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SUICIDE
I NEED HELP... i HAVE REPEATEDLY ATTEMPTED TO END MY LIFE....I NEED ADVICE,,, I HATE MYLIFE... I FEEL AS IFF U GUYS HAVE TO BE IN MY SHOES TO KNOW EXACTLY WEA IM COMING FROM... ITS NOT EASY LIVING THE LIFE THAT I AM LIVING...... ETC,
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I know..
I went in the hospital for that.
i know that it feels like everybody is just looking down on you or doubting you.. they've never been in your shoes or witnessed what you've been through. As much as people say "you gotta be strong..turn your cheek" i know that it's impossible or easier said than done because i don't believe in that shit.
what we'd really like is for people to fuck off or walk in our fucking shoes. All i can say is try your hardest to ignore them if that doesn't work then put them in your shoes.. tell them what you've been through tell them how you feel when they talk shit about it..Make them feel bad for you.. it'll wake them up a lil bit. i'm with ya.
Hang in there.
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-Kissme623♥
God bless.
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things may suck now but there is always something in everyone future. so dont its not worth it just be strong now and let life run its course maybe you should go talk to some one. i was misserable and i figured out that i was bipolar and depressed gave me meds now i am happy. good luck please just wait for the future it will be wonderful
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Just remember that many who commit suicide don't want life to be over, they just want someone to help them and they want the pain to stop, whatever it may be. You need to find someone to help you get through this. Life is the most amazing privilege in the world and if you're alive I really believe that God thinks you can get through this. Like the answer all the way at the bottom, there are a number of things you can do. There IS always help, and you have to remember that your life is worth so much more and you need to make the most of it. You only get one shot and no one wants to see you go. Please get help.
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I dont know how old you are but if your younger than 18 i feel ya. The only thing is to try to stay positive i bet there are worse things that could happen but as you get older it will better give life a chance its very valuble and lots of people wish they were still alive to day. Something else i would do is talk to someone and let it all out. Maybe get some help from a perfesional
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you may say i need to be in your shoes to understand what you mean, maybe you are right! that doesn't mean you have the right to end your life before God decides it's you time. You might have gone through a lot and probably have given up, but they has to be someone close to you that you can talk to. if no then i am here to listen. The oldest form of help is through therapy. the other form is through an institution that helps you talk thing through and stuff. but those things just inspire you to feel better, you have to make the decision to change and the decision that you will not end your life and that you will try and work things through and that no matter what comes your way your a fighter!
if you need someone to talk to I am here!
Bye May the lord be with you and help you through every thing you are going through...
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all i have to say is life will get better you will grow older and wiser and meet the person of your dreams one day, do you really want to spoil that over a few guys that have done you wrong?
you will find things will get easier and think of your family and friends how will it affect them?
is he really worth ending your life over, is he really worth never seeing anyone of your loved ones again. i would say proberly not.
hope this helped and i hope you find happiness!
xx
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Commiting suicide isn't going to help anything it will just make things worst you'll be hurting the
people that love and care for you like your family
and friends think about them they'll be hurt and it isn't worth it to put them through that if you don't like something about your life change whatever your not satisifed with until you are your in control of your life and only you..your the only one that can make the difference there's better ways to solve your problems like talking to someone seeing a therapist it's not healthy to keep what your feeling to yourself it's better to get it all out in the open for others to hear nobody said life was going to be easy it isn't but that doesn't mean to try and end your life when things get tough think about your friends and family and how if you do commit suicide you'll be hurting them it isn't worth it to do that they deserve better(:
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you have received and may continue to receive from others.
If you are feeling suicidal at this time call 911 KNOW or go to the nearest hospital Emergency Room for help.
Suicide is not the answer to your problem(s). I would like you to call the National Suicide hot line. Their number is: 1-800-273-TALK (8255). They operate 24/7 and are totally free and confidential. They have a network of crisis center around the country they can refer you to for help, probably one right in your home town or close to you. The call takers are trained professionals who are volunteers and are there to help you; so please give them a call, they can and will help you through this.
You say I have to walk in your shoes to know how you feel, I don’t. Someone who is suicidal is suffering from some form of depression. As someone who has suffered with depression for many years I know a little of how you feel. Depression causes you to misinterpret things, take things the wrong way which adds to the depression.
You have just entered your teenage years; you have probably also started going through puberty. This is a very confusing time for any teenager; young women are especially confused as their mind tries to keep up with the changes their bodies are going through; the changes they feel within and most importantly the changes in the social structure they must navigate at school.
Your parent have expectations that they expect you to live up to, your teachers in school have higher expectations of you. Last but definitely not least your friends are also changing, just as you are, and they pressure you to change as they do.
Please call the hot line I recommended above. If you feel like hurting yourself before you can get to someone that can help you please call 911. Tell the call taker how you are feeling, they will send help. The normal response is to send both Fire Rescue and the Police. Do not be afraid, the call taker will most likely want to stay on the phone with you until help arrives. The police are there to protect you and the others, not to harm you or arrest you. The fire rescue people are there to take care of you and to take you to the hospital.
Feeling as you do you need to get to someplace where you can get help. The fastest way to do this is to call 911, go to the nearest hospital emergency room yourself or go to the nearest fire station. Fire Stations across the U.S. are Safe Havens for all children. Tell the fire fighters on duty how you feel. If the station is unmanned, there should be a call box at the front of the station. Use it to call for help.
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