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boyfriend problems :( I text another boy more than my boyfriend, and my boyfriend thinks I love the other guy more
ok so me and my boyfriend were just enjoying our time then i had to go to another school and so we dont see eachother a lot and theres this guy that im really close with because hes going to be my cousin and so i texted him most of the day and my boyfriend wouldnt answer my texts and then my boyfriend found out and texted me and said,"so you have been texting this person more than me," i said that isnt very bad and the he told me that he thinks that i love the person more than him. i love him way to much and i only love him but i dont think he understands me.
what should i do so that me understands that i only love him and thats all???
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When your in a relationship your partner should be a main priority not your friends. Yes, It sounds like your boyfriend may have some slight insecurity and trust issues but on the other hand I can understand where he may be coming from.
You are giving all your attention to another dude, It's okay to have friends and talk to them but to ignore your significant other is just not right. You may be giving this "friend" a little too much attention to the point where your boyfriend feels neglected in some way. If you don't want your boyfriend to feel neglected then I seriously would start paying more attention to him. Either that or loose the relationship and watch him walk.......
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I think your boyfriend will not get insecure with this other guy if you are not giving him any reason to be. He may have a point in getting jealous since you are spending your time texting this other guy. Give him assurance that you are just friends and try to limit texting the other guy because you might end up liking him since he is giving you more attention than your boyfriend.
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This happened to me last year. He asked me if I liked the other guy more and I didn't want him to worry so while we were spending time with each other I turned off my phone and had all my attention on him. Before he left he told me he was happy with our relationship and wasn't going to worry about me texting this other guy. Maybe you can try this and I hope it works out for you two! :D
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