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Girlfriend breakup after 4 years..feel lost
Posted Tuesday February 28 2012, 2:07 pm
Hi,
Im 23 and from the UK and my girlfriend has just broken up with me out of the blue after 4 years. Her reason was "I just don't think you're 'the one'". It seemed like a pathetic excuse. One I didn't, deserve especially after how long we had been together. I didn't beg or cry or anything I just picked up my stuff and left, I then went round the next day (whilst she was working) and took all my stuff home, we havent spoke since either. It's finally hit me now and i feel horrible inside, I can't eat, drink, concentrate at work or anything. I've had to move back in with my parents and I just don't know what to do, I don't get on well with my parents and can't talk to them, all my brothers live at opposite ends of th...
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Complicated Guy Thing.
Posted Tuesday February 28 2012, 1:53 pm
Hi,
(24/f)
There's this guy that I use to date and recently he came back into my life. Not too long ago, my dad and his aunt got married and now we are technically legitimate cousins. It's weird because now we live in the same house. When we dated many months ago, it was always hot and cold with us. One day, we fought and he said many things that I couldn't get over. So one day, I packed my things and left him. He has terrible character. I dated him with him being a rebound. He told me a bunch of lies when we first met and he tried to get me drunk a few times. He was dating another girl, he cheated on her with me. I fell for his acts and his lies for short periods of time. I think I convinced myself to be in love with...
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My boyfriend doesn't make me feel like he cares for me
Posted Tuesday February 28 2012, 1:32 pm
My boyfriend has changed. We haven't been together long but we were talking for a couple of months before he asked me to make things official. I think he lied to me also. On valentines day he claimed he couldn't see me because it was going to rain and his tires are bad, then later that day he said he couldn't come because he was sick and at the doctors. I was so sad because this was my first valentine's day ever and I had things planned and bought him a gift and everything. I am 20 years old by the way. I asked friends who live where he lives and they said it didn't rain that night and i checked the weather and it wasn't suppose to rain anywhere near his city. And we've been talking less and less everyday. I don't know what to do. Should I ...
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shoud i break up with him??? please help
Posted Tuesday February 28 2012, 10:02 am
Ok so I'm 11 turning 12 in june and I'm quit mature for my age. Well I'm dating this guy in my class jaden he's already 12 he turned 12 in january and well I've seen a lot of stuff on here about people being to young to date. Well my question is should I brake up with him? I really do like him but everyone says you must still find youself live a normail child life and guys please no rude answers.I wanna do better in my school work also. Please help I don't know if I should or not!
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Im in love with my best friend
Posted Tuesday February 28 2012, 2:17 am
he told me he liked me 3 years ago and i told him i didnt feel the same way. which was a lie i was just scared that if things didnt go well i would lose my best friend. Things got a little weird between us after that. Then like 5 months later he went out with this girl i hated. When i tried to ask him why he was dating her he said why do u even care? and we didnt talk for like 2 months after that. We started hanging out but with other people there. Things didnt work out with him and his girlfriend so to cheer him up me and him went to the moves together and after we got ice cream which we shared. 2 weeks later i finally told him i liked him then he said he wasnt looking to date anyone since he just got out of a relationship. so then i panic...
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moving on: its time for me to move on are there any good ways to break it to him?
Posted Tuesday February 28 2012, 2:02 am
Ive been in love with this guy for 4 years now we've been in a on and off relationship for 3. I still love him but it just feels like we arent going any where so i think its time to say goodbye. He never shows that he actually likes me, he says he loves me but i just dont feel like he really means it. I decided that its time for me to move on does any one have any good ways to break it to him? please and thank you
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Overracting or should he respect my wishes?
Posted Monday February 27 2012, 9:29 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We are so great together, but like all couples, we have minor issues. My boyfriend has a best friend(who i DO NOT like at all), and he seems to convince my boyfriend to do anything and everything. He pretty much is a BIG influence over him. Well his best friend moved somewhat far away, and everytime he comes and visits, my boyfriend ends up smoking weed with him. I dont preferably like that, i understand weed is not a big deal, but i dont prefer it in my house, or the one i love to do it or be around my family with it. Anyway, he does it everytime he comes and visits, and he always lies to me about it. i have to pry it out of him if he did anything. and one time he pinky promised me ...
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does he like me
Posted Monday February 27 2012, 8:07 pm
i am a 14 female and my friend liam has been flurting with me alot. like to day he put his arm around me and asks if ill go out with him in a sarcastic way how do i know if he means it . i also have some problems in relationships i haven't had my first kiss yet and every time i have a BF i get super nervous and don't act like myself plz help. :)
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What is he doing?
Posted Monday February 27 2012, 5:11 pm
My ex boyfriend and I broke up due to a misunderstanding and in one day he decided to move on to another girl, someone I used to be friends with. He also knows that I didn't like her very much. When we were together, and even from before, he wasn't a really public person, when it came to facebook, etc. Now I know those aren't important things to make public in a relationship but it does help to an extent. When he went out with me, he took forever to change his relationship status until he changed it on my computer right next to me. He also didn't like going to clubs very much either. Now that he's with this new chick, he immediately uploads AND defaults two new ones at a club, like as soon as he took them. He barely ever changed his default...
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is Long distance bf losing interist?
Posted Monday February 27 2012, 3:57 pm
Hi there I have a very long story for you and need you honest opinion on this! Ok here goes.....about 3months ago I met this really nice guy that just caught my attention from the beginning we went on a very awkward 1st date n I thought it would end there as he didn't seem interested but we were still chatting after that on BBM then about 2days later we hooked up again with some other people ohk to cut it I lil shorter we saw each other acouple of times after that n I found out that he had an ex that was giving him trouble n he still loved her but still I didn't give up as I knew this girl had a bad reputation and that he desired better. Ok so they made up again n tried to work things out but yet again they split up n he decided to go back ...
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Winning her back after she had an on-line affair
Posted Monday February 27 2012, 2:53 pm
Recently, I found out my wife was shaving an online affair with an old fling from high school. They were planning on cheating together. After confronting her the emails tapered off and she became more open about the guy. We have been going to counseling. During our sessions she admitted that she believed that she was hitting it off with this other guy because "he gets" her and he could make her laugh. They have some background that obviously helped them to get back together. My wife says she wants us to stay together and she wants things to work. I talked to the guy and he says things have turned only to a friendship and I shouldn't be threatened by him. Recently, my wife had a heart to heart discussion with me and she stated that...
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boyfriend problems :( I text another boy more than my boyfriend, and my boyfriend thinks I love the other guy more
Posted Sunday February 26 2012, 5:42 pm
ok so me and my boyfriend were just enjoying our time then i had to go to another school and so we dont see eachother a lot and theres this guy that im really close with because hes going to be my cousin and so i texted him most of the day and my boyfriend wouldnt answer my texts and then my boyfriend found out and texted me and said,"so you have been texting this person more than me," i said that isnt very bad and the he told me that he thinks that i love the person more than him. i love him way to much and i only love him but i dont think he understands me.
what should i do so that me understands that i only love him and thats all???
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How do I tell him the truth...
Posted Sunday February 26 2012, 9:36 am
OK so right now I have like the best boyfriend ever!!! He is so sweet, kind, helpful, understanding, generous, nice, amazing and soso much more!!!
Then there's this other guy that I've talked to on msn since September. At first, the other guy used me to get information about my best friend (cause he liked her). And then he told me he liked me through October and November. He kinda likes me a bit on and off but he likes my best friend more (doesnt bother me since i have a boyfriend). At the end of January, he said he wanted to be my BGFF (best guy friend forever) and since we got to know each other better, i said yes. So now Im his BGFF (best girl friend forever) and he's my BGFF (best guy friend forever). We only talk on msn ...
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What does it mean if a guy continuously allows you to subtly flirt with him
Posted Saturday February 25 2012, 8:37 pm
not outright, but subtly, like through body language and what not. his body language doesn't seem to be against it, but he's not flirting outright with me either. what is going on! i feel like it's so comfortable to flirt with him like this. I feel like I can't help it; I'm just attracted to him! and i'm usually shy around guys I like. we're both 18 btw
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Catch-22: I can't be romantically involved with ANYONE?
Posted Saturday February 25 2012, 7:49 pm
I go to a small high school with mainly white people and indians, and I'm a black girl, but I feel like I can't date anyone because it would be a catch-22. I have no racial preferences, I'd just like to be with someone I can connect with, and am attracted to. but I feel like the only pairing I could be a part of at my school, without being scrutinized, is with another black guy, but I don't like any of the few other black guys at my school. I'm actually really attracted to a white guy, but idk if anything could even come from it, because even though I get the feeling he may like me, he may not try to pursue anything because of how others at school would react to it. it's a very small town in the south, and people are still racist and ignora...
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He did something during sex that I didn't want and he wouldn't stop till he was done
Posted Saturday February 25 2012, 5:39 pm
I dont know if this is the right category but I couldnt put it as abusive relationship because he has never purposely hit me.
Im 18 and female. now please no one judge me but im with a older guy hes 31 and have lived with him for nearly 4 months everythings been great and happy. Til last night he had a bit of beer to drink and we had a little coke and were having fun. Until we went to "bed". Half way through he tried putting it in my ass. we do get a little rough like i was handcuffed and tied down but iv never had a problem saying stop or no. Except last night he wouldnt take no for a answer next thing i know hes in my ass and im yelling for him to stop. He wouldnt til he finished, i was almost in tears. I barely ...
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nervous...... please help :D My parents don't know I am dating a muslim
Posted Saturday February 25 2012, 2:53 pm
Basically ive been seeing my boyfriend since august 2010 and well we got together finally in december we got together, but the thing is he's muslim but im so cool with that i dont care haha , only problem is my parents dont think its right if i date a muslim they think he is like them dominent men. But their wrong i want to introduce him to them , but i'm scared that they wouldnt let me see him. Im 18 this year i know its my feelings only thing is that hes a muslim guy, hes turkish. Honestly i fell in love with him, im also his first love aswell and it feels so amazing and well its come to the point where i wanna take things further on with my partner i want to be able to make love with him because i lost my virginity at 15 and well it was...
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how do i get him to believe me? I lied to him, and I even lied about lying... now he won't BELIEVE ME! How do I fix this?
Posted Saturday February 25 2012, 1:33 pm
17/f . For the past year and a half i have been with my boyfriend and he did a lot of shady things such as drink at his house with a girl who gave him oral sex in the past, went out to parties and never told me until i found out from someone else and other things of that magnitude. On the 9th of february, i got really fed up with the disrespect and i never really got over the things he did to me, so i decided it was time to get my revenge and i broke up with him. I went out with my "friend" and she took me to parties with her, convinced me to hang out with guys with her and smoke weed and drink. i realized that lifestyle is not for me and i was much happier with my boyfriend because nobody can compare to him and he was so angry th...
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how to get this boy
Posted Saturday February 25 2012, 12:43 am
So there is a boy @ school that I. Have liked for 2 years... i m popular but way to snooty and spoiled for him! He's so cute and he isn't to popular for me! People say tht we would make a cute couple but he doesn't think any thing like tht of me! How do I get him to like me? I'm obviosly a girl and I'm in 7th grade.
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Guy problem.
Posted Saturday February 25 2012, 12:22 am
Hello there :) well this is my problem. I have a boyfriend we been together for 4 years. on and off. Recently there has been this girl on his Facebook that likes his pictures and also he starts liking her statuses. Last night i was going through her page and saw a comment her friend post on one of her status. It said "oh look who liked this status Jake" I automatically knew she was talking about him because they call my boyfriend jake. There was another status were they were talking about him. he goes to party's with them and his brother. I'm confused because i been seeing this random things on Facebook so if they do this in Facebook imagine in parties. i think im just going to end up breaking up with him even if it hurts. I know it will get better with time :'(
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