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my boyfriend broke up with me
Posted Friday February 17 2012, 12:02 am
I'm 11 and my boyfriend broke up with me and I really seriously can't get over it! I'm madly in love with him but he's dating my bestfriend please please please help!
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Can a guy and a girl be "just friends", even if there's a mutual attraction
Posted Thursday February 16 2012, 8:39 pm
and they're both single?
But I'm afraid to get in any relationship, I don't even see how that could work. This is the last year of high school so nothing would even count, as everyone will go their separate ways. And even though I sense that he likes me idk for sure and I find my own feelings to be embarrassing, because in my mind I just want to be friends, but I can't help how I feel, I can't help but feel the attraction. I also wouldn't want a relationship because of how others would react to it, for various reasons. And that whole romance world is totally foreign for me, as I've never even kissed a guy, much less been in a relationship. how do I make sense of this situation? like now we're just friends but it's sort of awk...
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My boyfriend is 'teasing' me far too much
Posted Thursday February 16 2012, 7:35 pm
Female/16
My boyfriend (also 16) teases me tonnes, to him it's hilarious - anything that winds me up is hilarious to him - but to me, it's irritating and well, I cannot stand it anymore.
We've been together a few months and were seeing eachother for about six months pier to going out officially.
For example, when getting intimate and say I move him on top of myself, he says 'Alright, Claire!' - Claire is a friend of mine, she tends to sleep around and in his eyes is not attractive at all, he also hates her - this really, really irritates me, for obvious reasons, and I just really wish he'd stop it. As for one it completely ruins the mood and it's almost like he's thinking of someone else (even though I know he doesn't l...
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Id like to arouse her...
Posted Thursday February 16 2012, 2:26 pm
so im 15/f shes 15/f,
im good friends with this girl Alasia and she is bi-sexual. We have messed around before (mostly her to me) and i have been craving it for a while now again. Ill be visiting her vbery soon and id like some ways to try and get her to do it again.
I am bi-curious i dont consider myself bi, but i dont mind messing around with people of the same sex.
I do have a boyfriend, but he doesnt mind. Id also like way to arouse her and get around that point too.
please the quicker the better!
thanks--Olie
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complicated: wouldnt he just leave if he didn't want me?
Posted Thursday February 16 2012, 8:02 am
Ughh ok.
So ive been with this kid for 2.5 years and its def been rocky. I know i should have left him for a while cause he was involved in drugs. But now hes been in rehab for a month and was calling me everynight and telling me how much he loved me. It was amazing cause it was the guy ive fell in love with and i began to trust him again.
But now 2 days ago he told me he just wanted to take things really slow and just be my friend so that i can meet the real him and build a strong foundation. Now it all mKes sense but its really hard for me to trust hes meaning what hes saying. And i love him a lot but im really unsure if hes just trying to be nice and break up with me or if he really does love me and want to be with me. Caus...
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which topic i discuss with my boy friend
Posted Thursday February 16 2012, 3:48 am
when my boy friend & me meet to each other we are always quite . we don't have any topic to discuss.
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Breaking shyness
Posted Thursday February 16 2012, 12:14 am
I'm 20 yrs old and it kills me dat ave neva had a serious relationship. I long for someone to just hold me and love. Guys neva ask me out and i know am not ugly so maybe its cos am shy. I feel so lonely sometimes, i cant even bear to watch romantic movies anymore.
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He broke up with me, and said we might get back together, but now he is rude to me? I am SO confused!
Posted Wednesday February 15 2012, 5:17 pm
Well I used to date this boy and he broke up with me and he said we will probably get bac together but now he is kinda rude. idk what to do
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We had sex... and I don't want to get all clingy now. How do I avoid that?
Posted Wednesday February 15 2012, 12:16 pm
This boy has been wanting me for a long time now for many years He's been trying to sex me . . . 8-10 years Well recently I gave in & Gave it up ... It jus didnt feel right tho . . . Besides us having relations We are very good friends He knows alot abt me as well I know alot abt him . . . I dont want to get attached all crazy like the rest of them so what do I do to subdue the feelings from reaching that point?
And another thing how long after having sex can I take a pregnancy test bc umm I dnt remember him pulling out ??
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Heated argument got physical dont know what to do?
Posted Tuesday February 14 2012, 5:55 pm
Hi everyone i'm 23 yrs old and a young mom i have a situation and would like some input,I've been going over this so many times and don't know what to think.Today my boyfriend of 2yrs and myself got into a heated argument and I wanted to go home (we live apart but stay over at times) anyway i got all my things threw it in his truck and in the process scratched the interior leather roof of his truck and he flipped out our 3 month old was strapped in the back during all this and i was sitting in the back with her . He got out and started calling me a bitch and to get out i refused because of our daughter was still strapped in and he tried pulling me out and when i didn't get out he punched me twice in the stomach out of anger of what i did...
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I'm nervous and apprehensive about telling him how I feel.
Posted Tuesday February 14 2012, 2:13 pm
So, I've posted here once or twice about the same guy. He is in the army and one of my best friends. Well he just got back yesterday, and today is Valentines day. I dated his best friend about two years ago, we broke up around Christmas the year before last and about a month later I hooked up with this guy. We didn't have sex but got pretty close. Anyway, so he took me out on a date about a year ago and it was really fun. After that we kissed a few times and we'd occasionally hold hands. We kind of drifted apart when his friend and my ex found out. Since at the time it was a sensitive situation. Well, I started dating another guy who beat me and just was an awful person. After I caught him cheating I dumped him and remained single for the ...
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He's more sexually experienced
Posted Tuesday February 14 2012, 12:42 pm
I've recently started seeing a guy that I really like. He treats me well and I have a really good time with him. Recently we (as part of my friendship group) had a discussion about sex and he confessed to having had a very large number of sexual parters (150+), being a member of several swingers club & websites and going to lots of 'sex parties'.
He says that whenever he is in a relationship, he is monogamous, but that he just enjoys sex and doesn't see anything wrong with it. I don't see anything wrong with it, but I can't help feeling that this relationship has no potential for two reasons: a) he doesn't seem to attach any meaning to sex [whereas I do], b) I don't feel that I will be enough to satisfy him in the long term.
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Did I make the right decision?
Posted Tuesday February 14 2012, 12:46 am
I've been in a relationship for a year and a half, and the other day some girl(not knowing I was dating someone) messaged me on FaceBook. She goes to my school and thought I was cute, and asked if I liked to talk dirty. She seemed nervous about the fact that I was in a relationship, but for a few nights we sexted a few times.
Today, right before we finished out working out a place to meet, I told her I couldn't go through with it. I told her she's a great person, and she deserves better, and that she'll find someone who can see how great she is. I told her that neither of them deserved that treatment, and that I was really sorry.
I stopped it before it was too late, and instead of everyone hurting a lot, she was just a little ...
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Why do I have a crush when I'm afraid of rejection?
Posted Monday February 13 2012, 11:36 pm
Why do I want a relationship, but don't want one at the same time?
I'm too afraid to give any overt hints.. like there's this guy I like and it's just not an opportune time for a relationship in my life, but i don't know, i cant control how i feel. but it makes me kind of anxious because i'm trying to not show how i feel cause he's pretty shy too but opens up with me, during class at least, but it's a bit awkward but i feel comfortable with him, and we have similar interests and are sort of part of the outcasts at school. im pretty much a loner, unfortunately, but i dont associate with him out of class. i have like the worst social skills with stuff like that, i guess this is why i've never been in anything close to a relatio...
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It's my relationship, not theirs!
Posted Monday February 13 2012, 9:41 pm
14 (almost 15) female
My boyfriend and I have been dating officially for over a month now, but we've liked each other for a few years and we have been good friends for a long time. You probably think fourteen is too young to have a serious relationship, but I politely disagree.
My problem is that ever since the day we announced we were going out, it seems like everyone I meet has to put their two cents in. At school dances, people we hardly know watch us slow dance and take pictures while exclaiming how cute we are. Every time I speak to one of my relatives on the phone, they make rude jokes or snide comments. Most of my so-called "friends" make crude jokes and try to set the rules of our relationshi...
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Follow up: im in love with a wigger?
Posted Monday February 13 2012, 9:37 pm
Things are going very well with me and him. The reason he couldn't come and see me was because his grandma is dying and he wanted to spend more time with her. She seemed really sick when i went and visited her with him once, now, she is just getting worse. He gave me a promie ring for an early valentines day present...he told me that once he gets out that he PROMISES to change his enviorment, friends, habits, and people he talks to. He told me he would NEVER cheat on me or ever hurt me. I believe him....yes, he did use my friend. But she is stuipder than me, and puts out easier than me. He told me he never used her....he said that she asked if he wanted to have sex, and him being a boy, asked her out before they did..and said yes to having ...
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I need help deciding what to do with my relationship.
Posted Monday February 13 2012, 6:19 pm
I'm 19/f. My boyfriend is 18/m. I've been trying for about a month now to decide what to do with my relationship. I've gone back and forth about it so many times that my minds just GONE concerning the situation. It's gotten to the point where I'm so confused and unhappy that I've been crying every single day. I've been dating this guy for 16 months. We have had our ups and downs, but I really think that our problems are my fault. For starters, I was in a 1-year relationship with someone else right before I met my current boyfriend, and I was unhappy in that relationship, so I broke up with that guy and almost immediately started dating my current boyfriend. I think that jumping into this current relationship was my first mistake. I didn't a...
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is it a good idea to do anal with my boyfriend
Posted Monday February 13 2012, 1:35 am
my boyfriend wants to do anal but i dont know if its a good idea. i need help!
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Long Distance Relationship Help
Posted Sunday February 12 2012, 11:33 pm
Hi, I'm in desperate need of advice on how to get through a long distance relationship. I'm from New Zealand and my boyfriend has moved to Christchurch for university. I live in Auckland which is in the North Island. He's in the South. How do I learn to cope with the distance? We are both 18 and have been going out for well over a year.
Please any advice or personal experiences with LDR's (long distant relationships) would be much appreciated. I really love him and would do anything for him and to keep him.
P.S attached is a photo of NZ to gauge the distance.
http://www.nz-tourism.com/new_zealand_images/new-zealand-map3.gif
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Boyfriend found my porn and now things are awkward
Posted Sunday February 12 2012, 11:23 pm
Im an 18 year old female and a nympho. The other day I was really horny and my boyfriend was at work so I decided for some reason to look up lesbian porn and old men and young women porn to masturbate to. I'm not attracted to either,girls or older men. Later that night he asked to use my phone and let him,which was probably a mistake. He went to google and it showed the list of things I looked up such as lesbian porn and old men porn. I knew he saw it because it wasnt the last thing i looked up and when he saw it in the google window he clicked on it and left it on that site.The rest of the night it was awkward and then he started talking to me like nothing happened but I knew he saw it so I couldn't help but be quiet. Lastnight he texted m...
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