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My boyfriend doesn't make me feel like he cares for me


Question Posted Tuesday February 28 2012, 1:32 pm

My boyfriend has changed. We haven't been together long but we were talking for a couple of months before he asked me to make things official. I think he lied to me also. On valentines day he claimed he couldn't see me because it was going to rain and his tires are bad, then later that day he said he couldn't come because he was sick and at the doctors. I was so sad because this was my first valentine's day ever and I had things planned and bought him a gift and everything. I am 20 years old by the way. I asked friends who live where he lives and they said it didn't rain that night and i checked the weather and it wasn't suppose to rain anywhere near his city. And we've been talking less and less everyday. I don't know what to do. Should I dump him? Does it seem like he was lying? And when I confronted him, he talked about breaking up, and when I asked him if we should break up he said no. He swore that he wasn't lying but everything he said just didn't add up. He doesn't call me, only text, and not often and it's not like he's busy, he's always on Facebook posting pictures and status updates. He doesn't call me baby or boo or babe unless I say it to him first. He doesn't say he misses me. He used to before our argument on valentines day. I don't know if he's just going through something and need some time or something but I don't like the way things have been between us. I feel no love at all. And my feelings for him are fading away rapidly!

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Xui answered Tuesday February 28 2012, 11:35 pm:
Think about it, He isn't showing interest in you at all.

It's pretty obvious the guy doesn't care about your relationship. The biggest holiday that couples share together and he didn't even take the time to acknowledge you never mind even call you. You want my honest opinion? It sounds like he is cheating.

Should you break up with him? Yes. When someone is in a relationship usually you become a main priority in the relationship. People don't just "forget" to call their girlfriend/boyfriends. Is he lying? Well...Isn't it obvious?

Yeah your red flags are right there.....Dump his ass and call it a day.

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