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i know i am goodlooking... i dont have issues with the way i look. i am 5'9 and 132 and very toned (i havean 8 pack and maintain it) i have a full bust and hips..... no problem their.. i kind of look like cat mcphee / katie holmes... except i don't have their body ... i am skinnier than mcphee and not as stick skinny as holmes......i'm 21 and i am having the hardest time finding a guy... i kind of like older men and they wont approach me.... and the younger ones don't seem interested or i am not interested.... what should i doooo... how do i get the older men to notice men... by older i mean 30ish... help :S
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let your personality shine. if you have beauty AND personality any man would love that. just remember its not all about looks. be confident in who you are and get to know as many people as possible.
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You sound like your into fitness or maybe you look like a model.Most men will see you and only wish they could be with you.If a woman is so beautiful and carry herself with confident,a man will tell himself she will never give me the time of day,let alone go out with me.Any man would love to see you across a candle-light dinner table.To get a guy,you must go where the guy's are and become friendly with them.You must become approachable,be one of the guys.Smile,laugh and joke around,let them get to know who you are.Are you interested in sports?Most guys are,football,baseball or basketball,it all depends on the season.Go to a sports bar,lots of guys there.Here in Las Vegas,we have casinos that cater to all sports,where a guy/girl can let loose.If you don't drink then have a soda,water,anything but as long as your where the guys are your in.All you have to do is to start talking.If you don't like sports of that kind,try auto racing.Go to the car shows.Ask questions on "I wonder what the house-power is"?Most guys know that women really don't care or know much about cars,so they will tell you,make us look smart.Any woman knows that if you make the man look like your hero,you can look so innocent and naive,we will always come to your rescue.Check your local newspaper for up coming events or maybe read up on some of the subjects,you don't want to look to ignorant do we.I think you know what to do,so good hunting and the best of luck to you. (April 1st.) I hope this will get to you a second time around.I always felt that if a person(man or woman)has to put on air then your not being true to either one of you.Some thing is not right if you have to 'fake' it.I know that you have heard " Just be yourself".It may take a while until he sees pass your beauty and just sees you for the real woman you are.After all we are just human beings.There are two different sexes but we are still human beings.If your really interested in his teaching,then maybe you can ask him to recommend some literature on the subject.That way you got his attention,your standing in front of him,your talking to him and he's listening to you.The rest is up to you.If he starts to walk away,you can always trip him and sit on him.Just kidding.Starting in on a new relationship is always the weak-knees,sweaty palms time,that goes for the both of us.Just keep it business at first and when you return his books,you got your second chance at him.You can asked some questions about what you read or didn't understand.Remember,this all take time and thats what your after,spending time together.You sound very intelligence,wish I could meet you myself,you sound like you would be fun to hang around with.Good luck,I'm praying for you.
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