Hi... 16F
*̩ lost my verginity this weekend. He weared a condom. And *̩ think *̩ have efection now*! *̩ have a high body tempreature and if *̩ pee it burns. *̩ can't tell my mom because se will kill me! Please help...
adviceman49 answered Wednesday January 1 2014, 9:31 am: You're having sex for the first time and the symptoms you have now are most likely not related. As the others have said you most likely have a UTI (urinary tract infection.)
Being 16 years of age a federal law called HIPPA does give you the right to see a doctor any time you experience problems with your reproductive health, without parental permission or Knowledge.
Since the urinary tract is part of your vagina you can see a doctor, any doctor including a free clinic without parental permission.
Since this is most likely a urinary tract infect, women get them all the time, there is really no reason not to tell your mom. If you were to tell her she can be made to stay in the waiting room while you see the doctor by you simply saying to the doctors nurse or receptionist. I want to see the doctor under my rights under HIPPA. The doctors staff will take it from there and tell mom she must wait in the waiting room.
Since you are now sexually active. This same law says you can ask the doctor for birth control medication and the doctor has to prescribe it unless there is a medical reason not to. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
lightoftruth answered Tuesday December 31 2013, 4:42 pm: Like everyone else said, it's probably a urinary tract infection. So you should probably go see a doctor. Since you're over the age of 14, your parents don't need to know. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday December 31 2013, 3:29 pm: Burning sensation with peeing is a classic symptom of having a bladder or urinary tract infection. Having a high fever is another sign thats whats happening although in my own personal experience, the fever only came if I neglected to do anything about the earlier symptoms of a building bladder infection which are a feel to need to pee more often and upon emptying the bladder a sensation of it still being full or not completely empty but nothing else comes out. If this was going on before this weekend, that could explain the high fever by now.
Normally If it was just starting, I'd recommend drinking lots of cranberry juice to cure the starting infection but since its at fever stage meaning 'full blown', at this point you need to see a doctor to verify if it is indeed an infection and get antibiotics to get over it.
If you don't want parents to know, you can go to Planned parenthood and have them check you out. Or you could make appt and see the family doctor. Due to current laws, doctors cannot share details of your visit with parents, that is kept private.
Going to see a dr. for a urinary tract infection is actually quite common among females and can occur under several circumstance besides having sex or having a latex allergy.
There is a chance that a latex allergy may have kicked it off. So you might want to ask if theres a way to test you to see if you are allergic to latex. If indeed you are allergic, you will want to see Planned parenthood to find out what other options of protection you have and they'll get you set up on birth control.
Xui answered Tuesday December 31 2013, 3:16 pm: If it burns when you pee then you likely have a UTI (Urinary tract infection) which can be treated by antibiotics.
Considering you are of age 16, You legally do not need your parents in the doctors office with you. There is a law called patient privacy act, Any over 14 is entitled to their privacy. I suggest you see a doctor and get this treated. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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