Member Since: March 15, 2008 Answers: 53 Last Update: April 2, 2008 Visitors: 3346
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16/f boyfriend 16/m
ok so my boyfriends parents are total ***holes.
hes getting his license soon.. they told him if he bought a car and paid for it all by himself that they were still going to take his keys so he couldnt come see me and he could only use the car when they wanted him to.. they made him move to a closet not even a real room.. he has 3 other siblings who always come first and he always is stuck home babysitting my boyfriend gets awesome grades and is in the highest classes and his mom told him he was grounded but that was an excuse so she could go out and party with her husband who grows and smokes pot.. and like there just really crazy and make up stupid rules.. and my boyfriend whats to like get emancipated... but he wants to live with me?? can this happen?? and how what should he do?? if it cant.. how can we deal with this besides emancipation. (link)
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It sounds like the parents might know more about their son than you do.Buying a car is a big step for any teenager.It means freedom but it also means responsibility.Does he have a job to support this new adventure?You also need money to pay for gas,insurance,up keep to maintain the car to keep it safe and in good working order.His parents may think he's not ready for this yet.Maybe in another year,if he can show that he's ready,they will reconsider their thoughts.Has he an interest in cars?Does he help his dad work on daddy's car?My dad started me on motorcycles(Dad's passion,not mine).He told me to tear it down and put it back together again so that I would get just the basics and it must run when I was done.I will say that he was there if I had any questions.It took awhile but I did complete the task and he let me get my first car.It was a beater but it was free.My dad told me to make it run.Your boyfriend really doesn't want to emancipated from his parents,right now he's just spreading his wings a little.They love him and he loves them back no matter what he says. April 2nd: I can see why his parents don't want him to see you.You are a total 'bitch'.I would put you in the trunk with no lid and hope to run over a very large pot hole.You are about yourself that's for sure.Have you ever thought about why they don't like you?Maybe if you cleaned up your act,things may go a little smoother.No matter what you say,they are still the parents and they will protect him as best as they can.When he turns 18,then he's on his own,then you can own him.
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Okay so I've been having sex for a couple of months now but I've never had an orgasm during it.
but I've had one during my boyfriend eating me out and fingering me.
what seems to be the issue? (link)
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Most of my answers are usually simple straight and to the point,but the brainy people that run this web site always delete my answers.Not knowing how old you are comes in concern.You might be to young to be having sex.If your 18 then I would just say that your tensed and need to relax.You may have the thought that in the back of your mind that it might lead to getting pregnant.As much fun as it seems,there is always a risk.
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what do u ususally tellk someone on her or his birthday card... i always forget please help me out! (link)
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If your a guy writing to his girlfriend,Here is a little poem I made up for a passed girlfriend of mine:You are cute,You are shy,Your the apple of my eye.It's simple and she loved it.You really don't have to go out of your way or spend big bucks to make her smile.If your a girl writing to another girl,the same rules apply.Be just as simple and just tell her how much you enjoy her friendship.If she is your best friend,tell her that you will meet her at the malt shop later and buy the burgers and sodas,just the two of you.Then you two can exchange the latest gossip,You know,girl talk.
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I've been seeing this girl for about 5 months online. Before then, we did all kinds of stuff for about 9 months. I'm not completely sure how I feel about her.
Before I started seeing her, I was in a horrible relationship. I had those sparks you're supposed to have when you kiss, but that was about it. It became obvious that she was crazy and I was scarred from it ((convincing me to have unprotected sex after making me incredibly depressed, then saying she wants to get pregnant and doesn't care who the father is. Treating me poorly in public. Lying to me and several important things and lying about me. etc...)) She came onto me a couple of months ago and the sparks were gone.
Anyway, I saw the girl I'm seeing now for the first time last week. I kissed her and there weren't very many sparks. It was nice. For the longest time, I was worried that I simply wasn't attracted to her enough. Sure, I thought she was pretty, but I wasn't sure if that was enough. She stayed a week with me and left today. I wasn't sure how I felt about her, but I knew I cared for her more than anyone else.
After I got back from dropping her off at the airport, I noticed dishes that she left out and her bed was still unmade. I broke down into tears and have been crying off and on since. It wasn't just because she is gone, but that's what set it off. I'm not the type of guy who cries because my best friend leaves, so I think my feelings are far deeper than friendship.
I want to stay with her, but I'm afraid that I'll always be afraid of getting close. Other things scare me about the whole thing (We live 27 hours away from each other, she's only 17 and I'm 23) and probably contribute to my fears. But I cried so hard for her. Harder than I can remember ever crying before. It's more than friendship. Most of the time I'm comfortable with her in my arms.
I'm wondering if anyone else thinks the same. Is there no chemistry or am I still just scarred from my last horrid relationship? I should mention that she's the only girl that has gotten me to cum with a condom on. Sex seems to be great, but kissing is only just nice. I have plans to go to her house for a month this summer. I think I might love her, but I'm still confused. Is there any advice on how to deal with this situation. (link)
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First of all your already in trouble.That rape in most states.She's only 17.Let things cool for awhile or at least until she becomes of age.If you still want to have a relationship with this girl then try it again.All guys will go through the 'demon girl age'.There are plenty of them out there,that's for sure.psycho girls are in every town,city,or just around the corner.As for lasting romance,their not worth a hoot.They are great in the sack,can't get any better but they don't last and they are empty shells.You've been dumped on as most of us men have so there is nothing new there.I would just take it easy for awhile.At 23 its not like your on your death bed yet.You got plenty of time to get your life in order.Do that first and then when you do find that special someone,you'll be more ready to know what you want in a woman. April 1st.:Thank goodness you had me worried there for a minute.Most of these letters really don't give very much information to go on,so we have to make some guess work.Now that I see your legal I hope the best for you.I still think you should step back a little,don't rush into anything and what 17 year old makes the bed and cleans up after herself?(Before I get sock with this one,There always exceptions to the rule). By most standards shes still a kid.It will take time for her to get into some order.That may come later if she moves in with you.You said that she lives 27 hours away.It takes me 16 hours to travel 1,300 miles.Your talking almost coast to coast.That's a long ways.Have you thought about moving to her state for a closer relationship or have her come to where you are.Remember that if she comes out here,you have to take care of her.She would have given up her life to be with you.If your going to visit her this summer,you will probably get to make a better choice on this matter.The sex may be good now but you have to look farther down the road and wonder if she is the one for a life time commitment.I hate to see people come together and then whatever they had is gone.I wish you the best.
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hi, l have a car thats every time it rains water keeps getting in and they are soaked what can l do or can l buy a machine to suck up the water any ideas. pauline (link)
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Buying a machine won't solve your problem.The rain will still come in.You must find out where the leak is.It has to be a seal leak around the windows or maybe the leak is around the doors.If it is around the windows front or back,go to a auto glass and have them fix it.You won't have to replace anything,they just squirt some sealing glue up under the rubber gasket.If the seal itself has aged,then you will have to replace the rubber gasket.They also have the come to your home or office service.You will have to pay service charge but then when you get off work it will be all done.It shouldn't take very long,less than 1 hour to do the work.P.S.Call a reliable company,not one of these fly-by-night places.Hope this puts you in the right direction.
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ok im 17, and i live in michigan. I've never got in trouble with the cops before.
i was at a party the other night and everyone was drinking. everyone was under 21, and the cops gave everyone an MIP (minor in possesion) because everyone had to do a breathalizer test.
i have a court date in about a month. my mom knows, but i was wondering, 1. what most likely is going to happen when i go to court. and 2. is there any way that i could possibly not tell my dad. he and i already dont have a very good relationship, he doesnt trust me for various reasons.
thanks (link)
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Mangy had good advice.Court cost and probation.As for you dad you have two:One who doesn't care and will tell you to tone it down and the one who does care and grounds you.You knew that you were to young to drink but you thought you could get away with it.Sorry honey but you got nabbed.You just have to face what's coming to you.If I were you,I would hope for dad number two.He's the one who loves you the most and wants you to grow up to be a responsible young woman.You may not think of it now but would you want to see your own kids in jail for drinking or worst,drugs?If you learn to listen to dad number two,I know that your going to remember this and grow up to be a great mother.
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13/f
(please dont comment on my age)
I just got a boyfriend, but he's in a different school than me, and he's also a year older.
we really like each other, but do you think its realistic that we could stay together for a while? we live pretty close together (bout a 20 minute bike ride), and we take the bus together.
So do you think it might work out?
(im going to his school next year)
Thanks:) (link)
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There is a difference between a boyfriend and a guy friend.Your only 13,so give it some time.Maybe if there is a school baseball/football game between the two schools make plans to attend,Meet at a certain place and then sit together.Since you live so close,I don't see any reason not to go bike riding,going to the mall,having a soda on the week-ends.Sounds like fun.I would let things between you just happen.Don't try for the romance thing just yet.You'll never know what will happens next year.You might still be seeing him or you may be seeing other people.Love grows over time,by the time your in or leaving high school,you may have forgotten who he ever was.On the other hand,you may have grown a very deep love for each other.That love comes from 'time'.
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okk soo my bf thinks in a couple months if i was comfortable with it i could give him a hj the thing is i dont think i will (ok im like 99% SURE) i wont but he doesnt know that lol and we would be 5 months into our relationship and best friends fr like 2 years but anyway i was wondering how does a girl give a guy a hj and any tips on what guys really like because i have no CLUE how to and if i happen too and for the future whenever i decide to i would really like to know HOW lol...thanks! (link)
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Giving a guy a hand-job is the easiest thing in the world for a girl.It doesn't take any effort at all and you don't have to take off any of your clothes.The question is 'Are you ready or do you want to do this'? Do you think it will spoil or change your relationship with him? Will he expect it every time you two get together from now on? Remember that once you start down this road,he would ask for more than just a hand-job next time.Are you going to give in to his demands? These are just a few things you should start thinking about.Once you thought it through and decided if you want to do this.Then your on your own,natural instinct will guide you.I do hope you will wait awhile before becoming involve with sex.You didn't say how old you are but your writing tells me your a very young lady.Growing up and being interested is normal but you don't have to act on it.You will have plenty of time for it later in life.When you get older and the time comes when that special someone puts that wedding ring on your finger,you can experiment to your heart content.Until then,just be a kid and do what all kids do.Go out and play,run jump and make new friends.Take your time growing up there no rush.Life is long,unless your a 100.
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i know i am goodlooking... i dont have issues with the way i look. i am 5'9 and 132 and very toned (i havean 8 pack and maintain it) i have a full bust and hips..... no problem their.. i kind of look like cat mcphee / katie holmes... except i don't have their body ... i am skinnier than mcphee and not as stick skinny as holmes......i'm 21 and i am having the hardest time finding a guy... i kind of like older men and they wont approach me.... and the younger ones don't seem interested or i am not interested.... what should i doooo... how do i get the older men to notice men... by older i mean 30ish... help :S (link)
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You sound like your into fitness or maybe you look like a model.Most men will see you and only wish they could be with you.If a woman is so beautiful and carry herself with confident,a man will tell himself she will never give me the time of day,let alone go out with me.Any man would love to see you across a candle-light dinner table.To get a guy,you must go where the guy's are and become friendly with them.You must become approachable,be one of the guys.Smile,laugh and joke around,let them get to know who you are.Are you interested in sports?Most guys are,football,baseball or basketball,it all depends on the season.Go to a sports bar,lots of guys there.Here in Las Vegas,we have casinos that cater to all sports,where a guy/girl can let loose.If you don't drink then have a soda,water,anything but as long as your where the guys are your in.All you have to do is to start talking.If you don't like sports of that kind,try auto racing.Go to the car shows.Ask questions on "I wonder what the house-power is"?Most guys know that women really don't care or know much about cars,so they will tell you,make us look smart.Any woman knows that if you make the man look like your hero,you can look so innocent and naive,we will always come to your rescue.Check your local newspaper for up coming events or maybe read up on some of the subjects,you don't want to look to ignorant do we.I think you know what to do,so good hunting and the best of luck to you. (April 1st.) I hope this will get to you a second time around.I always felt that if a person(man or woman)has to put on air then your not being true to either one of you.Some thing is not right if you have to 'fake' it.I know that you have heard " Just be yourself".It may take a while until he sees pass your beauty and just sees you for the real woman you are.After all we are just human beings.There are two different sexes but we are still human beings.If your really interested in his teaching,then maybe you can ask him to recommend some literature on the subject.That way you got his attention,your standing in front of him,your talking to him and he's listening to you.The rest is up to you.If he starts to walk away,you can always trip him and sit on him.Just kidding.Starting in on a new relationship is always the weak-knees,sweaty palms time,that goes for the both of us.Just keep it business at first and when you return his books,you got your second chance at him.You can asked some questions about what you read or didn't understand.Remember,this all take time and thats what your after,spending time together.You sound very intelligence,wish I could meet you myself,you sound like you would be fun to hang around with.Good luck,I'm praying for you.
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why are a lot of the victorias secret models brazilian? (link)
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This one would be pretty hard to answer.First of all they have that Latino look, facial bone structure,you know high cheek bones,long slender neck.Personally,I love their dark smoking sexy eyes.They kind of draw you in.They can look at you like your going to melt like hot butter and also their stare could throw daggers right through you and your going to die.Another thing is their skin color,not really dark but not a pasty white either.Just enough silky brown so you think they have been tanning in the sun.To round it up for you,lets go down to the long sexy legs and tight round butt.They have a certain way of walking,like there floating or gliding,a very smooth flow.If you ever get the chance to talk to one,listen to her accent,its very charming.
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i was wondering if most guys who are experienced with sex usually have an orgasmif they're having sex with a virgin...? all answers will be appreciated i'll rate : ) (link)
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If she has retained her maidenhead in this time and age,good for her.If you like this girl and you think she will be with you for life,keep her that way until your wedding night.The respect that you had for her will give you the night of pleasure you'll never forget.Remember that she also is waiting to give it to you.Girls get horny too,you know.If you don't think you can wait,there are other things you can do,if she's willing to help you out in those areas.Both sexes can have orgasms without having intercourse.Be it by oral or manually.I hope that you will give this girl the respect that she deserves.Love her and protect her always.
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My girlfriend and I have a long distance relationship. Our conversations are largely internet messaging and phone convos. However she seems to be very closed off. It's almost difficult for me to get a word about herself out and she hates answering questions. I try to strike up conversation, but she seems to shy away from anything related to her life. It takes a lot of manipulation just to learn her favorite food/color/tv show/etc.
I'm not sure what to do. I really love her, but it's like she's barely there. Any ideas guys? (breaking up is not an option I want to consider, thanks) (link)
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Long distant relationships are very hard to keep.Its not fair to hold the other person down.You should let yourself meet new people.Your girlfriend seems aloof.she might already moved on to someone else.I would suggest being good friends with each other and date other people in your own area.Your missing out on a lot of good times to be had.You already mentioned the option you don't want to consider,but you really should.Your going to meet and make a lot of new friends of both sexes.Don't pass up this new road in your life for one dusty road in your past.On the other hand,you should talk to each other,just to clear the air first.Ask her if she thinks that things are moving too fast/slow and we should spend some time apart.If she says yes,then she's got her eye on someone else.Don't get mad at her.She,as I said already move on.Wish her all the best,your happy for her and now its your turn to find another love.If this happens,then you know in your heart that this wasn't the right girl for you.Your girl will be the one sitting on that park bench wishing for a nice guy to come along.Wishing the best for you,good luck.
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my boyfriend (weve been dating about a month) has TONS of posters of halk naked, playboy girls all around his bedroom. Like, "hot" girls in skimpy bikins and sexual poses. and of course, way more gorgeous and curvy than regular girls. the posters make me so uncomfortable. he also sometimes talks about other hot celebrities and such around me. it somehow makes me feel, like, not good enough. ill never look like one of those girls on his walls and it makes me feel so horrible. what should i do about this? (link)
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You have to remember that the Playboy photo take a lot of touching up.If you ever saw them in real life then you'll know that they have the same flaws as do the rest of us.Guys talk about girls constantly.I wouldn't be too concern unless Jessica Alba walked naked through your house while you were making out on the sofa.Which is very unlikely.You don't need to feel uncomfortable,just look at them and tell him which ones you like best.It will relive some of your tension.Always remember that your the real one there,unless he tries to tack you to the wall.Don't give his wall gallery a second thought,it only paper.If I were you,I'd get his mind on you instead of the pictures.Talk about the two of you and what he means to you.
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I know this sounds rediculous but recently my ex boyfriend has stop having sex with me. How can I get him to want to have sex with me again? And how can I make it really hot and sexiiiiii sex.?
Ill rate high (link)
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No rating necessary.My question is why did he stop in the first place.He's your ex. which means gone,goodbye.Has he gone and got another girl? Good reason for not having sex with you.He's enjoying his new love.Is it something you said or did that broke you up? Maybe it's something you didn't do.Maybe he just got tired of you.There's a lot of maybe here.I'm sure you can find any number of guys who would love to fill you needs.Your ex. must have been one hell of a lover or well hung.Maybe both,damn other maybe.The question is do you want him or just the sex part.If it him and he has moved on then all your going to get is a 'mercy lay'.I know you don't want that.what girl does.If its just for the sex then how far are you willing to go? There is an old saying "that a girl can get sex anytime she wants it,A guy takes it whenever he can get it".I really can't see any problem for you unless he has another girl.The last part of your question is:How can I make it really hot.Depending on where your at and you see him or you know where hes going to be,I would just walk up to him and say "Hi,how have you been? I haven't seen much of you lately". Of course your only there by accident,not wearing a bra and a slight see through blouse or a tight t-shirt with your nipples poking out.As he is looking at you breathing,deep breaths,Your looking at where his eyes are(we know,don't we?).A little more chit chat,putting your hands on your hips,just to pull that t-shirt a little tighter(not really realizing what your doing)That takes care of the top part.You can play it for all it worth. Now for the lower part.I'm a leg man myself,so I'm glad to see the girls wearing the daisy dukes,short shorts or hot pants.The smaller the better for me.A little butt cheek slipping out the back works for most guys.Dropping your pencil,purse or anything just so you can bend over to pick it up.For this you must have your butt facing him,so turn around and do it slow as not to bend too much at the knees.If your more daring,sitting across from him with your legs crossed or stretched out in front of you so he can see up your pant leg.Wear nice clean panties or maybe you forgot to wear any.If your in that mood,then be sure to shave closely,maybe baldly.I think I gave you enough ammo to light a stick of t.n.t. under him.If not call me,I'm ready and how.
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ok so everytime i shave my va-jay-jay, i always end up cutting myself and i bleed. and i dont even shave it all off, you can still see the hair on it. then it hjust ends up being all prickly the next day.
is there any way to shave it and get a close shave so it stays smooth for a while?
i dont want to wax either.
so anything other than that.
thanks! (link)
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This I know you know already is to aways use a new blade.Shaving is a pain in the butt,as you know.The hair will always grow back and seems like its thicker and comes back faster.I'm worried that your cutting yourself doing it.Maybe you should try an electric razor,or at least until you quit cutting yourself.Some salons have this thing called laser hair removal.It is suppose to remove the hair once and for all.You just keep what you want and they take off the rest.They tell me that it will take about six treatments and no more hair.I'm not to sure how it works but I think that they have this ultra violet light that kills the unwanted hair from any place on your body.No discomfort,no plucking,no hair removal cream.If you find out or have it done,please write back,ok?
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there are falsie eyelashes for the top eyelashes but what about the bottom lashes? (link)
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They make them for both top and bottom.Here in Vegas,the showgirls use them all the time,plus a ton of makeup.They have to because they are under such bright and hot lights constantly.They got to look good.Where to get them I don't know.Maybe your beauty salon could give you a direction to go.The Inter-net is always good for finding things.Just be sure that you don't go over board and get them too long.Stick with what you think would be good for your facial-structure.
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i cant stand being with my bestfriend anymore we've been close for like 9years now, since forever but she totally pisses me off very so often! like i can never forgive her for throwing things in my face while we were younger, also! she always like the guy i like, last year i told her i like this guy, then she went after him! but he didn't like her, he said she was too weird and not his type, the whole school knows about it, and yeah we have some really good times, but others shes a complete total female dog! i can't stand her gusts! i let her stay at my house after school every day because she lives far away and her mom picks her up at like 8 or 9pm, then a few months ago she told me she can just come and go as she pleases, its her decision that she could stay or not at my house, she acts as if my house is her house and she can come and go as she pleases, i convinced my parents to let her stay, my parents said if it makes me happy, so shes here, but she thinks shes always right about everything, so when she started to go to my school she became worst of who she was! she took all my friends away from me, dyed her hair like 10times to get attentions from others, and she disses only about EVERY guy i like, its soo annoying, i cant tell her to just leave after 9 years, im so confussed, she lies to everyone about her, making everyone at my school like completely hate me and choose her over me, im hurt realy bad of what shes done, and she makes her mother more miserable then anyone, she threatens to kill her self of she doesnt get what she wants, my parents dont like her at all, since we were younger my parents dont like her because she was a bad influence, i got soo sick of my friends staying over for sleep overs and everything and say how great or wonder she is,...she came over once to my house over the weekends and totally liked like bestfriends with my friends, and laughed at me,...she thinks she knows everything about me, well shes wrong i hate her, but i dont wanna loose her, advice please? (link)
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WOW,Sounds like you need a break and fast.It would be a lot easier if she wasn't camping out at your house half the night.I wouldn't worry too much about what she telling other people.Your true friends know the difference between what is true and what is not.She's doing that because she knows that your more mature and well liked.Your popularity it seems,is driving her to drive you up the wall.I would like to tell you to somehow distant yourself from her,not totally ignore her,just don't spend so much time with her.I'm worried about that she can come and go as she please.If your the one who convinced your parents for her to stay,then take your mother aside and just say that you make a mistake and let them handle it.It may seem hard at first but I think your peace of mind is more important.It might put some sanity back in your (and your parents)life.If nothing works,kick back,smoke some pot,and mellow out, I'm just kidding.
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any tips for how to not look like a bloated cow in pictures and elongate your legs and arms to make it look like they're toned? (link)
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First of all don't think of yourself as a bloated cow.Whenever I photograph a heavier person,I had them stand about 1/4 turn to the camera lens.Not knowing what you look like it's very hard to know what to do.It also depends on what your wearing and the color,dress,pantsuit,jeans and shirt or a skirt and blouse.One other thing to know is what type of look your going after.If your not sure if you want your legs to show,then just photograph a 3/4 shot.Leave the legs completely out.A nice pair of dress slacks could also do the trick.Having a nice photo of yourself is always a welcome gift to a loved one,no matter if it's mom,dad,or grandparents.That way when you not there to visit,your around anyways.Good luck. P.S. most people visit the photo studio first to see what kind of work he does and he may give you the information your seeking,good luck-chin up and smile.
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this might sound a little sick but what is vagina actually supposed to taste like? my boyfriend wants to eat me out but i have a feeling it will taste weird for him. so can someone tell me what it is supposed to taste like, sour, sweet, salty?? (link)
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There's nothing more pleasing to a guy than his woman offering herself to him.Going down on each other is one of the signs of love.You will notice that he also might have a taste problem.If you keep yourself in good health and wash every day,I don't think you will have any odor or taste bad.You can also eat lots of fruits.I guess that the sugar gets into your system,anyway that is suppose to help you taste sweeter.As a guy who loves this part almost as good as intercourse,its a good thing.With oral sex,a guy can make the girl cum more than once,a lot more than once.A female make-up lets her gets to the high point slower than her male counterpart.If she gets four or more orgasms,she will be so wet down there,he can just slide it in and even if he doesn't last very long she could care less because her head will be swimming.Being good at giving good head only give you bonus points from her.(That can go both ways,you know).If you just settle for the oral portion,its also safe sex in a way.you can't get pregnant.You must remember this,Always use a condom if your going to let him have intercourse with you.P.S. Your question was not sick,It was an honest concern,have fun and enjoy.One other thing before I let you go.You may want to trim your hair down there a little for a little neatness.
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So I've decided to get my bridge, (the space between your eyes) pierced. Look it up on google if my description sounds odd =)
In order to avoid the cluttering that would happen if I got my septum pierced,since I have a monroe. (although, if you think it won't look cluttered I'm still open to piercing that instead of my bridge.)
Do you think that's a good choice?
(i realize some people don't like piercing, but try and jusge unbiasy) Just look at my face shape and see if it would 'go'.
http://s2.photobucket.com/albums/y11/Zeilay/?action=view¤t=cofdhjg.jpg
(that's me,lol) (link)
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I'm too lazy to look up your photo.I worked with a girl who had her eye brow done.Since we had to meet with the public,she was told to take it out or at least cover it in some way.Personally I would rather have the girls go for the pierced look than have her get some tattoos that you may regret later in life.At least when your done with the rings/studs,you can take them out and you grow back together again(just kidding).I'm always concern about infection,No matter where you get it just be careful.
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