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can't let go of my ex but this time is serious..
my ex and i broke up about 2 weeks ago, i realised i couldn't be without him and asked him to reconsider us together (we broke up cause he thinks i have other interests and that i have cheated on him) which to be honest i have never,i'm a very good girl i dont do stuff like that and certainly wouldn't have done it to him, BUT he thinks i'm so pretty that every guy possibly wants to get with me, he blames me for wanting their attention he thinks that just because i like to look pretty(i have low selfesteem so feeling good about looking good makes me feel better) but he thinks i do it to get men's attention, which i don't and nor do i have tons of guys after me, and when i had someone interested on me i would tell them i was in a relationship but my boyfriend's stubburn and jealous..anyway..we live now in different countries but he was comming back to see me this july, yet he stopped talking to me said he wasn't comming cause he didn't believe i havent cheated etc..i tried to convince him, yet he finally said one day ok ill go and that he loved me and he was incredibly sweet that night..then the next morning i woke to no texts from him no nothing and he didnt texted me during all day..then i sent him tons of texts and now he's like i cant talk im at work, and i know hes not at work anymore yet he hasnt reply, he is notanswering the phone, he almost never picks up the phone when i talk unless i have been calling for quiet a while, i dont get why he says he wants me one day then acts like he totally hates me the next, anyway i dont know how to get over it and eventho my head knows if he would love me he wouldnt hurt me like this like being all time out with his friends say we would talk then never do , he takes HOURS to reply to my messages and seems to forget " his phone at home alot recently, he refuses to add meon bbm ..i understand this behaviour says he doesn't want me BUT he says he does! and that he was gonna come see me ! so i dont understand wha'ts going on or what to do!
please help ...this has never happened to me i can usually get over people pretty quickly, idk why its so different now, i'm 22 he's 23
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I'm going to pull a wild card on this one
Before you two broke up, Did your boyfriend know anything about you leaving for another country? This could of been what got him thinking. The fact that you are leaving for awhile and he used that to end the relationship. (Guessing here)
Now, I'm also going to assume that you stated above you sent him a ton of text messages. Perhaps you sent him too many to the point where he just said he was going to come and visit you so you'd drop the subject. (Don't burst my bubble, Again I'm just guessing based on his actions) If he doesn't seem to be showing interest into getting back together then there really isn't a whole lot I can tell you, You cannot force one to date someone they don't want to be with it. However, On another note if he took hours to respond either A. He could of been super busy. 2, He could of intentionally had his phone shut off. or 3. He may be talking to someone else you don't know about.
Now for my actual advise: I would talk to him, Try and get the real reason to why he left you. Perhaps it could be what he said above (But sounds to me it isn't a matter of cheating, He just simply doesn't trust you) This could be an excuse too << If he doesn't seem to show interest in giving it another shot then it may be best to move on. However something tells me he has/had someone lined up.
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Sweetie he is a lier and has been since day one. Do not believe a thing that comes out of his mouth. He has other girls I promise you this. When you all were in a realtionship he was manipulating the situation at every hand. He wanted to make it seems as if you were the one in the wrong. Unfortunately you fell right into his game. The game he is playing is not new. It has been used on practically EVERY girl out there. But, I think you are coming to the place in your life where you have opened your eyes and realized his lies. I'm wondering is he from Mexico. I also lean to wondering if he actually is in another country at all. This guy is beyond a looser. He is down right pathetic. You on the other hand deserve so much more than this. Life is too short to be wasting time on this idiot. It's time for him to be a distant memory in your life. Don't you want to be happy, don't you deserve happiness and to be loved my a real man who recognizes a girl that should be treated like a queen. Move on already. Let him know that his tired games are played out and are no good here. Tell him to find someone who believes his lies. Please don't waste another minute worrying about him. Who is he???? NOBODY.
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