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The meaning of life and different experiences
Posted Saturday September 28 2013, 11:13 pm
So im a 16 year old girl and im just confused about life. I don't really have close friends and I can't really do a whole lot of things outside of the house. I always pictured that when i get out of hs and college that i'm just going to be a loner, i'm going to write and try to help people and hopefully travel but eh i dont know. Sorry this is hard to explain. I just feel like i'm going to watch my whole life past by without it being exciting, or actually living and that i'm never going to have a lot of fun or have a really creative life. I just want to know what i can do. And id love to hear about other peoples experiences when you did something crazy or had one of those deep meaningful nights. I dont know something. Thanks for helping if this makes sense to you haha.
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Gender Identity
Posted Saturday September 28 2013, 10:35 pm
I'm thirteen years old. I have identified as a girl for most of my life, but I have felt rather confused lately.
I feel like I have two genders, if that makes any sense. I sometimes feel like a girl, but there are many times when I feel, er, gender-neutral I guess.
If it helps, I am attracted to girls . . . I just don't see guys in that way. And I prefer to wear gender-neutral clothes.
I guess my question is, why do I feel like this? And does this mean something?
Thanks for any advice!
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does he like me?
Posted Saturday September 28 2013, 10:16 pm
So I'm 13 and this guy is 14 and we met at camp. He always starred at me and I starred at him. And a month ago I told him I liked him and he liked me back so we got together. Then after a week I see another girl hitting on him and that very night he dumps me. But I still really like him. And he knows that I'm sad but he doesn't know what I'm sad about ...I really like him. Ive never liked a guy this much
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I Can't Think of New Ideas for My Story.
Posted Saturday September 28 2013, 6:06 pm
Hi! I'm thirteen years old, and I'm writing a love story about two girls. I'm currently working on the outline. The problem is, I cannot think of any new ideas.
I'm not the best at making up new ideas. For anyone on here who is an author, how do you think of ideas when you're writing an outline for a story?
Anyway, here is what the story is about:
The main characters are named Estelle and Irisa, and they are both gay. Estelle comes from a homophobic Catholic family, and she goes to a private Catholic school. Irisa comes from a tolerant family and goes to a public school. They sometimes see one another on the walk home, but they didn't pay much attention to each other until they saw each o...
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I love a girl madly since 2 years and she knows that i like her and we never talk about anything. But i think that she does't like me.
Posted Saturday September 28 2013, 1:18 pm
I like her very much, but i never talk her, and also she know about that i like her. But i think that she does't like me because of her no response towards me . But i make eye contact with her many times. And i am madly falling in love with her..... Now what i do? I am from India.
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Getting back together with someone
Posted Saturday September 28 2013, 9:33 am
Okay so I'm a 16 year old girl and i dated this guy named nick for about 2 months then i broke up with him because i didn't like what some people said about us and i started not wanting to be around him all the time then about 2 months after we broke up i started dating this other guy named jacob and we've been together for 8 months now, but i miss nick alot and i still feel like i really like him and recently ive been thinking about being in a relationship with him again and i think he might still like me back due to our convos, but i also really like jacob and i dont know if i want to break up with him because i enjoy myself when im around him. So i guess my question is should i stay with jacob and forget about nick or should i end it with jacob and try to work things out with nick?
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suicide: 40 years of chronic pain, and I just don't know what to do. Can anyone help me at all?
Posted Saturday September 28 2013, 3:20 am
I'm 40 years old. My whole life has been about surgeries, Drs, in office procedures, medications.I live with chronic pain. I live with a rare disease that has left my face disfigured. Badly. I've been abed by men severely and almost died. I have been on so many different antidepressants, seen many therapists, talked til I ccouldnt stand to hear myself anymore.im a recluse now. I do not want people I. My life. Flat out, I'm tired. I do not ever remember in my 40 yrs when I was happy. Yes there were small moments but no more than maybe a day. I have no more strength to keep fighting. Is there something I've failed to see?I want to be happy and I've tried. What gods did I anger in a past life that I'm making up for in this life. What does one ...
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Is it alright to send a birthday card to someone incarcerated?
Posted Saturday September 28 2013, 3:14 am
also is this feeling weird.
my mother is currently in jail until February for a financial crime and I am her 14 year old daughter. My dad said to find and write her a card to send her there since her birthday will be coming up. I have no problem doing this but some would say it is a bad thing since I would be supporting a criminal. Personally since her crime wasn't against me I think it is OK to support her in some ways like potentially sending her some books or something. If I do decide to send a card what should I write in it (I am horrible at thinking up more than one line to write) and was thinking of getting one of those jail themed related cards on the internet but then it might seem I am making fun of her, though I kn...
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How Can I Tell My Mom that I Want to Change My Style?
Posted Friday September 27 2013, 9:33 pm
I'm thirteen years old and female. For much of my life, I have been wearing clothes that I feel are too feminine, and I want to wear things that are more masculine.
Whenever I shop for more clothes (which I honestly don't do often), I stick to the girls' section, because that's what my mom probably wants me to do. But everything in the girls' section is too feminine. I always find myself glancing toward the guys' section and hoping that I can wear clothes from there instead.
I've tried bringing up this topic to my mom a couple of times. But she always says, "No, your clothes aren't too girly. They're fine." She doesn't like it much when I talk about this either. And it's hard for me to bring this up a...
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How do I help others?
Posted Friday September 27 2013, 4:49 pm
So ive always felt that the reasons we're here or the best way to spend your time and feel good is to help others. And ive bee trying and trying to do this, but idk what to do. I joined this website in the beginning of the year cause i was always really upset and i thought a good way to feel better was to help people and i love giving advice so i tried this and it was okay. And then i helped my friend with something, but i cant really help her anymore and i just i dont know. I dont have a lot of money so i cant really donate and one day if i have money i will but i dont want to just throw money at people. I like interacting and talking to people but i feel like i havent been through enough to really connect with people about a lot of things...
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All About Cigars
Posted Friday September 27 2013, 1:17 pm
18/m
I apologize if this is in the wrong section.
First and foremost, I know smoking is bad for you. I am here for my question(s) not a lecture on my health. I have learned about smoking and tobacco products in school and from other people. It is my choice after all. Thanks!
I am not a very experienced smoker at all and I only have had a few cigs here and there. I don't even smoke a pack a month, which I'm proud of. I haven't ever had nicotine cravings or anything of that sort.
But I do want to learn about smoking cigars and what kinds are good for people just getting into that stuff. Any information will be helpful! Maybe any websites to visit?
What are good ciga...
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German Shepard or Lab
Posted Friday September 27 2013, 1:13 pm
18/m
Hello! I was looking for some extra information on either getting a German Shepard or a Lab.
I won't be getting a dog till after college when I am able to afford it and take care of it the way it needs to be. Was just trying to get information on them so I can do my research for my decision in a few years.
I love German Shepard and Labs.
I guess my question is...
Which one is more suitable for an average American? Based on my low income out of college I want to know which one would be better to take care of and to give proper things in it's life.
Thanks!
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Not The Same After Being Cheated On
Posted Friday September 27 2013, 1:09 pm
18/m
So lately I have been having problems liking girls. I start to like them and like them for a month or so then my feelings fade away and get annoyed by them or get really picky of what they do.
I dated this girl for 11 months and she cheated on me and treated me like shit, about a month later or so I found a new girl and I liked her alot then as I said my feelings just disappear and I get annoyed.
This summer I found a good girl who genuinely liked me for me. I liked her a lot for about 2 months then one day was just sick of her and no feelings for her.
Why is this happening and how do I make it stop? It use to never happen to me. I was usually pretty spot on when I liked a g...
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Was I ready?
Posted Friday September 27 2013, 1:05 pm
Iv been with my bf for a year now I m 18f and he's 20. I do hand jobs for him and can return to me but i got weird when he did oral on me is it normal to feel that way because I kind of liked it but I hate that I can't return that to him I'm not comfortable at all. He doesn't mind that u don't retire it. were not big on religion but we do prefer internal sex When marriage comes . I really don't know if I should've let him go far I kind of wish we were a clean couple again but its late now I left my self go with his sexual moves on me that drifted me to like it and enjoy it. He says he sees me with him for years and years but I simply can't say that back maybe because I see myself pursuing all my dreams before being with someone. I don't wan...
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Cant settle in my job
Posted Friday September 27 2013, 8:35 am
i used to be a ship's captain.i was doing quite well but ofcourse i needed to be at sea for extended periods of time away from my family.I was then offered a job by my company at singapore.i took it thinking that its a land job and i would at last be with my family.But it did not work that way as my daughter who inspite of being brilliant was denied admission at the university in singapore and also i myself am not doing too well in my job! its as if my boss thinks that am mentally lacking n frankly at times i feel so since iam prone to forgetfullness n generally very nervous.what should i do? i feel like leaving n just go back home!!...pls help me.for your info even in 2006 i was offered a job at singapore but i left within 3 months coz of ...
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I need major help
Posted Friday September 27 2013, 8:20 am
So I have a boyfriend I've been dating for 5 months and my parents have met him but they don't know we're dating and they think where just friends and I'm not sure if I'm even aloud to date but this boy means the world to me and I only get to see him once a week at church and every time I do I have to be sneaky.......and I want to see him more and not have to be sneaky.....and my parents are super overprotective and strict...I'm 14 years old...........so how do I tell my parents that I'm dating him?
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Question About Parental Love (And Be Honest)
Posted Friday September 27 2013, 5:33 am
Last summer, I read a story about someone whose son had died. The person who wrote it said that losing a firstborn is more difficult than losing any other child. Being a second born, this upsets me very much. I know that my mom doesn't feel this way, but I'm Worried that my dad might. I hear people say that they love their children equally, but what good does equal love do when you feel this way?
I've heard some other sucky things about second borns, like that their parents resent them for taking their time and attention away from the first. Or that they're destructive to the family structure. I even heard that fathers fall in love with their first child at first site, but take months to feel anything for their other children...
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Want to know about live chat software
Posted Friday September 27 2013, 2:36 am
Hi friends,
Can any one tell me the importance of live chat software and please also tell me how and where we can find best live chat software for website............
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MY GIRL FRIEND LIED TO ME ABOUT HER PAST
Posted Friday September 27 2013, 2:10 am
I first met this girl, she was nice, we liked each other.I proposed her and she agreed ,she tells me that she loves me so much and is willing to do whatever it takes to make the relationship work. after years i found that she lied to me about her past that she don't had any relationship in past and a virgin. but after i found the truth she ultimately tell the whole truth that she had a relationship with a guy who was tortured her mentally and physically and abused her.and she is not a virgin. i feel very bad , angry with her why she lied to me.she tell me that she was afraid that i after knowing her past i leave her,so she hide it from me. but now i can't trust her. i don't like it that my would be wife is not a virgin. i think she used me....
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Boyfriend having a boner
Posted Friday September 27 2013, 1:33 am
soo is it possible to give my bofriend a boner while he's hugging me from behind since my butt is touching his thing .. i dont know if he had a boner but i think kind of feltt it not sure because my butt was really close weel it was actually touching his penis already this was at school we had clothes on of course !!... but yeah is it possible or else how can i give him one while hes hugging me from behind..?
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