17 f. Hey guys so. Me and my best friend we go to a different high school and every since we were in the 6th grade we vowed to go together to prom. So I had this BF who I really cared about and he happens to go to her school. He said he was going to take me. We had everything set when we got into this huge fight and he said a lot of hurt things to me. Like Ex. "I was always embarrased to be seen by you" "you're a who*re " and a lot of other things. So basically he also told me that he wasn't going to take me to prom he was going to take another girl. And he said "I bet you're going to look ridiculous that day" so now I don't know if I should go to their prom. My friend already got me someone to take me and everything. I kind of want to go to show him what he lost. And that day I'm planning on looking gorgeous. He knew how important it was for me and my bff to go together. I even offerd to buy a ticket from him but he said he doesn't wanna help me out and doesn't care. I wanna go to show him that I didn't need him to take me to prom I went without his help. But at the same time I also don't want to becuase I'm thinking he's not worth it. But I feel like I NEED to go becuase then he will be thinking that it was becuase of him that I didn't go. Plus I need to show him how well I can clean up. Haha. So advice? Should I go or not? Wat would you have done? I'm so lost. -michelle , MN
elw5039 answered Monday May 17 2010, 12:14 am: I think you should go and have an amazing time with your best friend. Forget your boyfriend, he's a jerk. Go and show him what he lost!!! [ elw5039's advice column | Ask elw5039 A Question ]
justletmebe answered Sunday May 16 2010, 11:29 pm: go and have fun but dont go to show him up go for your bff. Its not worth your time to worry about him forget all about that. just go and have dont make the night about him or he will win. make it about you haveing your self looking hot and having fun. nothing to do with him. go for YOU [ justletmebe's advice column | Ask justletmebe A Question ]
sunshine1232 answered Sunday May 16 2010, 9:59 pm: I think you should go you shouldn't allow him to stop you from having a good time & having fun if you don't go then you might end up regretting it &
wishing that you had gone it's his loss because
he didn't have you to go with he ruined it for himself by saying those rude comments to you..you don't need him to have fun you can do that by yourself if you feel like you need to go then do so
listen to yourself it's prom & only happens once in a while you deserve to be treated better & not the way he treated you he clearly proved to you that he doesn't care you don't need him move on & go to prom have a good time you'll probably have a better time without him anyways less stress(: [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
laynemayhem answered Sunday May 16 2010, 9:16 pm: i would go just to rub it in his face that you don't care and he's not worth it. plus, you're friend will be there. so it wouldnt be like you'd just be going to show him up, you'd be going to hang out with your friend. so yeah. go. look awesome and have fun. and don't even let him know that you know he's there. completely ignore him.
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