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Betrayed by a best friend and school starts soon
(sorry for this being so long) I saw some advice you game to someone about not ruining a good friendship over jealousy and I think I need your advice.
Okay, so I have this friend, I'll call her Vicky, and we've been best friends for a few years now but our friendship isn't like most people who claim to be best friends. She lies a lot and I never do trust her but trust never was an issue because she's not the person I go to for advice and I never tell her secrets. We just loved eachother because we're both idiots when it comes to doing really stupid stuff.
So around April of this year I started talking to this guy, I'll call him Jack, and I really fell for him big time. I've never wanted another guy so much in my life. And he really liked me too but then suddenly he just told me he didn't want a girlfriend so we pretty much just stopped talking.
My friend Vicky added him on myspace and I seriously DO NOT TRUST HER with anything LET ALONE GUYS that I like/liked. And she's the type of person who photoshops her pictures to make herself look super hot and Jack has never met her in person...at least not that I know of. So I would read the comments he'd leave her and it really pissed me off so I told him to back of my friend and then I confronted Vicky that it really made me uncomfortable that they were talking to I made her delete him so she did...
I was at her house a few days ago and she let me get on hers because I wanted to look through her friends list since she has everyone's profile on hers. And when I saw Jack's I got so upset and I looked through her messages to see if they were talking and they were and right before I could click to read any of them she walked in and we yelled at eachother but then I went downstairs and I had no ride home so I acted like everything was okay and it just seemed like that never happened. But it really bothered me that she'd go behind my back to do that.
She told me "we're just talking" but I don't believe her. And so what if they were "just talking"? Shouldn't she have respected my request not to talk to him. I told her "well I don't care if you were just talking you know I have jealousy problems!" And honestly, I don't think I have jealousy problmes...I think my jealousy amount is no where above abnormal because everyone I asked said that was pretty messed up of her.
So I got on myspace and I saw that she posted a bullitein saying I was ignorant and that I needed to grow up. And then she deleted me.
We ride the same bus together and we always sit togehter and I know that I could either just shrug it off my shoulders and act like I was being immature or just not sit with her and let us go on for a while without talking. I know she won't apoplogize so it's kind of my move that's going to count. And since school starts after tomorrow I need some advice quick.
You said not to ruin a good friendship over jealosy but doesn't she deserve to be mad at? I'm so pissed at her and I hate it so EFFIN much that I can't trust her. Ugh. What do I do?
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well since your friendship had no trust it wasnt a good one. What she did was wrong but if they were just talking then it was nothing. Alot morecold have happend and my guess nothing did and I think nothing happend because they both knew how you felt. If this guy really likes you then you 2 will end up together. On the bus you should just sit with her and try to talk to her about the hole thing and see what she has to say about it. you will have to trust that she is telling you the truth. But if you dont think she is then sit some where else. I lost one of my best friends because of a guy who ended up braking my heart. no guy is worth a friendship. so talk to her and see what she says. if you dont like it then sit some where else if you think that your freind ship is better then a guy [witch it is] then ask he not to do it again
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