Question Posted Thursday February 16 2012, 11:44 pm
is it leading on if i continue to talk to my guy friend even though i know hes trying to get with me? i know i shouldnt talk to him at all but i want to still be friends uk!!
Xui answered Saturday February 18 2012, 3:45 am: It isn't leading a guy on if you don't let it go that far, If you want to remain friends with him then be stern about it and tell him that you do not want a relationship. If you flirt with him and aren't honest about how you feel then yes it is leading him on and that is uncool. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
Pook answered Friday February 17 2012, 3:11 am: You might not be doing it intentionally but he will see it as interest from your side. You're going to have to tell him that, while you appreciate his friendship, you don't want anything more than that. It's hard putting someone in the friend zone, but you have to do it sooner rather than later so his feelings don't get hurt. Be very clear that you are not interested in anything more than friendship: guys don't do subtlety very well! [ Pook's advice column | Ask Pook A Question ]
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