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is this considered leading a guy on?


Question Posted Thursday February 16 2012, 11:44 pm

is it leading on if i continue to talk to my guy friend even though i know hes trying to get with me? i know i shouldnt talk to him at all but i want to still be friends uk!!

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istalio answered Saturday February 18 2012, 2:06 pm:
its not leading on if you dont say or do anything that would make him think your in the same boat as him. Tell him you know how he feels, your very flattered but your not interested in him that way but you dont want to lose him as a friend. and let him make the decision from there. And always live life with an open mind..you never know how your going to feel in the future. Goodluck :) -Istalio

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Xui answered Saturday February 18 2012, 3:45 am:
It isn't leading a guy on if you don't let it go that far, If you want to remain friends with him then be stern about it and tell him that you do not want a relationship. If you flirt with him and aren't honest about how you feel then yes it is leading him on and that is uncool.

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Pook answered Friday February 17 2012, 3:11 am:
You might not be doing it intentionally but he will see it as interest from your side. You're going to have to tell him that, while you appreciate his friendship, you don't want anything more than that. It's hard putting someone in the friend zone, but you have to do it sooner rather than later so his feelings don't get hurt. Be very clear that you are not interested in anything more than friendship: guys don't do subtlety very well!

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