Well I am rather artistic. I like drama,dance and literature. I'm working on a novel right now nd have several other ideas. I also like stuff like readng and sports. Soccer is my favorite. Though what I love to do is give out advice. I'm good at it too and anyone can come to me for advice about anything. My favorite sections are listed for giving out advice, but I enjoy answering any type of question.
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17/F This morning at school: I sang a song with my choir for an audience... No idea why, but my legs started shaking like crazy and it looked like I was having a seizure. I don't understand why this is happening. I'm comfortable with my singing ability, so what are ways to prevent this from happening again?
Also, this happens often when I'm singing and my knees were not locked. (link)
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Well, this is a tough one. But I know that I have low protein so maybe it has something to do with that. It's a possibility that either you hadn't had enough protein in your food that day or you just were simply hungry. Hunger can do affect your body very easily. It was very likely something that wont happen regularly. Just make sure you have had enough food and protein so that your all set for a non-shaky choir!
Hope this helps :)
If this doesn't seem to be it, what about asking your doctor. Also a website that gives you very good advice is YahooAnswers. There are always many people on yahooanswers to answer your questions.
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a friend of mine has an eating disorder. its not anorexia or bulimia or anything like that. she eats, but very little. and when she gets stressed out it makes her stomach hurt. and then she makes herself throw up. i have yelled at her about it and stuff because shes lost over 20 pounds since christmas and its totally unhealthy. she claimes she is just fine, but i know thats total bullshit. i really respect our friendship, and i dont want to ruin it by telling someone who could help her. i know it could help her and would really pay off, but i've been in her position. not with eating, but i was cutting and told my so-called friend, and she told her parents and her parents called me parents and it was a mess. and i hated her for it. but i dont want my friend to keep up this bad habbit! shes not ok! its out of control! and she wont listen to me! but if i tell someone, i might lose her! what do i do? (link)
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Well it's between losing a friendship or losing a friend, which is worse in your opinion?
I have to say that having a friend die is worse than losing a friendship. Don't you agree?
You are going to have to tell someone. Presumably her parents or your parents. Just as your friend did about your cutting. Which is probably just as bad as an eating disoder and hopefully you have stopped. Once somebody knows they will get her some help. What she's doing is dangerous and could easily kill her. They will get her medical help and even though she will very likely be totally pissed with you, she will one day thank you, I promise.
So go with the chances of losing a friendship, not a friend.
Yes, this answer was short, but there's nothing else to say. It's short yet helpful and promising. Tell someone as soon as you can.
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hey, i have a little sister, and she's only like 7 right? and she knows things that she REALLY shouldn't know! like she knows soulja boy and sex stuff and ... other things. anyways, is our generation changing by the minute? I heard her talking to a boy about sex! help!! (link)
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omg! at seven years old? Well I think you should be sitting down with your parents and explain the situation. That your little sister obviously doesn't seem to understand the maturity level she should be at and whats appropriet and what is not. She's only seven and probably just doesn't understand. Your parents may even know about all this. Either way somebody should be sitting down with your sister and explaing everything to her. Maybe bring her on a shopping trip and get her things to do that seven year olds like. Just to be making sure that she acts her own age. Get her toys, clothes and a rent a movie to watch with her (something like a disney movie).
Good Luck! :) srry thats all I could think of to fix this situation.
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me & my boyfriend had just broken up, he said because he doesn't want me anymore.. which really hurt me, i started crying for 2 hours straight. then.. later on, he wanted to get back together with me.. but i told him it was kind of too late. and then i said if he wanted to, then i think it's best to be single for a while first. and he asked if we can still have the "no talking to opposite sex promise".. because he's scared he'll loose me to another guy. and i told him that i think it's best if we can talk to the opposite sex to be able to trust each other. and he said "forget it, we're not gonna get back together then." and it's very frustrating, because i need some time to think it over if i should or not, and he rushes me. and then, he got mad at me because i added guys on myspace, when we went single.. because i first saw myself off of his, and had a girl comment him. so i thought he added all the girls back, then i added all the guys back. and he got mad at me when we were single.. and he told me that he was gonna delete me out of his life and burn everything and etc. and then he said all of these harsh things to me and stuff. and then he called me so i had to pick up, and he was crying.. and he said "why'd you do this to me?" and he also said "i hate my life because of you" and all this stuff, which made me cry because he was crying really hard. and he asked to start over with me, but i told him i needed some time to think about things, and he finally gave me time to think it all through. and he said it was his fault for breaking up with me in the first place.
and yesss.. we did have alot of difficulties in our relationship, that's why i said we should be single for a while till we're ready to start over.. and to talk to the opposite sex while we wait, but he doesn't wanna do the opposite sex.
so what should i do? i don't know what to do anymore.. i'm very confused. PLEASE HELP ME! i'm stuck in between. i wanna be with him, but yet.. yeahh.. (link)
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Well you see, he's very controlling and protective of you and your life. Which isin't right because as I said before, YOUR life and YOU. Not him. You should be able to talk to the opposite sex. I think that if you really like him that much, give him another chance. But only if he agrees to certain circumstances. Make a list of the things that went wrong in your relationship and write down how they can be fixed. Include the not talking to the opposite sex thing because that is waayy out of line. I mean its ridiculous. If you two really like eachother that much, you should be able to trust eachother. It's not like your going to jump this guy while saying hi to him. Honestly lol.
So make a list of everything that went wrong and sit down with your boyfriend/ex-boyfriend and fix the issues. Tell him that you will only be with him again if he agrees to fix the problems that were in your last relationship. If he refuses then he isin't good enough for you. Don't let it bother you and don't let yourself break down. Just grab a couple of girlfriends and go to a party or club. Meet someone that will treat you how you deserve to be treated and that you actually enjoy being with all the time. Though if he agrees to the circumstances (like he should) go for it. Be his girlfriend again. But if he starts getting all up-tight again, break it off. That means it just wasn't meant to be.
Hope this helps :)
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