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i have mixed feelings
Posted Tuesday July 5 2011, 9:48 am
me/18 bf/20
my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and we've had alot of "trust issues' eventually i found out that he was cheating on me with another girl so of course i confronted him about it, but he denied the whole thing and said he just firted with her he then confessed everything he ever did during the course of our relationship, he says that he just flirted with girls but i don't believe that this is true, he said that the only reason he did this was because he found out i was flirting with other guys behind his back, but he also cheated before he found out about this, i know it was wrong of me to flirt with other guys but i thought we looked past that but it seems we didn't because he told me that he &...
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sex with the lights on
Posted Tuesday July 5 2011, 8:57 am
im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m
My boyfriend took my virginity roughly 2 weeks ago, and since then we have been sharing whilst cuddling one night things we would like to try/different places we could go/ what turns us on. he mentioned that it would be a huge turn on for him for us to have sex with the lights on. Because it would be really romantic to be able to stare into each others eyes, and he would be able to see everything.
however im very very insecure with my body, and thats why i like having sex in the dark, because i dont have to worry about what i look like. Although he told me he's already seen my 'problem areas' he says i have nothing to worry about and that he loves my body. but im very well aw...
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Entirely impossible relationship?
Posted Tuesday July 5 2011, 3:12 am
I love a guy, but it is an impossible relationship. He lives in a different state, our families are friends, as are we, but they don't want us to be more, he is too old for me (he will be at college soon, and I will be starting high school), and I only see him in the summer, and only for a few days. (I do talk to him and text, etc.)
I don't think he loves me, but I know he likes me, and I have had the time of my life with him, and I can't stop thinking about him. We are great friends, but we both feel like we are something else, too. Is there any way this can work? Do you have any optimistic thoughts? Should I hope, or should I resolve to be friends and leave it alone?
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I need advice pls help me
Posted Tuesday July 5 2011, 2:07 am
I am frm India 21yr old girl..i love a guy frm 5yrs n we are vry close frnds from 5yrs. After 5yrs he accept that he love me and wants to marry me. But the thing is that i feel very disappointd he nvr care for me n stay busy in chatting online with other girls on social ntwrking sites and when i said that you give much importance to your online frnds and not giving any importance to me he said that m too possessive..
What will i do i alwayz cry and want him to realize that it bothers me alot..i expect alot frm him as a lover bt he nvr satisfy me although we are in long distance relationship,n the only means of communication is phone,he avoid talking in phone donot pickup my calls..he don't understand my any feelings...i want him to ...
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torn between boy i just met and boyfriend of one year
Posted Tuesday July 5 2011, 1:32 am
okay i was at a horse show and i met this guy who instantly caught my eye. he's so sweet and i instantly liked him. there's two problems though..one he lives 2 hours away and 2 i have a bf already that i have been dating a year now. what do i do?
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He is going back to England and I don't know what to do
Posted Tuesday July 5 2011, 12:30 am
im 18 my boyfriend of three years is moving back to england in like 6 weeks. i really dont know what to do im staying home to go to college beacuse for the obvious reasons i shouldnt run away with a boy even thou i really love him and dont know how im going to cope with out him because i went from seeing him everday for three years for maybe two years to maybe seeing him 2 times a year. i want to go see him in december when i have my winter break because its so long hopeing i have the money. i just dont really know what to do right now how to handle it i dont know.
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im wondering should i let him go
Posted Monday July 4 2011, 11:11 pm
I been with this guy for three year and he is a real good guy but most of time is at work and the other time is with his daughter who is grown.He move out to live with his daughter because couldn't fine a Job so now he want me to wait until she find a job which i don't think she looking for because he pay everything so i can't get nothing she just did four year in college a master degree and she don't want any job, the job have to go around her hour of church and school of which she planning to go back, since she is his only daughter he never told her no before
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Scared because I have never been kissed
Posted Monday July 4 2011, 10:24 pm
im 15 almost 16 and ive never gotten kissed before, and im scared and not sure what to do. what if we bump noses or something. any suggestions? thanks. and same with making out. thanks!
melissa
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married men
Posted Monday July 4 2011, 9:37 pm
what are you supposed to do when a married man wants you
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boyfriend jumped to his own conclusions
Posted Monday July 4 2011, 7:03 pm
i hung out with my boyfriend last night. he introduced me to some of his cousins and by the end of the night me, my best friend, boyfriend, and his cousin ended up going to the park. i didn't have any pockets so i asked my boyfriend to hold my phone. a few hours into the night i had asked him what time it was so he pulled out my phone and he was joking with his cousin saying how i have pictures i don't want him to see since my pictures are locked. well i said if i had something to hide, my messages would be locked so i told him to go to my messages just because i didn't want him to think i'm doing anything behind his back. well i kind of keep in touch with one of my ex boyfriends from three years ago and he randomly texted me the other day....
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dreaming about a guy i like
Posted Monday July 4 2011, 5:06 pm
I drept about talking to the guy im totally in love with
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Why does he want me to chase him?
Posted Monday July 4 2011, 2:09 pm
I have this guy I like. I try to talk to him but he seems so uninterested so i figure he don't like so I leave him alone. But then when Im across the room from him he keeps staring at me. Even my friends say so. They think he likes me but that he wants me to chase him around like other girls. But why does he want me chase him? I mean I reach out to him and try to be friendly what else does he want? Does he really like me or does he just want attention? What do I do?
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can't let go of my ex but this time is serious..
Posted Monday July 4 2011, 1:11 pm
my ex and i broke up about 2 weeks ago, i realised i couldn't be without him and asked him to reconsider us together (we broke up cause he thinks i have other interests and that i have cheated on him) which to be honest i have never,i'm a very good girl i dont do stuff like that and certainly wouldn't have done it to him, BUT he thinks i'm so pretty that every guy possibly wants to get with me, he blames me for wanting their attention he thinks that just because i like to look pretty(i have low selfesteem so feeling good about looking good makes me feel better) but he thinks i do it to get men's attention, which i don't and nor do i have tons of guys after me, and when i had someone interested on me i would tell them i was in a relationship...
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How to ask about exes intentions?
Posted Monday July 4 2011, 12:17 pm
Ok, so my ex dumped me last November and got back with his ex the day after. They have now split up.
But its been a year now since me and my ex first started going out, and he never used to speak to me.
Except two weeks ago he sent a happy birthday text, and has been initiating contact through texts each week. I've tried to ask him why, but he completly ignonres the question. How can I get him to tell me his intentions? Thanks
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Ackward behavior
Posted Monday July 4 2011, 8:09 am
I am a near 30 year old, single, attractive woman who has attended a large scale church for over 3 years now. I have not become a member of the church, but I just enjoy the worship and the teaching. The latter part of 2010, I started noticing the pastor gazing in my direction. I perceived that he may have been looking somewhere else, so I would change my sitting arrangements at church to see if it was a figment of my imagination, or if what I was discerning was accurate. Well, I noticed that no matter where I sat, he would stare with no facial expression, but with great tension in his eyes. I also notice that when I stand up during his preaching, he immediately looks away or avoids eye contact. I have never spoken to this man or have no way...
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Long distance relationship.
Posted Monday July 4 2011, 12:34 am
Hi me and my boyfriend been together 5 months now. Well little bit over 5 months. We are both 20 we live in California. And I don't have a job and he lost his job, and cost of living is high, and we both been trying to look for jobs. so recently my boyfriend's cousin who lives in Tulsa, Oklahoma says cost of living is a lot lower. And he was like I might get a job through my cousin and leave to work so he can save up and spend rest of his life with me, and send a ticket when he has money save up. We love each other a lot. But we will separated for 5 months. which is hard for us. But guys have tips for long distance relationships? and how to get through it?
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Theres this guy I see around I like him what do I do next?
Posted Sunday July 3 2011, 9:32 pm
Theres this guy I see around the neighborhood. I really like him. The first time I saw him was in the laundromat. I thought he was so gorgeous. I couldn't stop staring at him though I didn't let him catch me. He kinda talk to me a little but he left before I did. Now I see him from time to time. We make a lil eye contact but not much else. When I see him I get so nervous. Does he like me what should I do?
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boyfriend
Posted Sunday July 3 2011, 8:54 pm
im 15 almost 16 and i have never had my first kiss or had a boyfriend or had my hand held. i have had many guys like me but i wasnt able to date. in auagust i will be because i will be 16 haha.
but isnt that really bad and im going to be a junior and im not experienced, even a little? :( im not even sure how to kiss, what if we bump noses or something lol, or what about making out, and if i do get a boyfriend what if they ask how far ive gone, should i lie, because i dont want to make myself look like an idiot! :(
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sex when u r 10?
Posted Sunday July 3 2011, 6:46 pm
i am 10 and i wanna have sex so badly with a boy ,is it okay?!?!?!?
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Why does he stare at me all the time but wont talk to me?
Posted Sunday July 3 2011, 5:46 pm
I have a big crush on this guy but idk how he feels about me. I go up talk to him and he seems uninterested like I bother him. He gives like 1 word answers and it feels like I'm forcing the conversation. So i figure he doesn't like me so I go on about my business and start hanging out with my other friends. While I'm with them I notice he keeps looking over at me even my friend says he kept looking over at us. I don't understand it. I tried to be nice and friendly with him but he seem like he didn't want nothing to do with me so why does he stare at me all the time?
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