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I'm absolutely crazy inlove with my boyfriend.
I'm 15, he's 18. I recently posted a post about prom tiaras.
Well, this year is his prom, I want to make it extra special. We've been dating for 11 months and 1 day. He isnt my first love, & thats how I know that I love him. I've dated alot of guys, so I know what I have to choose from.
We've had sex. & I really just want to know how to make his prom special. I know we probably wont go to "After Prom" & if we do, we wont stay the whole time. & I'm sure we wont go home afterwards. So, just give me a few ideas, on what I can do to make his prom special..
BTW. I'm going dress shopping in the first few weeks of January, & I'm strictly forbidden to let him even see a glimpse of my dress until the day of prom when he comes to pick me up.
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I would maybe try buying some sexy lingerie. Maybe that would turn him on.
Ask him if he would someday like to do cosplay. If he does want to, i would bring something nice and sexy, like a cowboy girl clothes. That might be kind of cool.
Prom night = first cosplay! ;D
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Iam a 19 year old female and lately for some reason I don't know why one minute i'll be all smiles and laughing and then the next minute i'll be crying as hard as i can cry. Then when I try to go to sleep I can't sleep becouse I have so much going around in my head untill I can't sleep;.Also every little thing seems to make me mad no matter how small it is. I don't know what to do what's wrong with me? (link)
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First of all, If you are under a lot of pressure, and stress i would seek a doctor. There might be a chance of a little depression. I was like this. I was always smiling and laughing and looked happy. But then one day, i was sitting with my friends and laughing, and suddenly out of the blue i started to cry, and cried for 1 and half an hour.
You should see a council, or at least talk to a friend if something is going on. if you are feeling sad. I would hurry, so it wouldn't get any worse.
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16/f
i have two best friends. one is a girl, she's my sister, my life, my everything and i love her dearly. the other is a guy and for all the time we've been best friends we've told people we're married because thats just the way we've always acted. i can't describe the relationship, we bitch and fight and nag but in the end it always results in a hug and an "i love you". he told me he liked me in 7th grade but little did we know we had both liked each other on and off since then and we have now just finished junior year.
so after spending the entire last weekend at his house i decided that i would finally tell him i liked him. we spent the weekend in his hot tub until 1am, driving around in his truck, he picked me up and spun me in the air which was adorable and then we sat in his field and watched the sunset, then when it was dark we sat and watched the fire flies, just talking until i had to leave. the weekend was so amazing and it took all my strength not to kiss him because i thought he thought of us as a brother/sister relationship.
so i come into school monday, the day i decide to tell him, and i see him with his ex girlfriend who he has broken up with nine times. NINE!! in 2 years. i don't get along with her too much and whenever he's with her he starts being a jerk to me and i've told him that and he doesn't believe it. so anyway i found out that his ex girlfriend who he had just gotten over...once again, decided to break up with her boyfriend b/c she missed this guy(my best friend). now from the best friend point of view i didnt want him to go through this bullshit again so i called him after school to complain anyway while on the phone we both ended up saying that we both like each other and we both think we would be an amazing couple and he goes on to say that when hes with his on again off again girlfriend he thinks about me and thinks how much better it would be. so im thinking "ok hes going to finally listen to me and not go back to his girlfriend" but no, then he says "i want to be with you but i feel like i should be with HER. but i know i'll keep liking you because i always do, so we'll see where it goes and we have all of senior year and college to be together." so at first im thinking, ok what the hell is this but then i'm just like whatever i'll deal with it like i always do. next day in school they're going out and he has the nerve to bring her over to our lunch table and he's being his normal "got my ex back" jerk personality that he denies he has. and its like he was rubbing in my face that he was with her which is not something he normally does...ever. so he was being an ass and i decided that i was feeling a little devilish so i decided to bring up the topic of me being over at his house almost every day for the past two weeks. his girlfriend wasn't happy but i was satisfied.
SO, i cant wait around forever right? even though my best friend is the perfect boyfriend and everything i've ever wanted. now, this guy that i've hooked up with in the past wants to start a friends with benefits relationship...again. he's incredibly hot and sexy and he thinks the same of me so im deciding to go for it but im still a little cautious because my best friend says the only reason he didn't tell me he liked me sooner was because i was hooking up with this guy and he didn't think i'd want to be with him after being with my hook up buddy?
so, do i wait it out alone because i know the relationship won't last long or do i have a little fun and go for this friends with benefits relationship??
sorry this question turned out to be so long. (link)
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I know High school can be tough. But if i was you right now, i would quit going all lovey dovey in high school, wait until Collage. Its much better there. I can guarantee that something better will happen there.
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16/f
** sorry this might be a little graphic **
my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 6 months now and we are going pretty good. actually very good. We have been talking about doing some sexual things, but not sex. because we are both not ready and both want to wait. He is the first guy for me to do anything with and i am the first girl he has done anything with. my problem is that I am not a very sexually active girl... I dont like wearing tampons or fingering myself. so basically i'm not very comfortable sticking something "up there". (i have not told him this because i think it is too embarassing) there was a couple of times when i let him "finger" me but it was only like his finger pad. so one of my questions is.... how do i get more comfortable with something "up there"??? another thing is that i have touched his dick and it was my first time and it was really weird. I didn't see anything because his pants were on, but it felt weird. I need advice on like how to give a hj and how to give a bj. and also just some supportive guidance on all of this "first time" stuff.
PLEASE no links. and in case you have forgotten, we dont want to have sex so please no tips or advice on sex. just the other stuff.
THANK YOU SOOO MUCH!!!!
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Well, It might hurt, first time in fingering, and sex. But if you want to ease the pain then you have to finger yourself. I do respect that you are not that sexually active person. And first time touching a dick is always weird.
First time will always hurt. If you wont prepare yourself with fingering yourself. I would try at least do it yourself a couple of time, and then let your boyfriend try it. And that should ease the pain in first time.
I'm not sure how you can get comfortable sticking something "up there". Just get used to it ;)
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