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To move or not to move with a boyfriend?


Posted Wednesday January 1 2014, 3:20 pm

I'm having a hard time deciding what to do with my life from here on out. I don't know anyone else to ask and I used to come to this site for advice in middle school, so I thought I'd try again. Here is the situation.

I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 23. We live together in a college town in the midwest. We've been together for 2 years, and have been living together for 6 months. I graduate college in May and the lease on our apartment ends in the summer.

My boyfriend has already finished his degree and has set his sights on a graduate school in another state. I'm really happy for him that he wants to go to grad school. He has worked really hard to get admitted and save money over the past year, and for that I am r...

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Is it true that swimming can cause you to have an erection?


Posted Wednesday January 1 2014, 2:14 pm

I am in 9th grade and we are doing the swim unit and boys and girls do it together. At first I was thinking of asking to sit out since girls seem to be vicious monsters who enjoy humiliating anyone that is not perfect but now I read that while swimming you can easily get an erection when you are a teenager? Is this true? I cannot risk that happening. If it is true I am definitely sitting out


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Have a crush on my friend and don't know what to do!


Posted Wednesday January 1 2014, 4:54 am

13/f bisexual. I've been pretty close friends with this girl who I've known for a year. We get along pretty well, and somewhere along the lines I started to like her more than friends. I've always known that I'm not straight, but she's the first girl I've liked like this. I asked her out to the movies in August and we had a great time, but I don't think she knew I meant it as a date. I think she is straight. I dream about her a lot. Just like, us hanging out and eating food at romantic places and stuff like that. I really want to know if she is straight or not, but how do you just casually bring that up in conversation? And I don't want to ruin our friendship. Any advice? All appreciated.

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Disinterested in me


Posted Wednesday January 1 2014, 2:01 am

I hooked up with this guy earlier ini the year and he was my first hookup. We didn't do everything but we did everything but sex (I'm in college and still a virgin btw). He seems disinterested in me every time I see him now. I know it was my first time and I wasn't the best but I didn't think it was full out bad. I can't stop thinking about him now. Months later. Even though I didn't let him have full sex with me, why would he be avoiding me totally? (Like ignoring texts and acting indifferent in public). How can I get him to want to be with me again?

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Multi personality disorder? Bipolar? I don't know what's wrong with my Dad.


Posted Tuesday December 31 2013, 3:44 pm

My dad has been and still is a great guy. He loves me very much although he isn't very fond of anyone excluding my Mom, sister, and I. Even though he doesn't "like" much anyone else my friends see him as a happy, sociable person on the outside and he also is very friendly towards most strangers and likes to make small talk with them. He's also successful at his job. This is the side of him that I love so much. But this side of him quickly deteriorates instantly when one little thing comes out of place. He will pout and be extremely aggressive fighting with my mom and storming up to his room to brood for hours. Over the years it had only seemed to have gotten worse. He refuses to think there is something wrong with him and will swi...

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infection after having sex...


Posted Tuesday December 31 2013, 8:32 am

Hi... 16F
*̩ lost my verginity this weekend. He weared a condom. And *̩ think *̩ have efection now*! *̩ have a high body tempreature and if *̩ pee it burns. *̩ can't tell my mom because se will kill me! Please help...



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Why have I been single for so long?


Posted Tuesday December 31 2013, 2:50 am

I'm a 16 year old girl who has been single for roughly 3 years and I don't know why. I've been told I'm really pretty, and generally a likable person, even if I don't think so. I'm a bit shy and kind of awkward, plus I have like 0 self confidence. I know that confidence is a good thing to have, but it can't be the only reason why I'm single right? I also don't really put myself out there, I'll talk to someone only if they talk to me first or if i'm with my friends. I've been told that I could get a boyfriend if I tried, but here I am. Single. It seems like all the guys that like me are not really my type and I could honestly never date them. Am I just setting my standards too high? Maybe I'm really ugly and no one wants to tell me? Maybe it...

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Things got confusing with me and my guy friend.


Posted Tuesday December 31 2013, 2:05 am

I like this guy and we've known each other for a LONG time. This year he asked me if I liked him and I said no because i was nervous, and I'm NEVER nervous around him. This year he's been confusing. I joined a sport this year, and I noticed he's been hanging on with the jocks and trying to be like them. I don't like it.I liked the guy who had time to talk to me, and was always there for me in times of need. I don't understand him anymore. But just before everything got confusing I asked if he wanted to go to six flags with me.. He said he did. And it was supposed to be my "birthday gift". He kept asking me when my birthday was but I know he just wanted to talk to me cause he has the MOST WONDERFUL memory. Should I tell him I like ...

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what does this guy mean


Posted Tuesday December 31 2013, 1:53 am

I met him online and the first time he saw my picture he said I was pretty and afterwards, would call me pretty when necessary. So we started talking and asking each other sexual questions. Once, I asked him what he would choose and he said "of coursr you! I think you're beautiful!" That wad the only time he called me beautifull and afterwards, he started using the term sexy.
He usually initiates contact.
The question here is: does he mean what he says or is he just saying it for his own benefit?


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Could I be pregnant? How long should I wait to take a test?


Posted Monday December 30 2013, 1:56 pm

I had unprotected sex around my most fertile days, it has now been 2 weeks since me and my fiancé had intercourse, my cycle is around about every 32 days. Anyway, on my 31st day of my cycle, I was woken up by these horrible cramps, they made me want to vomit, but as I went to the toilet to vomit, nothing was coming up but spit, I had hot sweats & it was really awful. I rested a hot water bottle on to my stomach and tucked my legs up and it went away within 2 minutes. The following next day, on my 32 day cycle, I was bleeding, I never knew I was coming on my period because I normally get cramps but I never experienced period cramps before my period. As I was bleeding, I was experiencing cramps & my period lasted for 2 days and now I...

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its about pregnancy i am from india


Posted Monday December 30 2013, 10:42 am

iam from india..during having romance fun me n my gf got excited so i came in her back.but during this we didnt puts off our innerwear.while having romance i cummed inside my underwear so due to wetness of my cum inside underwear my gfs panty region between ass hole n vagina got wet .so is there any chance of pregnancy????..n yaa she is still a virgin

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How can I thank these guys(people who answered my questions?)


Posted Monday December 30 2013, 1:24 am

I'm an avid visitor, and user of the site.
I didn't register since I am using a computer that shouldn't be used for non office stuffs. (winks)

I had some questions for which the guys here had given me great advice. I don't know how can I thank them or to tell them further what happened after I followed their advice.

Is there such a way I could do this? To thank these guys for all the things they've done for me? Thanks.

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The stray that stole my heart has been missing


Posted Monday December 30 2013, 12:48 am

About 4 years ago, I came across a stray cat fighting. I scared away the other cat and nursed his wounds. He was very grateful and started to come by my house almost every day. He had the cutest meow that kinda sounded like "Rroooww" sort of a roar haha. I love him to bits and even gave him a name, Tangy. He came to my call and loved on me. Problem is, I can't have him in the house because he might spray. The last time I saw him, I'd say he was maybe 8. He stopped coming by my house this year during late summer. I don't know if someone took him in or if he's dead. I constantly worry about him. Does anyone have an idea what might have happened to him?


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A masters degree after age 50??


Posted Sunday December 29 2013, 10:41 am

I am 52 and have decided to 'reinvent' myself. I have been in retail management for 25+ years and have hated every minute. I've regretted both NOT going into the military and NOT obtaining a college degree. Last year, after much debate, I decided to pursue college again (I have taken courses hear and there, but no degree). I want to do something more fulfilling, to help others, and to make a difference. I have chosen social work, specifically in the school systems. My questions are; am I wasting my time? It will take about 3+ years for a BSW and an additional 3 more for an MSW. Not to mention the money. Although there are hundreds of companies listed on the AARP website that seek out employees over 50 (in my case it will be 56), but I am re...

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Living seems so painful


Posted Sunday December 29 2013, 3:23 am

I have supported my husband through school. I gave him 2 beautiful children and a successful practice (along with his doctor degree). He had affairs with our staff and still blames me for our failed marriage. He's divorcing me and he's taking our kids. I heard his new gf is a lot younger than I am.

I can't afford to take care of my babies and it is because I can't find work for a year now. Since I have supported his career from the beginning for 15 years, my Bachelor in Accounting has become rusty. The feeling of defeat and unemployment is engulfing my hope and self confidence. Up to this point, I feel like a nobody. I feel so worthless as a mother. Every day, I cry because I miss my babies. I want to fight for wha...

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What's wrong with me?


Posted Sunday December 29 2013, 3:05 am

Hi, I'm a teenage girl and I've always felt there's something wrong with me because of the way everyone treats me. They always leave me out, and I am a gal who usually goes with the flow, but to be honest with you, I'm tired of being silent. I have no friends, the people I hang with make fun of me, laugh at me, and some kick/hit me. I've been stressing over this matter for 5 years. I've spoke to some people about this and they've said its the things I focus on, apparently, that is why people treat me different. Others say I need to find help. Believe it or not, I've considered self harm because this is eating me alive! It's like this little trigger in my brain, it goes off every time someone treats me strange. People never smile at me, they...

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how to


Posted Sunday December 29 2013, 12:25 am

How to musterbet

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sore on dog's back, healing tips?


Posted Saturday December 28 2013, 11:32 pm

My dog, a border collie, has a skin condition like large zits. The vet has said that they are nothing to worry about and to just leave them be. But my dog chewed at one until it popped open, so now its like an open hole. It was oozy so we cleaned it up, there was some pus in it that we drained out. We washed it with a seasalt and water solution and dried it and put some bag balm on it. I grew up on a farm and bag balm has always seemed to work for minor animal cuts and abrasions and such but since its more of a hole I was wondering if there is anything else I should ( or shouldn't) be doing for her? It doesn't seem to bother her, and she hasn't chewed at it since she popped it. she will fidget a little when we clean it out, but that's about it.

Thanks.

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My mother is having an affair.


Posted Saturday December 28 2013, 9:54 pm

I am in a very difficult situation. At the moment, I am living at home with my parents on some time off from school. About two months ago it was revealed that my mother was having an affair. My parents decided to work things out, and my father in particular has being working very hard to try to improve their marriage. Today, my mother came home from visiting her brother and informed me that she would be going back out later. I asked, out of curiosity, where she was going. She replied that she was "Seeing a friend." It is very unlike her to respond in such a way, as I've met all of her friends and normally she would be more specific. After she left I logged into our cell phone provider's website and looked at her phone records. I ...

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if drink 4 red pill of trigestrel and no period then what is the problem


Posted Saturday December 28 2013, 3:50 am

If you drink 4 pill of trigestrel and menstruation and what is the problem

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