I have been helping those who sometimes just need that outside perspective into a their relationships when they just can't seem to come up with the answers anymore. From bored girlfriends and wives to guys who at times need a little push in getting the attention of that special lady. We all need an outside view into our hearts at times and I am here to help you with yours.
E-mail: ddodge@bostoncyberstation.com
Gender: Male
Member Since: January 14, 2010
Answers: 2
Last Update: January 16, 2010
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he told me on wednesday that we need to take a break becuase he needs time.
and i asked him how long he wont talk to me for and he said idk.
everything has been fine between us so that whole needing a break thing seriously came out of nowhere.
were in a long distance relationship so i dont understand why he needs a break. its not like we get to see eachother alll the time like normal couples.
ive called and texted him a bunch of times and have gotten nothing back. its been three days since he hasnt talk to me and its killing me.
no matter what i say to him, he wont talk to me.
i dont know what to do :[
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As hard as it is to hear I agree with the others and say to not ext him or call again until he contacts you. The fastest way to push a guy away is to crowd him too much via getting his attention. A key way to keeping a mans attention is to making sure that you don't intrude too much into his space. By giving him his space he will either a) come around with an explanation once he has had time to reflect or b) He doesn't know how to break up with you and is just using this "break" to begin driving a wedge between the two of you therefore in time bringing about the termination of your relationship.
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ok so i have a boyfriend. we have been dating for 1 yr. and 3 months.....well heres the thing...i might be falling in love with someone else....its confusing but really he treats me better...i feel like i wanna break up with my boyfriend....but i dont know. Im really interested in my in him but i lov my boyfriend....please help! (link)
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This is a tricky situation...The human mind either focuses on tomorrow or yesterday...rarely are we able to get the mind to focus on the moment at hand. Here you have yesterday your current boyfriend and tomorrow this other gentleman in front of you. It is easy for us as humans to be attracted to what we are not supposed to have. You would want to make sure that you are not just head over heals for this gentleman because the grass may be greener on the other side of the fence. This may not be the case but it is a possibility regardless. Other than that I would agree that you should be mindful about your boyfriend and put yourself in his shoes. At the end of the day you have to go with your heart...We live this life once...
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