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im so confusedd. guys&girls read!!!
ok well this guy likes me a lot and we always cuddle when we hang out. i feel really safe when im next to him so i love cuddling with him. but when he tries anything else, i back off.
i told him i just want to be friends, and he has told me he wants more.
but now we have been fighting bc ive been with other guys and now he just wants to end our friendship. but i cant stop thinking about him.
i really want him in my life so so much.
could i actually like him more than a friend?
im really scared to think that i do. bc im scared to hook up with him.
i dont know why, hes the only guy i get nervous around when it comes to hooking up.
im soo confused.
can someone help me please?
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sounds like your falling for him...
you should tell him how you think you feel
in the long run try to date him....
let him know if things dont work out you want him in your life no matter what
thigscant get wosre then him not there jst talk to him
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First of all you need to take a step back and observe the situation. Friendship is a tight bond and when it comes between men and women it has to be established. Do you see yourself with a guy like this. He makes you feel safe but does he make you feel as you are worth it. Can you see yourself in a relationship with this person. Can you just look at thsi person and see them as a brother? Wants you establish what you want and let him know that he is an important person in your life it will take care of itself. Whatever you decide his actions will dictate whether he is worth being around. If you want a relationship then rest assure he is there. If you want friendship then if he is a TRUE FRIEND he will stick around. If not then know that he is just another person who chooses not to be a part of your life. Respect yourself more to know that you are a person worth being around.
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well if he cant handle just being friends, and you dont want to be more than friends then its not going to work out. you are probably sending the wrong message by cuddling with him. in general, there is nothing wrong with cuddling with a friend, but, you gotta look at the case itself, and it seems like its sending HIM the wrong idea.
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First thing to do is to stop cuddling.Your sending the wrong message to him.Your swooning in his arms one minute and the next minute your telling him you just want to be friends.Your a tease.You can't have both.Just be good friends first.I would let things cool for a while.You sound like you don't even know what you want.I don't think I could plan any long relationship with you.My advice to you is to add him to a long list of good friends.That way you won't lose his friendship.
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