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How to ask about exes intentions?
Ok, so my ex dumped me last November and got back with his ex the day after. They have now split up.
But its been a year now since me and my ex first started going out, and he never used to speak to me.
Except two weeks ago he sent a happy birthday text, and has been initiating contact through texts each week. I've tried to ask him why, but he completly ignonres the question. How can I get him to tell me his intentions? Thanks
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Dear How to ask about exes intentions?,
Zane is right. You already know the answer to the question. His actions confirm it.
There are a lot of factors that you should consider before saying get lost, or inviting him into your life again.
How did he treat you when you were together?
How did he treat you while he was with her?
How long did you date him before he left you for his ex?
What were the reasons he broke up with you?
More important questions are;
How do you feel about him after 8 months of seeing him with another girl?
Did he leave you an emotional wreck when he dumped you 8 months ago?
It sounds to me like his ex-girlfriend was the reason he left you.
It sounds to me like she had been talking to him without your knowledge and had a huge hand to play in your break up, since he was with her the very next day. (at least he did not lie, and cheat on you, he showed strong moral character by leaving you instead)
What happened in those eight months that made him want you again?
There are so may questions that need answers before you can decide to take him back. Ultimately it is your choice to make. Lessons are your to learn, and he may be one of them.
So here is some friendly advice from your spirit guides'
He wants you back. Your Karma is what is bringing him around to you. According the spirits surrounding you, he made a mistake when he left you. He knows it and does not want to admit it. He reaped what he had sewn, and I bet it was not pleasant for him.
Men are fickle creatures and will often return to the most comfortable place they last remember. For him, that warm comfort must have been you, however it took him 8 months, and a cold discomfort to figure that out.
"the proper care and feeding of husbands" is a book that I am recommending to everyone having male issues.
Trust me, once you have the tools to work with, and you use them, he will never leave you again.
Read the book!
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
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You already know the answer
Think about it, Sometimes guys won't always admit it but they often begin contacting an ex with intentions of getting back with that person. Honestly, I wouldn't even give him the time of day. Why? He had his chance with you and he decided that he still wanted to be with an ex so he left you high and dry to go be with someone else. Now that his relationship is currently over......He is crawling back to you. Do not be his door mat, Taking him back will put you in such position. This boy had his chance and he blew it which in my opinion certainly does not deserve another one. Be strong and be stern about it do not let him lure you back into his trap because that is exactly what he is trying to do.
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