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hitting in a relationship
Posted Thursday December 30 2010, 2:59 am
Is it ok for a guy to hit his girlfriend, even if she did something to piss him off really bad?
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I want to marry my American boyfriend.
Posted Wednesday December 29 2010, 10:46 pm
And before I start, I don't want any negative judgements for my decision.
19/female from Australia. Been dating my online boyfriend for 9 months, he's American. He's coming here in Feb 2011 for 5 weeks. Since the distance has had its toll on us already we both decided we don't want to be apart again. He says when he gets here we'll get married and I'll go back with him to the U.S, but me being someone who likes to go by most rules, I don't want to screw around with the system. I don't want to marry him and find out It was illegal for us to do so and then ruin my chance at being with him. I want to do this right way.
I've looked on the USCIS site at different visas, and I'm not sure which one I qualify for, the...
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Bi curious & scared of the first time with a girl.
Posted Wednesday December 29 2010, 9:51 pm
So, here's the thing...
I am 18 years old and I am trying to FIND myself SEXUALLY.
I have been attracted to both sexes since... i dont even remember when.
I think the only way to find out if i am TRULY BI SEXUAL is if i actually sleep with a girl since i have already had experience with guys before.
What do you think?
I just need advice on what anyone on here thinks.
AND PLEASE NO RUDE FEEDBACK.
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**it would be really nice to have feedback from someone who has gone through the same thing, or knows someone that has gone through the same thing.**
Thanks
xoxo.
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What does love feel like?
Posted Wednesday December 29 2010, 5:31 pm
15/f
I don't think I've ever felt love before.. of any kind. I mean I like my family but I feel towards them what I would feel towards a stranger or looking at a wall. Sure, I tell them I love them occasionally but I guess everyone just says that. I don't really have the best relationship with my family but not the absolute worst. That's probably because I don't like to spend a lot of time at home. I'm usually at a friends or when I am home I sit in my room away from the rest of them. And that's okay because it keeps me away from the bitching they do. Just is it normal to not really feel anything special? Is it like a mental thing? Or do you sincerely feel something? Maybe I'm jut thinking about it to much or expecting to muc...
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why is he saying this to me?
Posted Wednesday December 29 2010, 4:15 pm
boyfriend and I broke up (he broke up with me) 6 months ago... I was devastated, I was madly in love with him. he still contacted me saying he still loved me and stuff like that. I asked whether he wanted to get back together and he didn't have an answer for me. I chose not to remain friends as it hurt a lot. 2 months ago I started seeing not dating another guy, my ex obviously found out and said to me "well you might start dating that guy, break up with him and then get back together with me, who knows" why is he saying that?
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I'm 14 I had sex with a 19 year old, and my best friend won't forgive me
Posted Wednesday December 29 2010, 4:01 pm
Me and this guy I know have know each other for a couple of years, and we started dating a couple of months ago (about 8), but two weeks ago I lost my virginity to him. I didn't regret it and it was one of the best moments of my life, and he didn't push me or anything. The thing is (yes I know I'm going to get bashed a lot now) is he's 19 and I'm 15. I know you are going to say it was wrong but it felt right to us. The real problem is I told my best friend about me losing my virginity to him and she totally flipped. When me and him started dating, she was really wary and told me it wasn't a good Idea and he was only using me, but now 8 months on we're still together and he never pressured me once. He,obviously being a boy was ready, but we ...
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friends? or more? i'm so confused.
Posted Wednesday December 29 2010, 3:35 pm
okay, this is gonna be a long story, but please help me out.
i'm 16/f, and i have a boyfriend of 7 months. however, there's this boy. let's call him trevor. trevor is one of my close friends, and i used to like him, A LOT. for about two years, all i cared about was him. he does little things like rub my back and put his hand on my leg when we're together now, and it drives me insane. i cared so much about him for 2 whole years, but he never seemed to notice. now that i have a boyfriend, he gives me all the attention in the world. he texts me first, he tells me he loves me (in a friend kind of way), he gave me his sweatshirt to wear and keep. we have such a long history of this kind of stuff, it seems like it's all coming to the surfa...
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Trouble with my ADD boyfriend
Posted Wednesday December 29 2010, 12:56 pm
My boyfriend has a history of depression and ADD. He forgets nearly everything; favors, promises and misc. I even need to remind him to take a shower. This prior summer/fall we got into a big tuffle where he snapped at me for "nagging" him to get a job, where I was just reminding him every now and again to do applications and stuff.That has really stuck with me and ANY TIME I want to remind him to do something, I'm hesitant and depressed. He's semi-aware of his problem. He takes medication for depression and ADD. However there are times were he's annoyed by my reminders.I'm really tired of this. Sometimes I feel like he doesn't even want to try and help himself. He says stuff like "we just need to find a way to help m...
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Confusion with a Guy
Posted Wednesday December 29 2010, 11:46 am
So this guy always tells me im hot, beautiful, pretty and cute. But hes waiting for me to get off my period so we can have sex but I've only known him for about 9 days or so. me and him only were aware that we each exsisted but never talked and nine days ago we started talking and hanging out. but he is nice to my parents and very polite and hugs my mom hello and good bye. And than last night he was talking to my friend Whitney about drinking and smoking and how they should go do it. do you think he could be putting on an act for my parents and things and really just wanting to have sex and using me, or actually have interest in me? i know thats prob not enough info. so ill say a little more, he also doesnt mind kissing me or anything infr...
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my new boyfriend wont cum in me
Posted Wednesday December 29 2010, 10:50 am
im taking the pill, but my new boyfriend wont cum in me
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I'm Falling In Love With Him, but I Still Think About My Ex
Posted Wednesday December 29 2010, 10:24 am
Does this make sense? Is this normal, I'll explain the situation that I'm currently going through at the moment.
I'm a 19 year old girl dating a 24 year old guy, whom I'm falling in love with (I do believe that I may already be there, but it just seems rather soon to say it). He takes care of me, I love getting to see him, I love being with him, when I'm upset he makes me see things in perspective. When I kiss him, his kiss lingers on my lips for a while. I love his touch, and I think about him constantly. When we're not around each other I'm missing him, being with him is just an amazing experience. We've only been together for a month, so I'm not going to tell him that I love him, I don't want him to think that I'm crazy. A...
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i cant believe he did this
Posted Wednesday December 29 2010, 9:49 am
THeres this guy ive been dating for a while and he tells me he loves me and all that good stuff. So i went on his facebook page and and i noticed that he put on his status that he needs a wifey. No one knows that we are dating yet because its only been a month and idk if im over reacting about being mad at this or what. I feel so heart broken right now.
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How do I cut this guy off that is not good for me?
Posted Wednesday December 29 2010, 1:43 am
I have been seeing this guy for 2.5 years, we both came out of a bad breakup and neither of us were looking for a relationship at the time. As time past I fell in love with him, he was in financial debt so I lent him money that he promised he would pay back, took out a loan as he told me he was selling a property and would have the money to pay me back which he lost and now in shortfall.
I believed what he was saying, he manipulated me into paying his bills etc as well and promised he would pay me back but never did. I had to ask to contribute to the loan otherwise he would not have paid me anything. Total is around $18,000.
In April this year he went from single to a relationship on his facebook and sai...
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cant commit to a relationship....
Posted Wednesday December 29 2010, 1:43 am
I am a 23 yr old divorced female. I have always been one to be in committed relationships. And now I find myself unable to commit to a man. I tell myself I want a relationship. But the reality of it is I don't.
I lost my father in january 2010 and a few weeks after that my relationship with my boyfriend ended. I loved him with all my heart and still do to this day.
Since then, I have not been the same person. I don't know who I am any more. I hate to admit this but I've become a bit, how do I put it, permiscuous. I find myself not wanting to be with one man. I find myself just havin partners. This isn't me. And I don't know how to change it. I don't know how to get back to the old me. I don't recognize the person I have beco...
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He says were friends but he never wants to talk...
Posted Wednesday December 29 2010, 12:10 am
15/F boy is 17/M. We dated for 7 months. We've been broken up for 8 months and both dated other people. I can't get over him. I still want him and I still think about him everyday. And it hurts so bad. I look at his Facebook wall and I see other girls and him flirting and it just kills me inside, I feel like puking. He was my first boyfriend, kiss, second and third base. Long story short, we both did shitty things and he really hurt me but I miss him so much and he says were friends but he never wants to talk and he never wants to hang out. I just don't know what to do... I'm literally miserable...
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Love Triangle or something
Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 10:12 pm
Hi! So i have these two friends, Steve and Mike. Steve is 19 and 4 years older than me and mike is 16 and one year older than me. i like mike, not steve. and steve is like a physco and is going to mikes house tonight to go talk to him and scare him so he does not talk to me anymore. But also Mike is adorable and so polite to my parents, but he might just be wanting to have sex with me. Its so crazy. If you have any advice on what i should do PLEASE HELP ME!
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He was everything I wanted, except the abuse. How do I get over him?
Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 8:50 pm
Hi everyone, 23 and female here...
I saw the red flags, but I had just come out of an emotionally abusive relationship; I refused to believe that I had run straight into a worse situation...but I had.
I've been free of him since mid-October, when I took the day off work, gathered my things, and left. We were living together in the house he bought to share with me, talking about marriage and kids...I know it sounds bizarre, given the abuse, but in his own sick way, he loved me. I never doubted that...and I loved him. If I listed the qualities of my dream guy, I would almost describe him. I dreamed of spending my life with him until he started to physically hurt me.
So here's my problem:
When I left him, ...
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should i wait or move on?
Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 8:07 pm
19-f
so me and my now ex boyfriend broke up august of 2010. he broke up with me and it really broke my heart. we didnt talk for weeks and i did was cry. we are now talking again and i still love him sooo much. he is the only guy to have met my 1 year old daughter and he adores her. i really want to be with him again but he says he wants to wait because we live too far apart. but it never bothered him before when we were going out. we live about and hour and a half car drive away. i dont talk to any other guys and he doesnt talk to any other girls but we are not together like i want. its tearing me apart knowing he isnt mine because he has my heart. what should i do? wait for something that might not happen or try to move on?
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choose who?
Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 2:09 pm
Alright well I am 18 and a female. I dated this guy named collin for about three years and we ended up splitting because he cheated. I was in love with this guy and I couldn't stand being anywhere near him after that so I moved to another state where I had family. After about 5 months he breaks up with the girl and then comes running back to me. We talk again for a while but I don't trust him. I met this other guy and we start dating. I didn't want to get to much hope up on collin because afterall he did cheat. Well now they both want me to give the other up and idk what to do. It'll be hard to give up either. I love collin but I nknow this guy is loyal and will treat me good. Collin would be a chance. I'm not willing to give up either so I don't know what to do.
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I need Advice!
Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 12:09 pm
Hi!I am 15 years old and am a female. You might be thinking 15 years old? Ridiculous. But please i am not the average pathetic 15 year old! I really need help, i'm almost stuck in a love triangle. I met this guy Mike and he is super nice, very polite, and cute and only one year older than me. But he seems to just be wanting to have sex. I've only known him for about a week and i am on my period so its delaying everything thank god! But than there's this guy Steve. He's 4 years older than me but he's really nice, funny, but ugly. Which i do mind a little, but in all honesty looks are not my all! And Steve says that if I keep associating with Mike he will not talk to me any more and things. I like them both but i am scared Mike will hurt me o...
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