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Follow up: im in love with a wigger?


Question Posted Monday February 13 2012, 9:37 pm

Things are going very well with me and him. The reason he couldn't come and see me was because his grandma is dying and he wanted to spend more time with her. She seemed really sick when i went and visited her with him once, now, she is just getting worse. He gave me a promie ring for an early valentines day present...he told me that once he gets out that he PROMISES to change his enviorment, friends, habits, and people he talks to. He told me he would NEVER cheat on me or ever hurt me. I believe him....yes, he did use my friend. But she is stuipder than me, and puts out easier than me. He told me he never used her....he said that she asked if he wanted to have sex, and him being a boy, asked her out before they did..and said yes to having sex. He is straightening up very well, without me even having to say anything. My best friend (who dated his best guy friend) told me that she txted him if he REALLY DOES like me,And he replied to her "hell yea, I love her with everything I got..I plan on spending my life with her <3" when she told me this, i about cried because i feel the exact same way as him! Sooo.....what does everyone still think? Do you think he is still going to cheat on me, etc. (PLEASE READ 'im inlove with a wigger?' To hear the previous story and questions....) I would like tohave the same questions answered for this one, as the last...
#1: would he ever cheat on me?
#2: is he just playing me?
#3: etc etc...(read the previous one to get all the questions!)
THANKIES!!


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Xui answered Tuesday February 14 2012, 5:48 pm:
Why the hell do you keep repeating the same exact question if you don't like what we are going to tell you?

My answer still stays the same from your previous question. The guy is a dirt bag, They don't change. They change WHEN THEY WANT TO CHANGE. Seriously, It doesn't matter how stupid your friend may be. YES, You are just as gullible as your friend you convince yourself that he is going to change, You believe everything he tells you. You don't see how that is gullible? lol

You are setting yourself up for a long haul, If I remember correctly you are ONLY 13 years old. Who in the right mind excepts a promise ring at 13?! I couldn't agree with Nascar anymore then I do. People who rush things end up ending things. TRUST ME, I am a lot older than you and I know from experience. You are just setting yourself up to fail by being with this dude. Peer pressure that is exactly what it is, You got to have some sort of noggin to get by in this world. You don't know shit, Sorry if that is harsh but hun love IS NOT manipulating someone. The best and smartest choice you could possibly make is to dump the jerk and keep it that way. Stop letting other people talk you into things and convince you, You need to learn to think for yourself not let others think for you. Part of growing up is knowing RIGHT from WRONG. You are not "in love" if you were in love you wouldn't be here asking us these questions. Your friends don't know shit, You don't either. You are just another girl on the sidelines in his eyes. Plain and simple! Just because your his girlfriend doesn't make you anymore special then this friend of yours that he used. Once you open them legs, His ass moves onto the next bootycall.

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nascarfan1987 answered Tuesday February 14 2012, 7:56 am:
There really isn't any point in anyone giving you advice. Your just going to do what you want, therefore we are wasting our time.


Your questions you're asking are really annoying. If you believe him than why in the hell are you still ask the same questions? Obviously you don't believe him and you have doubts.

I don't remember how old you are, but you aren't going to spend your life with this guy. He's too young to want to change. People like that normally don't change until after a certain thing happens, (and i'm not telling you what, because knowing you, you're just going to go and do that to keep him) but right now, they are too immature and peer pressured to change.


But you can do what you want, but if you ask me you are just as stupid as your friend; regardless if you put out or not. Once you open those legs, his ass will be gonee!


As of his grandma, I've heard that excuse plenty of times before. And the promise ring? You guys have been together, what? Two months? Hahaha! Relationships that start out fast, END FAST!

So if you want all your silly questins answered, than you answer them yourself, because your the one that is having doubts after we have already told you what we thought.

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