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playboy posters
my boyfriend (weve been dating about a month) has TONS of posters of halk naked, playboy girls all around his bedroom. Like, "hot" girls in skimpy bikins and sexual poses. and of course, way more gorgeous and curvy than regular girls. the posters make me so uncomfortable. he also sometimes talks about other hot celebrities and such around me. it somehow makes me feel, like, not good enough. ill never look like one of those girls on his walls and it makes me feel so horrible. what should i do about this?
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You just need to remember:
Every single picture on his wall has been edited to hell. Celebs have hair and make up professionals - of course they're going to look good. Fake, but good.
Just tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable when he talks about others. He should understand. He's your boyfriend after all.
You shouldn't be made to feel inadequate due to silly posters and what not. You're fine as you are. and real. :)
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your perfect they way you are and he likes you for thatt. all guys like supper hot naked girlss.
if it really makes you that uncomfortable talk to him about it. tell him the posters make you feel like ur not good enough and tell him u dont like themm. if he loves you and respects you enough he will take them down :D
hope this helps.
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Talk to him about it.
Most guys are not total morons: They know thier girlfriend will never look like a pin up model. The vast majority of them, or totally happy with that (and might actually get really upset if thier girlfriend started to look like one of them. After all, they don't want guys looking at her the way they look at Playboy!)
Talk to him about might help you realize that those pictures have absolutely nothing to do with you. They might as well be another species all togeather. Most healthy guys simply don't contect thier 'pornography' with real women at all.
Asking him not to go on about how attractive other girls are when talking to you is perfectly fair. Of course he gets turned on by other girls... but there is no reason for him to tell you all about it. But his room is his room, if you don't like it, try to stay out of it. By all means let him know how you feel and why you don't want to hang out in a room plastered with half-naked women, but respect his choice to do that in his personal space.
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You have to remember that the Playboy photo take a lot of touching up.If you ever saw them in real life then you'll know that they have the same flaws as do the rest of us.Guys talk about girls constantly.I wouldn't be too concern unless Jessica Alba walked naked through your house while you were making out on the sofa.Which is very unlikely.You don't need to feel uncomfortable,just look at them and tell him which ones you like best.It will relive some of your tension.Always remember that your the real one there,unless he tries to tack you to the wall.Don't give his wall gallery a second thought,it only paper.If I were you,I'd get his mind on you instead of the pictures.Talk about the two of you and what he means to you.
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Its a mans nature to always look for the most attractive woman they can lay eyes on. Its nothing that should be taken offense to. If you think about it this way, a persons brain is devided up into sections, each section has a certain set of chemicals that get released for certain reasons, brain wave lengths n' stuff like that. Anyway, when a guy sees a hot woman it automatically goes to his mind and he can't help but say something a memory can also spark this. This is not meant to hurt anyone its just the way a guy is.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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I understand where your coming from. When my boyfriend talks about celebs and everything, it makes me feel not good enough as well. I just remember what he tells me about how he thinks of me. I suggest shrugging it off. Don't let it getto you. Just remember that they are fake, MOST LIKELY computer edited to be perfect, and probably full of STDS. Remember that you are real and his right now and they are just girls he would only dream to be with pretty much. They are nothing compaired to you.
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