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getting a bf.
im 18 and i need a date for this weekend. im not very good with getting guys. some girls are a magnet for guys because they're very hott. i dont think im one of those girls...
maybe im not attractive but i am pretty. i guess i dont catch many guys' eyes. i think im abnormally pretty; i have many flaws and not very great bone structure, but i think i am cute and charming.
i like cute and charming guys. i guess i attract the guys im not really interested in. like the ones who only want sex or the ones with terrible personalities.. or ones who are shorter than me /:
anyways, how do i get a guy?
i havent flirted with guys since...
in the past, one or two guys really hurt me, and they've made me insecure of myself. so im not so open to flirt anymore, but flirting has worked for me before...
where should i go hunting? what do i use as bait? haha just kidding. im not a predator ;D
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first of all you are as pretty as you put your self out there to be.You need to have faith in your self before you will be ready to start flirting.You need to stop and look at your self in the mirror and tell your self that you can and you are a very pretty person inside and out.And don't let other situation keep from knowing that,I have been doing along time and really only advice i can give you is get out there start talking to boys show them you are intrested the more you do that, less in secure you will be. And more confident you will be,It only get's easier after that. Stay beautiful stay confident you will be able to over come anything.
take care
Tim
P.S. write me back if you have any questions.
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I think that if you're cute and charming that should pull any guy towards you. There are those that use woman for their own pleasures and the truth is, many people only really care about themselves. It's really hard to find someone that will definately care for you no matter who you are or what you're like. I don't understand how you're not pretty but not attractive. If you're pretty then you should definately be attractive. Knowing that you're cute and charming is a good start. A lot of people don't know how to flirt because of their insecurities, they think that they're not beautiful, and if they try it might come out to look gross or unpleasant. Like I said earlier, the reason why you might be finding guys that are only in your sex or terrible personalities is because there are selfish people out there, as a matter of fact there are a lot of selfish people out there. I'm not quite sure on how you can get a decent guy in two or three days time, but if it's just a weekend thing with your friends to go to the movies you could ask your friend.
So.. once again, if flirting has worked for you in the past them you should try it again. So what if there was one or two guys that hurt you. Don't ever let that drag you down. You know you're cute and you know you're charming. If it's something that's successful for you then keep doing it. Life is long and there are many people to meet, there are some friends that'll stay with you and that you'll keep them for a long time, people come and go. My point is, those two guys are gone, now you need to meet new people. You're 18 and you have a long life ahead of you. But if you really want to start hunting you should just talk to people in your class and get to know them better or hang out with your friends in groups with guys in them or go to parties. To be honest, I'm a year younger than you, well.. I'll be 18 in two months and there were one or two people that have hurt me too, and when they hurt me I cut them off in my life and moved on. They've both made really big mistakes in my opinion because I would've stayed wih them and helped them through whatever they needed and do what all that I could do for them, but I greatly do not appreciate being cheated on. [One of them did that any]
Anyway, sorry for the long reply. I really hope that helps. =]
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