torn between boy i just met and boyfriend of one year
Question Posted Tuesday July 5 2011, 1:32 am
okay i was at a horse show and i met this guy who instantly caught my eye. he's so sweet and i instantly liked him. there's two problems though..one he lives 2 hours away and 2 i have a bf already that i have been dating a year now. what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? dntletitgo2urhead answered Tuesday July 5 2011, 6:18 pm: This happened to me last year. I had been dating my boyfriend for 1 year, then I went on vacation and met this guy that I instantly had a crush on. I felt so guilty for liking someone else while dating my bf, so eventually I broke up with him. In the end, I didn't end up with the guy I had just met, but meeting a new guy and having that spark happen made me realize that I wasn't happy with my bf of 1 year. You have to think about what YOU want. Your boyfriend will end up better off if you don't lead him on by pretending you're totally happy with him yet thinking about another guy. But you also have to remember that if things don't work out with this guy you just met, you'll have to deal with the consequences of your breakup. I also don't recommend jumping into another relationship right after a breakup because you won'thave a chance to have some freedom, be single and do whatever the heck you wanna do without worrying about a guy. [ dntletitgo2urhead's advice column | Ask dntletitgo2urhead A Question ]
nikz answered Tuesday July 5 2011, 9:19 am: well if this guy really likes you and you like him then the distance shouldn't be a problem, and your boyfriend, i think you should leave him now because if you're interested in other guys then i don't see why you should keep him around [ nikz's advice column | Ask nikz A Question ]
YoungMommy answered Tuesday July 5 2011, 3:06 am: My advice is follow your heart... you have to think who makes you happier who do you want to be with.. but if it is the other guy you need to let your bf go dont wait too long the longer you wait the harder it is on you and the boy you leave behind good luck [ YoungMommy's advice column | Ask YoungMommy A Question ]
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