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Disinterested in me
I hooked up with this guy earlier ini the year and he was my first hookup. We didn't do everything but we did everything but sex (I'm in college and still a virgin btw). He seems disinterested in me every time I see him now. I know it was my first time and I wasn't the best but I didn't think it was full out bad. I can't stop thinking about him now. Months later. Even though I didn't let him have full sex with me, why would he be avoiding me totally? (Like ignoring texts and acting indifferent in public). How can I get him to want to be with me again?
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It sucks when hooks up don't last. But that's just what it is and if he's just not interested, it probably isn't going to happen again.
If you want to know why he's completely ignoring you, you can just ask him. But since you guys aren't friends or anything, he doesn't need to tell you why he's not interested anymore. He can just simply ignore you and get away with it. It really sucks.
I'd just suggest moving on. It doesn't seem like he's gonna come around any time soon.
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He's just not interested - it's unlikely you'll ever know more than that.
When someone is so disinterested they don't even want to talk to you at all, there is really not much hope that anything you do will make them want to hook up with you agian.
This is downside of hooking up: this guy doesn't owe you any explanation or any friendship. It would be nice if he'd be less of a jerk, but that doesn't change anything. The best thing you can do is just let it go.
It probably didn't have anything to do with you. I know that is hard to believe but it is true. So don't let it this virtual stranger snubbing you get under your skin.
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