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im so confused
ok so i have a boyfriend. we have been dating for 1 yr. and 3 months.....well heres the thing...i might be falling in love with someone else....its confusing but really he treats me better...i feel like i wanna break up with my boyfriend....but i dont know. Im really interested in my in him but i lov my boyfriend....please help!
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i had this same problem ,
and the truth is ,
thats a really long time you've been dating .
and personally i don't think you should break up with him .
your just wanting something you can't have , everyone has that problem .
you won't know what you had untill it's gone ,
so do whatevert your heart feels and you'll be fine either way (:
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It is not okay to like someone else in a relationship. I would suggest a break with you and your boyfriend so you can sort things out. I don't think that you are truly in love with your current boyfriend. You probably have love for him, but you are not IN love with him. Otherwise, you would not have any feelings for anyone else. Deffinetly, take a break and think these things through.
Hope I helped!
and if you have anymore questions feel free to drop them in my inbox!
-E
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If you love your boyfriend with out a doubt would not have feelings for someone else. What is it about this other guy that he treats you better? Now remember in all relationships almost every guy will treat you better in the begining. if your boyfriend is doing everything perfect almost why leave him cut this other guy out of your life.
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If you feel as though you lost your feelings for your boyfriend you need to think about it yourself and figure out whats best for you. Maybe its best if you move on...but you NEED to talk to him about it! Honesty is the best policy in this situation and you need to be true to him and you need to be true to yourself. Maybe take a break and explore or to just think about what you want. Good luck!
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This is a tricky situation...The human mind either focuses on tomorrow or yesterday...rarely are we able to get the mind to focus on the moment at hand. Here you have yesterday your current boyfriend and tomorrow this other gentleman in front of you. It is easy for us as humans to be attracted to what we are not supposed to have. You would want to make sure that you are not just head over heals for this gentleman because the grass may be greener on the other side of the fence. This may not be the case but it is a possibility regardless. Other than that I would agree that you should be mindful about your boyfriend and put yourself in his shoes. At the end of the day you have to go with your heart...We live this life once...
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My sister is going through the same thing she has been with same guy for 6 years, about 2 year ago she stated to me that she loves her boyfriend but she wants space and see what else is out there.She told me that it was the best thing that could have happened to her her ex-boyfriend after Rockie times finally became friends and my sister found someone else that she loves even more they are planning on getting married.See sometimes when you see something else it maybe a good thing just make sure its really what you want to do.
Thanks
Tim
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Follow your Heart. Not your Head.
Think about what you will be missing and what will make you happy. and no matter what everyone will get there heart broken but think about it before brecking someone heart. try to be his in his shoe. what if he was doing that?
what you do?
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I guess it really depends who you love more. It would be nicer to NOT dump your boyfriend over another guy, but it really depends on the people. If he treats you better, then it might be a good idea. First you probably find out if he's interested in you before you break up with him.
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