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I miss him sometimes
I had a boyfriend of 8 months. My first love. We broke up in September. I was heartbroken. I've learned to let it go and things aren't awkward or anything. But just recently, I've begun to miss him a lot. I think it's because I found out he was moving on to another girl and I was cleaning out my closet and I saw all the stuff he gave me, and I just broke down into tears. I like other people and things, but I always just wonder what I could have changed to make him not break up with me. I want to tell him this so bad because no one else can help me through this. He still knows me the best. I'm not expecting him to take me back, I know he won't but I don't know what else to do. I'm over it, I'm just not fully over him.
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give him the stuff back let him know you found it and cried let him know how yo feel...it maybe hard but at least you are telng him the truth and you will feel better afterwords....ad when you feel like crying just do it and get it out....... who knwos in the end he might feel the same way and might relize he made a mistake
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Sometimes lingering on the past clouds our life for the future. Nothing wrong about thinking about it but just don't live in it. Instead remember the great times you had and take them with you so you know what you want in the next relationship. People come and go in our lives but you will know who to keep and who to let go. Each lesson we learn comes from those experiences. Learn from them and create newer and better memories for the right person who comes along and recaptures your heart.
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I kind of believe that people never get over their first love. You become emotionally attatched to this person because they were your FIRST, and you can't froget that. Of course you are going to miss him, because you obviously have history with him, and you obviously loved him at first... but just make sure you aren't just traveling back to the way you used to feel. Remember it is now, and things have changed. And maybe it would be best to find someone else, because the best way to fall out of love is to fall in love agian with someone else. And maybe, if it is love... let it find you! things will work out for the best!
And it wouldn't hurt to talk to him how you feel. He might be able to help you distinguish your feelings, because you said he knows you the best and all... best wishes!
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Relationships end for good reasons. If I had a room full of all my past relationships, who would I want back? NONE. I love to miss past romances, I always think back on how good it was. Its a thing some of us do. If you really want to let go, date others, erase all numbers, destroy letters and pics, delete emails and dont look him up and dont play old songs. There is nothing like a new guy to get over another guy. But odds are, some of us love to not get over it.
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