16/f boyfriend 16/m
ok so my boyfriends parents are total ***holes.
hes getting his license soon.. they told him if he bought a car and paid for it all by himself that they were still going to take his keys so he couldnt come see me and he could only use the car when they wanted him to.. they made him move to a closet not even a real room.. he has 3 other siblings who always come first and he always is stuck home babysitting my boyfriend gets awesome grades and is in the highest classes and his mom told him he was grounded but that was an excuse so she could go out and party with her husband who grows and smokes pot.. and like there just really crazy and make up stupid rules.. and my boyfriend whats to like get emancipated... but he wants to live with me?? can this happen?? and how what should he do?? if it cant.. how can we deal with this besides emancipation.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? Larry1 answered Wednesday April 2 2008, 9:30 am: It sounds like the parents might know more about their son than you do.Buying a car is a big step for any teenager.It means freedom but it also means responsibility.Does he have a job to support this new adventure?You also need money to pay for gas,insurance,up keep to maintain the car to keep it safe and in good working order.His parents may think he's not ready for this yet.Maybe in another year,if he can show that he's ready,they will reconsider their thoughts.Has he an interest in cars?Does he help his dad work on daddy's car?My dad started me on motorcycles(Dad's passion,not mine).He told me to tear it down and put it back together again so that I would get just the basics and it must run when I was done.I will say that he was there if I had any questions.It took awhile but I did complete the task and he let me get my first car.It was a beater but it was free.My dad told me to make it run.Your boyfriend really doesn't want to emancipated from his parents,right now he's just spreading his wings a little.They love him and he loves them back no matter what he says. April 2nd: I can see why his parents don't want him to see you.You are a total 'bitch'.I would put you in the trunk with no lid and hope to run over a very large pot hole.You are about yourself that's for sure.Have you ever thought about why they don't like you?Maybe if you cleaned up your act,things may go a little smoother.No matter what you say,they are still the parents and they will protect him as best as they can.When he turns 18,then he's on his own,then you can own him. [ Larry1's advice column | Ask Larry1 A Question ]
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