes him soooo much which doesnt bother me until later that night. she was on him allll night and i felt like i was getting jealous but i shouldn't have been. then at the end of the night a slow song came on, she grabbed him and started dancing, he doesnt feel that way, i know so, he told me, but i got so upset that i just walked away trying to keep my cool until i came home. so i arrived home, texted him and told him how i felt tonight, that i was so upset that i was the reason he came, but i got zero time with him, yes, he apologized like any guy would but things escalated and ended so wrong, we got so mad at eachother that i just started crying so hard. he said he wanted to go to bed but i wanted to keep talking until he said isnt he allowed to leave until i was satisfied with this conversation. so i got so mad i just texted back "BYE!" and he didnt even answer back. so i have 2 questions: some of my friends think he likes me and that i was the reason he went, for me. do you think thats true? and, did i lose him for good, if so how do i get him back? this whole thing was over a stupid girl! i regret ever opening my mouth but i thought i should have told him how i felt seeming as we tell eachother everything and we've been best friends since 3rd grade. any help, please.. im desperate.
Hi. So what i think is that, you should've talked to him personally about what happened. Fights over texts can be really unclear specially that you don't know the person face to face..
You have to tell him how you've felt. Besides, no girl can take him away.. No gentleman can be taken away by one girl from the one he truly cares about.
You should talk to him and vent how you truly felt. That way, he'll be able to understand. You know him too well so you should know the right words. You didnt actually lost him dear. It's just a matter of misunderstanding unless he feels otherwise. Dont pull yourself down.. please rate. and ill be more than willing to help.. keep me updated :)
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for over two years, and we're both seniors in high school. We're planning on going to the same college, (a college that offers things for both of us, just in case something does happen to our relationship.) Lately I've been slightly concerned about how the drastic change in school, social life, and scenery is going to effect us once we're in college. If anyone has been in this situation, I'd like some advice as to how it worked out for you, and how you dealt with it.
Thanks
hi. i can see that you're worried about how things are when you and your boyfriend is already in college. college is very different scene compared to high school especially if you belong to different courses.
you are exposed to different kinds of people and of course lots of temptation... be open about your schedules and try to understand each other if you are both busy. keep ur communication open. and just trust each other.. you know wut? if u really love each other, no change of scenery can alter your relationship.
regards to your relationship.
hope that helps!
pls. rate. thanks... :)
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