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Why does he want me to chase him?

Question Posted Monday July 4 2011, 2:09 pm

I have this guy I like. I try to talk to him but he seems so uninterested so i figure he don't like so I leave him alone. But then when Im across the room from him he keeps staring at me. Even my friends say so. They think he likes me but that he wants me to chase him around like other girls. But why does he want me chase him? I mean I reach out to him and try to be friendly what else does he want? Does he really like me or does he just want attention? What do I do?

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melissa123 answered Monday July 4 2011, 10:27 pm:
if i was in your position i would stop chasing him... if he really liked you, he would go after you. you tried and he wasnt helping, so you stop trying!

"sometimes the best way to get someones attention, is to stop giving them your"

good luck, hope i helped.(:

if you have any questions feel free to ask!(:

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everythingscomplicated answered Monday July 4 2011, 5:47 pm:
When it is something as simple as staring, it can be hard to tell if the guy really likes you.
He may just be nervous when he is talking to you, in which case, if you like him, just try to continue being friendly and maybe he will warm up to you.
IF he is just trying to play games then I would stay out of it. You are completely right to doubt chasing him, I definitely wouldn't do any chasing. It is not our job. If he really really likes you I hope he will drop the games and speak to you. He may just want significant evidence that you like him too before he shows any feelings or anything, that may be why he would want you to be more flirty and "chase" him.
AND he may just really want to become friends with you but isn't sure how. It is a big possibility. Guys are so confusing. Good luck!

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