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shoud i break up with him??? please help
Ok so I'm 11 turning 12 in june and I'm quit mature for my age. Well I'm dating this guy in my class jaden he's already 12 he turned 12 in january and well I've seen a lot of stuff on here about people being to young to date. Well my question is should I brake up with him? I really do like him but everyone says you must still find youself live a normail child life and guys please no rude answers.I wanna do better in my school work also. Please help I don't know if I should or not!
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If you are happy with him, I see no reason for you to break up. Whilst I understand people saying you should live a child life, I think you can have both. I think it's just important that you make sure not to attach too much importance to your relationship - still see him and have fun, but make time for other things too and don't abandon all the childlike things you like to do. If you want to do better in your school work, just don't prioritise Jaden over it.
Basically, I think it's fine for you to date him, as long as you don't make it too serious and make time for all the other things in your life. Just have fun, and if you find you're no longer having fun with him, then break up with him.
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I see you should keep it as a playful relationship because you're young, it shouldn't be too serious. I remember romances at you're age and I recall them to be sweet. You should put school work first and foremost. Enjoy life, you didn't say whether you've been struggling with the different tasks of your daily life so I think you can handle a boyfriend in the mix. You're young but you're also old enough to make decisions for yourself. Think about what matters to you and always keep your future in mind.
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I don't like answering questions like this because it is YOUR choice and all the people on the website can do is basically give you the pros and cons from what we read, but this reminds me of when I was younger so I'll give it a shot.
I'm going to try to not comment on your age as I was 11 when I had my first boyfriend. Just as long as your parents are okay with it and you don't make stupid mistakes like getting pregnant, it's up to you.
Is he distracting you from school? This is something that you need to ask yourself. If he is, you need to seriously consider your priorities. Your main focus should be school because your future depends on it and he might not be a part of it. So basically, how you do in school can affect the rest of your life and relationships with preteens and teens are usually (I'm not saying always) temporary and not serious. And if he's not distracting you, then you should be fine. Just remember to keep your priorities straight. I hope this helped :)
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