okay so ive been friends with this guy since seventh grade... and i'm a freshmen in highschool now.....ive basically liked him ever since i met him lol but i have never told him how i felt.... and it's driving me crazy... and the homecoming dance is in oct. and i would love it if him and me went... the thing is he is shy and i dnt even know how he feels about me.... i need help!!!
pinkcherries answered Sunday August 31 2008, 6:01 pm: i think you should go for it
the worst that he can say is no
and if you dont ask him someone else will and you will always ask yourself "what if. . .?"
S_C answered Saturday August 30 2008, 11:00 pm: Are you actually friends or really just acquaintences?
Because if you're actually friends (you talk, hang out, etc), then it wouldn't be weird at all for you to ask him if he wants to go to the homecoming dance with you.
If he then asks if you want to go as friends or dates, you can say whichever one he wants to go as. That way you don't come directly out and say it, but it's obvious that you like him & he'll know whether to let you down gently if he doesn't feel the same or to say as dates if he does.
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