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OhKayy. Let's see how this gonna start off ... So . My bestfriend is movinq next week or next month and she is haveinq trouble with these 2 boys... 1 is her ex-boyfriend charles and the other 1 is a boy who she used 2 tlk 2 lik 1 or 2 weeks ago and to give you background on her ex-boyfriend i can truthfully say he treats her wrong and he broke up with her for another girl and he also my cusin .. like my favorite cusin. Ohkay. dah boy she use to talk to his name is chris their background is they had some fights and she had one incident with his sister .. Well to say his sister cussed my bestfriend out because my bestfriend tlked proper and said she got an attitude with her (which she didnt because i was there when she did and the situation was on ooVoo) anyways the situation is that she says if she moves back or visit bak if charles (her ex-boyfriend) and chris ( the boy she used 2 talk 2) still liked her she will choose charles and i believe thats the wrong chose 2 be truthfully if i was in her shoes i will choose neither am i'm right?? (link)
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Wow, that's pretty complicated. I agree with you, I would choose neither, but Chris doesn't sound like a bad guy. But, first of all, she is moving! It doesn't really matter, anyway. I think it is better not to get wrapped up in the tangled web any more than she already is. And secondly, maybe it's just me, but I would like to be optimistic and hope that there are much better guys out there to date. Good luck to you and your friend :)
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I really need some ideas for the talent show to empress lots of people...I love making people laugh but I don't want to look stupid...If you can help me by giving me some ideas...that would be great:) (link)
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This is a fun question! You know, no one ever does funny dances. Crazy dancing will make people laugh.
Everyone always sings, and people (especially judges) are usual very impressed by original songs, if you can write.
You could write and read a parody story, those are great if you include lots of pop culture references that people can relate too.
Also if you are a writer, you could write a skit type thing and have your friends perform it, or you could perform it. That's fairly original.
Have fun!!
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I just had my first period yesterday. I managed to tell my mom, and she handled it pretty well and gave me some pads. I hated sitting in my own blood and feeling like I peed my pants, so I took a few of my older sister's tampons. I put them in on my own and I literally danced around with joy when I realized I could survive my period and not have to give up swimming for a week. I also took a few of my sister's pads, but I obviously need to go to the store to get some more. How can I ask my mom to take me, AND tell her that I experimented with tampons? Things have been very awkward between us lately, and I can't even look her in the eye. Whenever we're alone, I'm always scared she's going to say something about it, and she usually does. What can I do? (link)
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You should always be able to trust your mom with this kind of stuff. The reason she probably talks to you about it so much is to make sure you are okay and try to help you, like try to tell you about tampons, but she may not be sure how. I am sure she just wants to help you through it, no matter how awkward things have been.
I know it is hard, but maybe just try to relax and be casual when you talk to her. Don't tiptoe around things. Just say, "Hey mom, I think I am running low on pads and tampons. And I didn't like really wearing pads all the time, so I tried tampons and I think that is what works best for me; it is more comfortable. Do you think you could take me to the store soon so I can get some more supplies?"
After that, it would be hard to be TOO awkward back, because you just started a casual, comfortable conversation, and one that doesn't have to be long. You said what you had to say, and she only has to say yes or no.
Don't worry, she is totally there for you, and you are not alone! If worst comes to worst, you have your sister, friends, and the rest of your family! Good luck!
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I have this guy I like. I try to talk to him but he seems so uninterested so i figure he don't like so I leave him alone. But then when Im across the room from him he keeps staring at me. Even my friends say so. They think he likes me but that he wants me to chase him around like other girls. But why does he want me chase him? I mean I reach out to him and try to be friendly what else does he want? Does he really like me or does he just want attention? What do I do? (link)
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When it is something as simple as staring, it can be hard to tell if the guy really likes you.
He may just be nervous when he is talking to you, in which case, if you like him, just try to continue being friendly and maybe he will warm up to you.
IF he is just trying to play games then I would stay out of it. You are completely right to doubt chasing him, I definitely wouldn't do any chasing. It is not our job. If he really really likes you I hope he will drop the games and speak to you. He may just want significant evidence that you like him too before he shows any feelings or anything, that may be why he would want you to be more flirty and "chase" him.
AND he may just really want to become friends with you but isn't sure how. It is a big possibility. Guys are so confusing. Good luck!
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My best friend, has another group of friends she hangs out with, without me, which is FINE. But, what I don't like, is if one of them is like alone/not doing anything, she will be like "can so and so join us" and i want to be like no. she can't. you don't include me, why should i be nice enough to include her?
what do you think? should i say something? pretty soon she'll be going to college at the end of summer. but its just irriatating, and all my other friends HATE her. (link)
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I had a similar problem. That really annoyed me too, so I understand how you are hurt. I asked my friend about it and she said she was trying to make new friends and include other people and meet other people, too. Her whole answer made me even more mad, but I realized that in her mind she was just trying to be nice and didn't realize what she was doing. We didn't stay very close after that because we didn't think the same way. She couldn't really understand how that upset me, and so it was hard for me to deal with it. You might not be able to make her understand if you tell her, so be prepared to have to back off.
As to what your other friends think about her, their opinions on her don't matter so much in the situation. Sometimes the best people are judged or misunderstood. Stick to your own judgement.
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im 15 almost 16 and i have never had my first kiss or had a boyfriend or had my hand held. i have had many guys like me but i wasnt able to date. in auagust i will be because i will be 16 haha.
but isnt that really bad and im going to be a junior and im not experienced, even a little? :( im not even sure how to kiss, what if we bump noses or something lol, or what about making out, and if i do get a boyfriend what if they ask how far ive gone, should i lie, because i dont want to make myself look like an idiot! :( (link)
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I recently felt exactly the same way. I never doubted what to do, and decided to be completely honest no matter what. I was honest with one guy and directly told him I had never been kissed. He stopped speaking to me, and I realized that that showed me what kind of person he really was. The kind of person I didn't want to be with.
Another, much better guy, who knew the same thing, recently kissed me. After he did I told him it was my first kiss and it didn't make any difference. He doesn't care at all about anything like that.
Sorry to bore you with my own stories, but at least it gives you hope that there are guys out there who will care about you enough not to care about your experiences. Those are the ones you want to find.
As to all the other stuff, it is so intuitive, don't even think about it. When it is the right person it is so easy. No matter what it is, if you just do what first comes to mind, it's easy. And, I didn't fell like an idiot at all when I told that bad guy, honestly, that I hadn't kissed anyone. It felt REALLY good. Much better than lying!
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