Theres this guy I see around I like him what do I do next?
Question Posted Sunday July 3 2011, 9:32 pm
Theres this guy I see around the neighborhood. I really like him. The first time I saw him was in the laundromat. I thought he was so gorgeous. I couldn't stop staring at him though I didn't let him catch me. He kinda talk to me a little but he left before I did. Now I see him from time to time. We make a lil eye contact but not much else. When I see him I get so nervous. Does he like me what should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? YoungMommy answered Sunday July 3 2011, 11:38 pm: He might like you in return but its hard to tell... just go up to him and start talking and make sure you compliment him most girls fail to realize that guys like compliments just as much as we do (yes I am one of the girls who failed to realize that and actually hurt my husband because I rarely complimented him :( dont worry I made it up to him) Don be nervous chances are he is feeling a little the same he might think you dont like im because you never talk... so just go right up to him and talk be breave :) ... good luck and best wishes I hope it does work out for you [ YoungMommy's advice column | Ask YoungMommy A Question ]
LM answered Sunday July 3 2011, 11:09 pm: Well, I'm not this guy. Chances are, none of us on here are either. Of course, if that guy IS a user on Advicenators, sees your question, and asks you out as a result, you two would have a wicked cool story to tell at your wedding.
I'll be honest, though, right now he's the guy you met at the laundromat and talked to a few times. And you think he's gorgeous. To him, you're a girl he's spoken to when doing his laundry and see around town. Who knows, he might think you're gorgeous too.
Next time you see him, ask his name (if you haven't already). Introduce yourself, maybe in a clever way, if you haven't yet haha. What's the extent of your conversations? Are you friends? Do you know him well enough to know he's the kind of person who would appreciate a corny pickup line? There's a few related to laundry/being out somewhere/be creative and make one up/there are entire websites devoted to this:
- Let's make like fabric softener and Snuggle.
- I suffer from amnesia. Do I come here often?
Be direct. Ask if he wants to get coffee sometime, or dinner. Being bold is usually a good idea. Subtlety is lost on guys for the most part. Besides, you've got nothing to lose, right?
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