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do girls think its gross(or nething) if a guy gets horny whith the gurl in there lap or nething (link)
i would say more werid then gross


is a fish a good pet? or is a dog better? i cant decide, people help me!!! (link)
depends on what u want. do you want to just look at something and put a little food in a bowl everyday or do you want to have something to play with and cuddle with and take on walks and clean up messes and give food and water and take to the vet and the groomer. dogs are a lot more work then a fish but they are way better and more fun to have.


Who's better?
Britney or Christina (link)
christina, she has her life together and isnt crazy. its that easy haha


no mascara or anything else just eyeliner on lower eyelid. (link)
people do it all the time but i dont think it really looks all that great. i wear it on the topeyelid only but i wear mascara too cause its amzing


19/f
So my boyfriend and I have been dating for over 7 months now. I've given him oral sex many times, but he's never done it for me. So when I asked him last night, he said he thought it was gross. I asked what part was gross, and he said the er..fluids that come out i guess. Then he went on to say that he wasn't ready, "just not yet". Which made no sense to me. How is this fair? What should I do about it?

I was really offended like I gross him out. Or that he doesn't want to make me happy. Because I do it for him, and it's not like my favorite thing in the world, but I enjoy making him happy. (link)
yea i would just stop giving him anything it will make him angry and give you what u want haha. just tease him and make him hard then be like well u never do anything to me,


17 f. Hey guys so. Me and my best friend we go to a different high school and every since we were in the 6th grade we vowed to go together to prom. So I had this BF who I really cared about and he happens to go to her school. He said he was going to take me. We had everything set when we got into this huge fight and he said a lot of hurt things to me. Like Ex. "I was always embarrased to be seen by you" "you're a who*re " and a lot of other things. So basically he also told me that he wasn't going to take me to prom he was going to take another girl. And he said "I bet you're going to look ridiculous that day" so now I don't know if I should go to their prom. My friend already got me someone to take me and everything. I kind of want to go to show him what he lost. And that day I'm planning on looking gorgeous. He knew how important it was for me and my bff to go together. I even offerd to buy a ticket from him but he said he doesn't wanna help me out and doesn't care. I wanna go to show him that I didn't need him to take me to prom I went without his help. But at the same time I also don't want to becuase I'm thinking he's not worth it. But I feel like I NEED to go becuase then he will be thinking that it was becuase of him that I didn't go. Plus I need to show him how well I can clean up. Haha. So advice? Should I go or not? Wat would you have done? I'm so lost. -michelle , MN (link)
I would deffinatly go! i would look freakin amazing and prolly ignore him and dont even make eye contact with him. pretend he doesnt even exsist and that he isnt even there. you will have the most fun that way :] maybe be all over another guy in front of him? haha


I NEED HELP... i HAVE REPEATEDLY ATTEMPTED TO END MY LIFE....I NEED ADVICE,,, I HATE MYLIFE... I FEEL AS IFF U GUYS HAVE TO BE IN MY SHOES TO KNOW EXACTLY WEA IM COMING FROM... ITS NOT EASY LIVING THE LIFE THAT I AM LIVING...... ETC, (link)
I dont know how old you are but if your younger than 18 i feel ya. The only thing is to try to stay positive i bet there are worse things that could happen but as you get older it will better give life a chance its very valuble and lots of people wish they were still alive to day. Something else i would do is talk to someone and let it all out. Maybe get some help from a perfesional


This guy I know is really cute and i know he thinks I am too, but he won't initiatate conversation at all, except maybe hi or to ask what was the homework was. I have tried to talk to him but everytime I get near him I act like a total wuss. AND he is always near his friends and they don't like me. I've tried notes and phone calls (which he answers), but everytime we get to the subject of going out, he always hangs up.!!!! I just don't understand him. What should I do?????????!--------michelle (link)
I always say like facebook or myspace usually helps. Or the best thing is textingg. it really helps shy people say what they really want to without being shy haha


Is there a difference between emo and goth?

I see people in school that call themselves one or the other but they seriously all dress the same do their makeup the same and kinda act the same. So is there a different or are emo and goth the same thing?

Thank you! (link)
I think they are different. like goth is all about the clothing and make up i feel like. but emo people have like emotional problems. and prolly cut and stuff


my boyfriend (weve been dating about a month) has TONS of posters of halk naked, playboy girls all around his bedroom. Like, "hot" girls in skimpy bikins and sexual poses. and of course, way more gorgeous and curvy than regular girls. the posters make me so uncomfortable. he also sometimes talks about other hot celebrities and such around me. it somehow makes me feel, like, not good enough. ill never look like one of those girls on his walls and it makes me feel so horrible. what should i do about this? (link)
your perfect they way you are and he likes you for thatt. all guys like supper hot naked girlss.
if it really makes you that uncomfortable talk to him about it. tell him the posters make you feel like ur not good enough and tell him u dont like themm. if he loves you and respects you enough he will take them down :D
hope this helps.




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