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My name is Brew I'm a stay at home mother of a wonderful boy. I. My extra time I like to read but I almost never have time. I'm engaged and plan on getting marries next year. I try not to judge but can't help it sometimes I'm only human and I like to give second chances. I give my opinion when and when I'm not asked. I do tend to be right. I'm a sore loser but a good winner. I don't compete at all. Ill try to help as much as possible but I am honest and if you want good advice I need to know the whole problem even the dirty laundry part. Hope to help. :)
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I like a guy but he doesn't even know i exist. How do we become friends so we can go out?
I had a situation like this before. I really liked this guy and I ended up dating his friend and meeting him. Well after me and my boyfriend broke up and me and the guy never talked again but I saw him everyday and he would always laugh. One day I just walked up to him and asked him why he always laughed at me and he said its because he wanted to. Me and the guy ended up walking home together I got his number on the first day and we ended up together for 5 months. In other words just walk up to him and make conversation the worst he can do is walk away. Its a big jump but after you do it you will be happy you tried and you will be over most of your fears. Hope I helped
This guy i really like asked me out but a couple days ago my parents talked to me about having a boyfriend at this age. I wanna say yes but what do i do about my parents????
Try to talk to your parents and have them meet this boy. Its not something you will be comfortable with but its the only way they will say yes. If they say no well you will live and you have your whole life a head of you to date so don't worry about it now. If you really are meant to be you will get together when you are older and can be together.
he told me on wednesday that we need to take a break becuase he needs time.
and i asked him how long he wont talk to me for and he said idk.
everything has been fine between us so that whole needing a break thing seriously came out of nowhere.
were in a long distance relationship so i dont understand why he needs a break. its not like we get to see eachother alll the time like normal couples.
ive called and texted him a bunch of times and have gotten nothing back. its been three days since he hasnt talk to me and its killing me.
no matter what i say to him, he wont talk to me.
i dont know what to do :[
help meee!
Well beating around the bush wont help you now so I will just say it he might have found someone else. He might be trying to figure out who he really wants to be with, this happens a lot just give him his space he will text or call when he is ready I would give it a for more days before I text him again because if you don't give him his space then he will feel crowded and say its over for good just give him time. I hope I helped
Is anyone here sure about that? Has anyone actually done this or knows a girl who did this? can you definately pop your cherry by masterbating or is someone just telling me this because...?
Thank you!
Yes you can really pop your cherry that way. Mine got poped when I was getting fingerd, my friend fell the wrong way and poped her and some people just get hury and pop thiers. There are many ways that you can.
hoped this helped
why does everybody say suicide is not the answer? that's all you say! suicide is not the answer.. suicide is not the answer.. that's not a good enough reason for me.
why the f-k not??
Well they say it because when you die who gets all the problems?
your family does.Some mentaly others phisicly start hurting them selfs and then there are all the things for then funeral. All you are doing is passing your problem to somone else. And if you think no one will care that you are gone then you are wrong. people will care and people DO! care
okay i know this may sound kinda stupid but,
what exactly does PDA mean?
thanks in advance :)
Public despaly of affection...
meaning
cuddling
kissing
basicly what cuples do
ok well i had a boyfriend and we broke up a year an a half ago but i still want him to be my friend. is this the right thing to do...
he was there for me through the roughest times for me. he caused me a lot of pain when we broke up but it was just because we were going to different highschool and i think he didnt want it anymore because we went out for a year.
should i try and be his friend????
EX Bf are like the BEST FRIEND you oculd ever have i know mine is.
So talk to him and ask him how he would feel if you guys were friends
just tell him how you feel
and if he says no ask him to try it for a little bit of time. I am sure he feels the same way
i love my hair but my bangs are so flat and i was wondering how to give them more volume and stuff, does anyone have any ideas? thanks
blow dry them with a round brush it will help ALOT! I knwo I have to with the back of my hiar cause its short
if someone asks you out (first time), what happens next? it doesnt mean you two are dating, right? what if you dont want to pursue the relationship? is that where you give the "just friends" speech?
Just tell then how you feel i mean you dont have to date the person if you dont want to. Just be sure on how you feel before you say anyhting
i didnt call up or show up at work today..i work at mcdonalds and have been there for 9 months and i have ALWAYS shown up to work, except just this once.
what happened was that i got into a really big fight with a family member and so i just went out the door and stayed at a friends house because i just couldnt handle it. and i couldnt get to work today so i just didnt show up ..
i dont know what to say to them when i work in 4 days again! i feel really bad about it because i let the nicest manager down. please help, should i tell then what happened or would they not believe me?
thanks
explain to them what happend and talk to the person who took your shift and let them know you are really sorry. They should understand if its just your first time then they shouldnt be to hard on ya
okay so ive been friends with this guy since seventh grade... and i'm a freshmen in highschool now.....ive basically liked him ever since i met him lol but i have never told him how i felt.... and it's driving me crazy... and the homecoming dance is in oct. and i would love it if him and me went... the thing is he is shy and i dnt even know how he feels about me.... i need help!!!
I say ask him....
The worst he can do is turn you down and I dont think he will
i resently told my Best friend how i felt and he sorta felt the same but he didnt completly and we are still best friends with nothing wierd...
so ethier way things have thier way of working out even if he says no....
But trust me I dont think he will
There is this boy in school who I asked out but he said no because it was to earley for us but now i can't stop think ing about him but i don't want to stop thinking about him I want him to be all mine for ever boy friend and girlfriend but i need him to notice me plees need help boy trobles
Just give him time be your self and dont try to be something your not. It takes time and who knows it could just be puppy love..
Love works in wierd ways...but trust me if it was ment to be then everything will work out ^_^
ok, sooo I just started dating this guy and i thought maybe he would change his facebook status thing, but he didn't and I don't know if I should wait for him to do it or just go ahead and change mine or what. I haven't been in a relationship ever so I don't really know what people normally do about these things. If anyones got any advice, please let me know, thanx :)
Just change yours. Somtimes guys forget bout tho's things I mean its really no big deal if it says your single or taken but if you want to change it then change it. i know a guy who i dated for 5 months and never changed his stuff on myspace to say "in a relationship" its just a guy thing....go ahead and change yours
-Funsize
(sorry for this being so long) I saw some advice you game to someone about not ruining a good friendship over jealousy and I think I need your advice.
Okay, so I have this friend, I'll call her Vicky, and we've been best friends for a few years now but our friendship isn't like most people who claim to be best friends. She lies a lot and I never do trust her but trust never was an issue because she's not the person I go to for advice and I never tell her secrets. We just loved eachother because we're both idiots when it comes to doing really stupid stuff.
So around April of this year I started talking to this guy, I'll call him Jack, and I really fell for him big time. I've never wanted another guy so much in my life. And he really liked me too but then suddenly he just told me he didn't want a girlfriend so we pretty much just stopped talking.
My friend Vicky added him on myspace and I seriously DO NOT TRUST HER with anything LET ALONE GUYS that I like/liked. And she's the type of person who photoshops her pictures to make herself look super hot and Jack has never met her in person...at least not that I know of. So I would read the comments he'd leave her and it really pissed me off so I told him to back of my friend and then I confronted Vicky that it really made me uncomfortable that they were talking to I made her delete him so she did...
I was at her house a few days ago and she let me get on hers because I wanted to look through her friends list since she has everyone's profile on hers. And when I saw Jack's I got so upset and I looked through her messages to see if they were talking and they were and right before I could click to read any of them she walked in and we yelled at eachother but then I went downstairs and I had no ride home so I acted like everything was okay and it just seemed like that never happened. But it really bothered me that she'd go behind my back to do that.
She told me "we're just talking" but I don't believe her. And so what if they were "just talking"? Shouldn't she have respected my request not to talk to him. I told her "well I don't care if you were just talking you know I have jealousy problems!" And honestly, I don't think I have jealousy problmes...I think my jealousy amount is no where above abnormal because everyone I asked said that was pretty messed up of her.
So I got on myspace and I saw that she posted a bullitein saying I was ignorant and that I needed to grow up. And then she deleted me.
We ride the same bus together and we always sit togehter and I know that I could either just shrug it off my shoulders and act like I was being immature or just not sit with her and let us go on for a while without talking. I know she won't apoplogize so it's kind of my move that's going to count. And since school starts after tomorrow I need some advice quick.
You said not to ruin a good friendship over jealosy but doesn't she deserve to be mad at? I'm so pissed at her and I hate it so EFFIN much that I can't trust her. Ugh. What do I do?
well since your friendship had no trust it wasnt a good one. What she did was wrong but if they were just talking then it was nothing. Alot morecold have happend and my guess nothing did and I think nothing happend because they both knew how you felt. If this guy really likes you then you 2 will end up together. On the bus you should just sit with her and try to talk to her about the hole thing and see what she has to say about it. you will have to trust that she is telling you the truth. But if you dont think she is then sit some where else. I lost one of my best friends because of a guy who ended up braking my heart. no guy is worth a friendship. so talk to her and see what she says. if you dont like it then sit some where else if you think that your freind ship is better then a guy [witch it is] then ask he not to do it again
So i was talking to this guy about two months ago and then i left for vacation. When i got back we weren't really talking like we used to. He then left for vacation and we stopped talking. We have been friends for a long time. A month after he got back he started dating this girl. The girl is a friend of mine, but she's not my best friend. I wouldn't trust her with all my secrets. We do always invite each other to our parties, but we don't talk a whole lot. Now that they are dating the guy has been talking to me. We hang out all the time. He calls me everyday. And i'm starting to like him again. We talked about what we are going to do about it cause he likes me back. I told him I can't keep talking to him while he's in a relationship so i told him he would have to make his choice soon. I'm mostly worried about pissing off my friend. I'm in need of some advice. got any?
I am in the same place as you. But telling him you cant be his friend just because you 2 have feeling for each other and he has a gf isnt the best solution. you should be there for him because you are friends. If your not his friend he might not know how great of a person you really are. just give it time and things will fall in place but dont rune a good friend ship over jelousy
a week ago i had protected sex (but precum got in my vagina) and now i'm having a ton of cravings, can't stop eating, always tired, peeing every 2 seconds.
I just finished my period (the one that i had sex with) like 3 days ago so i can't be PMSing. Can signs of pregnancy show up this early? only a week after intercourse?
the earlist sighns of prgantcys shoult come till at least week after having sex.....
same thing happend and is happening to me....but i am not pregant and most likly your not eathier
love always funsize
so i shave my pubes like regularly but its impossible to get rid of the hair close to the lips. does this happen to anyone else, or is there some thing i could do? thanks =]
ya it happends to me and well you cant always get it all i say just watch out andtry not to cut your self
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ok well this guy likes me a lot and we always cuddle when we hang out. i feel really safe when im next to him so i love cuddling with him. but when he tries anything else, i back off.
i told him i just want to be friends, and he has told me he wants more.
but now we have been fighting bc ive been with other guys and now he just wants to end our friendship. but i cant stop thinking about him.
i really want him in my life so so much.
could i actually like him more than a friend?
im really scared to think that i do. bc im scared to hook up with him.
i dont know why, hes the only guy i get nervous around when it comes to hooking up.
im soo confused.
can someone help me please?
sounds like your falling for him...
you should tell him how you think you feel
in the long run try to date him....
let him know if things dont work out you want him in your life no matter what
thigscant get wosre then him not there jst talk to him
love always funsize
I had a boyfriend of 8 months. My first love. We broke up in September. I was heartbroken. I've learned to let it go and things aren't awkward or anything. But just recently, I've begun to miss him a lot. I think it's because I found out he was moving on to another girl and I was cleaning out my closet and I saw all the stuff he gave me, and I just broke down into tears. I like other people and things, but I always just wonder what I could have changed to make him not break up with me. I want to tell him this so bad because no one else can help me through this. He still knows me the best. I'm not expecting him to take me back, I know he won't but I don't know what else to do. I'm over it, I'm just not fully over him.
give him the stuff back let him know you found it and cried let him know how yo feel...it maybe hard but at least you are telng him the truth and you will feel better afterwords....ad when you feel like crying just do it and get it out....... who knwos in the end he might feel the same way and might relize he made a mistake
hope i helped
love always funsize
Why the heck is everyone labeling me? I am so tierd of it! They call me tomboy and goth!(dont worry I'm not anti goth). They think I'm goth because I love hevy metal, scary movies and books, and I do where black alot but its usally just one peice of clothing. And they call me a tomboy because I have really short (10 year old boy short) hair (its natrully black), I love basketball, ice hockey, soccer, tennis, golf, hanging with the boys, playing video games, stuff like that. I dont care about my aperance I just put on whatevers clean! How do I get them to stop calling me "gothboy"?
well i have been called Goth Girl since 6th grade and here i am in 9th...
Just tell them "Call me wat you want but in the end I am just me" after awhile of that they will get tied of it and just go with what ever they call you...in the end you win and they stop
hope i helped love always Funsize