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He is going back to England and I don't know what to do
im 18 my boyfriend of three years is moving back to england in like 6 weeks. i really dont know what to do im staying home to go to college beacuse for the obvious reasons i shouldnt run away with a boy even thou i really love him and dont know how im going to cope with out him because i went from seeing him everday for three years for maybe two years to maybe seeing him 2 times a year. i want to go see him in december when i have my winter break because its so long hopeing i have the money. i just dont really know what to do right now how to handle it i dont know.
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This has be be so tough on you right now and I am so sorry. I think however, that you will be surprised at how time will quickly help you deal with his absence so much easier. I know right now it doesn't seem like it but you will be happy again in no time. I think the best thing to do is stay connected and plan your visits. Your time together when you guys are able to visit one another will be so great. You will be so excited and the love will be so strong as if you just met. However, use this time away to explore who you are what you enjoy and meet new people and try new things. Don't spend your time depressed worrying about a situation you can not change right now. I think you are such a strong and intelligent girl. Do you know how many girls are willing to jepardize their future by chasing after a man rather than focusing on themselves first. I am so proud of you for loving yourself and realizing how much you are worth. You are doing a great job making very wise decisions. I think eventually love will bring him back and you both will be in a great place to settle down and be together. But please enjoy your youth. Everyday I wish I could go back and relive my early 20s. I would have enjoyed my freedoms and taken advantage of so many opportunities. But, you can't go back so remember now is the time of your life. Go to school, meet new friends, travel, sky dive. . . do it all and have fun. You'll be ok, I promise.
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I am so sorry that you have to go through something like this... its hard and it seems unfair but trust me if you are meant to be everything will work out and be okay... But while he is in england with out you remember you need a lot of communication (letters, phone calls, texts, and emails) and a whole lot of faith and trust to get you through... you can do this stay strong good luck and best wishes
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