I'm 11 and my boyfriend broke up with me and I really seriously can't get over it! I'm madly in love with him but he's dating my bestfriend please please please help!
Xui answered Saturday February 18 2012, 3:43 am: Friends don't go and date other friends boyfriend/girlfriends. This is not a true friend
You are young, There will be many many more boys that you come and go into your life. Right now it seems like the world is falling apart but I promise you that this is not the end. Why at eleven years old do you need a boyfriend? Relationships should come later in life when you are a little bit older trust me it is nothing to ever rush into. You have all the time to date boys, You don't need to rush things right now. Don't be in a hurry to grow up as I didn't start dating until I was 17 and I don't regret it one bit.
Sometimes dating a little later prevents all the heartbreaks you have to go through in the process. Relationships aren't always fun and games, Sometimes it's just stress and drama. Have fun being a kid and when you are in your teen years then worry about the dating thing but right now you are too young. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
gotchalk8 answered Friday February 17 2012, 9:39 am: Hi! I'm 13 and last year a boyfriends of mine broke up with me and told me I wasn't good enough for him. This guy you dated seems like kind of a jerk for dating your best friend and you best friend wasn't very nice for doing that either. What I'm about to tell you probably isn't what you want to hear.
Many people have found their true love at a young age but there are also many many people that don't. If he broke up with you and got into another relationship quickly, you guys don't belong together. There are so many guys in the world and just think, your future husband is alive right now somewhere in the world waiting to meet you. You guys will be so happy together and would you want to upset him by never getting over the guy that broke up with you?
For a while I mourned about my boyfriend breaking up with me but when I got over it, I realized that I don't need a boyfriend to live or get through life. The right guy will come to you when it's time. I hope everything works out for you! :D [ gotchalk8's advice column | Ask gotchalk8 A Question ]
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