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my boyfriend wont talk to me.
he told me on wednesday that we need to take a break becuase he needs time.
and i asked him how long he wont talk to me for and he said idk.
everything has been fine between us so that whole needing a break thing seriously came out of nowhere.
were in a long distance relationship so i dont understand why he needs a break. its not like we get to see eachother alll the time like normal couples.
ive called and texted him a bunch of times and have gotten nothing back. its been three days since he hasnt talk to me and its killing me.
no matter what i say to him, he wont talk to me.
i dont know what to do :[
help meee!
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Well beating around the bush wont help you now so I will just say it he might have found someone else. He might be trying to figure out who he really wants to be with, this happens a lot just give him his space he will text or call when he is ready I would give it a for more days before I text him again because if you don't give him his space then he will feel crowded and say its over for good just give him time. I hope I helped
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Well when a bot says he needs time, then that usually means that he dosent know if this would work out or he found some one else in his area that he relly likes. Im not saying that all long distance relationships are doomed to disater but this one mabey falling.Long distance is is very chancey because you really cant tell what the other person is doing at all. but if he dosent reply you need to try to find out what happened and why he might be doing this .But in the mean time try to move on because i dont think this will turn out right.
all the best
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I think you should quit texting and calling. I know its tough but for any hope you just need to giv ehim his space.
Honesltly he may be talking to someone else and isnt sure if its you or them. I dont mean to sound mean or upset you. Just give him his space and prey for the best.
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As hard as it is to hear I agree with the others and say to not ext him or call again until he contacts you. The fastest way to push a guy away is to crowd him too much via getting his attention. A key way to keeping a mans attention is to making sure that you don't intrude too much into his space. By giving him his space he will either a) come around with an explanation once he has had time to reflect or b) He doesn't know how to break up with you and is just using this "break" to begin driving a wedge between the two of you therefore in time bringing about the termination of your relationship.
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I think if you continue to text and call him tons of times your making the situation worst
for yourself respect what he said that he needs a break be patient and wait for him to call you he will when he's ready everything happens for a reason
you can't keep trying to force him to talk to you if
he wants space just be patient and once he's ready to talk then he will don't become clingy(:
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give him time to miss you.dont over crowd the situation.hes asked for a break so you need to give him one.just dont txt him for a couple of days and let him miss you..id wait until he txts you first.i think he has some explaining to do!
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Hi there,
Sometimes guys just need some time alone to think about their life, just as you would. If everything was fine and then he just doesn't want to talk, I wouldn't be too worried. He may be having a few complications at home, or is tired, or just wants some time to think about his relationship, but he is not putting you out of his mind. He may think that you are a little attached to him though if you text and call him constantly.
Give him some space. Only call him or text him once in the afternoon. If he responds, say 'hey, I was wondering how you were' or 'I was just thinking about you' or 'I was wondering if we could try to get together sometime'. All you can do is be patient, keep trying once a day to talk to him, give him space, and he will come around.
Do not miss a day without calling or texting him just once. This lets him know you do want the relationship, you are thinking about him, and you do care about his personal needs. Once he realizes you are trying and he needs to do his part, it will work out.
When a guy you love puts you on hold, hold him with your heart <3
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