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is Long distance bf losing interist?
Hi there I have a very long story for you and need you honest opinion on this! Ok here goes.....about 3months ago I met this really nice guy that just caught my attention from the beginning we went on a very awkward 1st date n I thought it would end there as he didn't seem interested but we were still chatting after that on BBM then about 2days later we hooked up again with some other people ohk to cut it I lil shorter we saw each other acouple of times after that n I found out that he had an ex that was giving him trouble n he still loved her but still I didn't give up as I knew this girl had a bad reputation and that he desired better. Ok so they made up again n tried to work things out but yet again they split up n he decided to go back home as he was from a different town we still kept in contact but it faded away after awhile till we had no contact. Then a couple of weeks ago I got a call from him out of the blue telling me that he was in jail and had a lot of time to think about what happened n that he wanted me to give him another chance at first I didn't buy the story but eventually I did as I still had a soft spot for him. He promised that he only wanted to be with me n that he will prove to me that he really wants this. So I decided to give it a try as he was really trying we skoke every day atleast twice even after he was released. He asked me to look for a job for him in my town as he wants to move back here to be with me. However for the past few days he hasn't been texting n phoning me as he use to. He also hasn't been using any pet names as he use to! I have asked him if he still wanted this and he said he does. I just wana know if you think he is being for real about this n really wants to be with me or is he losing interest?
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your guy honestly sounds like he doesn't even know what he wants and i can tell you, you're going to end up getting hurt again. Ditch the loser, and find someone better who would never make you a second choice and need four walls just to figure out they needed you. He should have known in the first place. It's true you never knew what you had till it's gone but it's ALSO true we want the things we have lost and the things we can't and shouldn't have. your the thing he lost and SHOULDN'T have.
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