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so im a 13 year old girl and i feel left out and i was wonder what are ways to get a good boyfriend but i mean really whats wrong with me beacuse iv been trying hard but really i just dont know what to do
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hey :] so heres the deal, if you try too hard, and youre too forward, you might scare guys off. yuh know? like.. you can flirt and stuff, but up to a point. definetly play hard to get ;]
but really, there is nothing wrong with you. youre 13, and that whole thing about "girls mature faster than guys" is totally true. at 13, some guys arent really looking for relationships, some guys still think girls have cooties at that age. haha. immature? i know. but you just have to wait for them to catch up to you.
Just be yourself, and stop trying. I promise that when you stop TRYING to get a guy, then it will happen and guys will come to you. you are perfectly normal, so dont worry about that at all. you can have crushes and stuff :] duh, but dont force yourself onto guys.. if theyre interested, theyll make a point to come to you. so just be your rad self and have CONFIDENCE :] guys love girls with confidence. and flirt ;] but not OVERLY just a little bit. make sure you become friends with guys and make a point to hang out with them during school.. the more guy friends you have, the more options you have :]
and dont feel left out, there are ALOT of girls who feel exactly like you. you'll find that guy, just be patient and give it time :] good luck. hope i helped ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.
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If you stop looking and just be who you are the right one believe it or not will come to you and you will be really happy because instead of forcign them to try to get to know you they are doing it on their own and they will realize who you really are and when that person does come that gives you the attention and hints that they like you dont reel yourself in right away make them work for it. Give them hints you like them too but like flirt and then walk away when they come up and talk to you and believe me if they like you they will follow and then when they asked what that was alll bout play stupid and be like what are you talking about for a couple of days then when they cant take it anymore tell him that you like him.
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