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Why does he stare at me all the time but wont talk to me?

Question Posted Sunday July 3 2011, 5:46 pm

I have a big crush on this guy but idk how he feels about me. I go up talk to him and he seems uninterested like I bother him. He gives like 1 word answers and it feels like I'm forcing the conversation. So i figure he doesn't like me so I go on about my business and start hanging out with my other friends. While I'm with them I notice he keeps looking over at me even my friend says he kept looking over at us. I don't understand it. I tried to be nice and friendly with him but he seem like he didn't want nothing to do with me so why does he stare at me all the time?

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BLONDShorty answered Sunday July 10 2011, 12:05 pm:
I'm glad I read this question because I had the same question! But, yes, there is a good chance that he likes you more than you think he does and that's why he's so shy. That happens in other situations too. Like for instance, asking a question in class, even if you think it's a smart question. Or, when someone says to say an interesting fact about yourself and then you can't because you don't know if they'll find it interesting. Or, you don't want to ask someone something too personal, but you want to help them, which is why you wanted to ask in the first place. It's not the same thing, but just to give you an idea of how people could get shy or reserved. He doesn't want to be rejected and sometimes the fear of being rejected over-rides the chance you have to say something. If you don't want to talk to him right away again, just smile and be friendly, but don't wait too long, so he doesn't feel like he did something wrong lol

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YoungMommy answered Sunday July 3 2011, 10:31 pm:
My husband was the same way when we met... he is just shy... keep talking to him and he will get comfotable with you... he is probably feeling a little intimidated because he really likes you and he doesnt want to say the wrong thing keep trying and let him know that you like him ... telling my husband that I liked him when we first met helped him loosen up a bit good luck

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Never2bAlone answered Sunday July 3 2011, 10:26 pm:
He likes you and he likes you A LOT. He's just nervous and doesn't know how to handle the situation. He probably doesn't know if you are interested so he doesn't want to feel stupid if he were to tell you and you rejected him. Take your time and let it play out. He will come around and if not it's his lost when you are with someone else.

If I were you I would pay him a compliment and flirt a little and see if he'll work up his nerve if not it's 2011 feel free to make the first move, but always be safe and never be disrespected.

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